Are you familiar with the name "Sister Feng"?Mentioning this name, many people may think of the woman who has become popular on the Internet in China because of various strange behaviors.
That's right, she is Luo Yufeng, the "Sister Feng" who now lives in the United States.
Today's Sister Feng is 37 years old, how did she become an overseas student from an Internet celebrity?Her life experience and mental journey, what is worth pondering?
Luo Yufeng was born in an ordinary farming family in 1984, and his family was not well-off.
The shadow of her parents' divorce haunted her even more, which brought great trauma to her young heart.
Despite living in poverty, Luo Yufeng has shown maturity and strength beyond her years since she was a child.
She often reassured her mother, who was struggling to make ends meet, that she must not add more trouble to her.
This kind of premature independence and family changes made Luo Yufeng introverted and rarely talked to others.
Friends thought she was indifferent by nature, but in fact, the girl would have countless fragrant imaginations in her heart.
It's just that I'm Xi burying these things deep in my heart, like a person living in a space built by myself.
Because of this, Luo Yufeng is more diligent than ordinary children, and she puts all her energy into her studies.
That was her only way out.
After graduating from primary school, Luo Yufeng was admitted to a high school.
During high school, she worked hard and excelled.
However, due to the financial constraints of her family, she could only choose to study in a free secondary school.
During her time at school, Luo Yufeng met many friends through the Internet and began to dabble in literary creation.
This laid the groundwork for her to become an "Internet celebrity" in the future.
In the end, although she was not admitted to the ideal university, Luo Yufeng still longed to change her fate and was determined to be ordinary.
Years of struggle have allowed Luo Yufeng to develop a tenacious character, but the loneliness in her heart is also deeper.
Sometimes in the dead of night, she would look at herself in the mirror in a daze, trying to find the answer in those bloodshot eyes.
Mom, what the hell should I go to?What do I want?These problems are like a fish in the throat and cannot be subsided for a long time.
In the 90s of the 20th century, Luo Yufeng graduated from high school and became a primary school teacher.
However, this monotonous job did not satisfy her inner ambition.
She longs to be able to make a difference and live a better life.
Day after day, Luo Yufeng watched her colleagues settle for the status quo, but her dissatisfaction grew like weeds.
Is this the end of my life?She thought to herself.
In 2008, this desire prompted Luo Yufeng to move to the bustling metropolis of Shanghai.
She hopes to find a decent job here.
But the reality is very cruel, although she has a good academic background, she has repeatedly hit a wall.
She was devastated by torture after torture, and her whole body was emaciated.
Sometimes in the early hours of the morning when she came back from overtime, she would stand quietly in the cold wind before dawn, looking at the brightly lit city in front of her, and laughing self-deprecatingly.
It turns out that there is such a huge gap between dreams and reality.
However, there is still a glimmer of hope hidden in Luo Yufeng's heart.
Maybe the next interview will be successful, maybe the next job will be a turnaround. She used these beautiful thoughts to motivate herself, and she barely managed to maintain her confidence.
After all, in this strange big city, she has no way out.
In the end, she could barely get a job as a cashier to solve the problem of food and clothing.
This job is boring and boring, which is far from Luo Yufeng's original vision.
But she had no choice but to accept the reality and accumulate work experience step by step, hoping to get the opportunity to be promoted.
In the face of this series of setbacks, Luo Yufeng did not give up.
She is still hopeful, believing that if she works hard enough, she will be able to change her fate.
After all, she is still young and has a long future ahead of her.
In 2009, by chance, Luo Yufeng met Sister Furong, the popular Internet goddess.
Sister Furong successfully became famous through her personal charm, which deeply shocked Luo Yufeng.
She realized that the Internet might provide her with a rare opportunity.
Perhaps, this is the perfect time for her to turn over!
So, Luo Yufeng has contacted several entertainment companies, hoping to become an Internet celebrity.
But her dreams fell through again, and the companies ignored her.
All along, Luo Yufeng has been Xi to facing failure.
This time, she didn't give up easily, but was determined to make a name for herself through her own efforts.
This momentum is the embodiment of the "rigidity" in Luo Yufeng's character.
She believes that no external force can decide her fate but herself.
In 2010, at a marriage campaign, Luo Yufeng put forward those incredible conditions.
This immediately detonated the Internet, and her name quickly became popular.
Since then, Luo Yufeng has become a well-known Internet celebrity.
When the news reached her ears, Luo Yufeng trembled with excitement.
I finally succeeded!For the first time in years, she felt joy so intensely.
This means that her life has finally ushered in spring, and all the struggles have not been in vain.
In the following year, she frequently appeared in major TV variety shows, endorsing advertisements, and her influence reached its peak.
However, the controversy about her has never stopped, some people ridicule her excessive self-confidence, and some people praise her courage.
In the face of doubts, Luo Yufeng always looks confident.
In fact, she can also feel lost and frightened when she is alone in the middle of the night.
Can I really take on it all?Can you keep it up?However, as soon as he thought of the struggle over the years, Luo Yufeng once again ignited his fighting spirit.
No, I must not fall at this time!
As time passed, Luo Yufeng's old routine could no longer attract attention, and the traffic began to shrink.
At this point, she intensified her efforts and used even more absurd statements to try to gain attention.
However, it has had little success and has attracted more criticism.
As a result, ** abandoned this "poisonous tongue phoenix sister", resources became less and less, and life was in a difficult situation.
This is tantamount to a bolt from the blue for Internet celebrities who rely heavily on the public's eyeballs.
It meant that everything she had worked so hard to build was in jeopardy.
In this endless loneliness and despair, Luo Yufeng finally broke down and cried.
She couldn't figure out how she didn't do well enough.
Obviously, they have tried their best, but the public's taste is so impermanent that it is unpredictable.
Maybe I'm really not a good fit to be an influencer.
She began to reflect on her life.
In the end, after pondering for a long time, Luo Yufeng had to admit that the previous methods did not work.
It's time for a change.
It was during this low period that she made a very unusual choice - to immigrate to the United States.
Perhaps, this is an opportunity to start anew.
After coming to the United States, Luo Yufeng found that the reality of life was far more difficult than she imagined.
With no savings, she had to work in low-level jobs such as manicures and pedicures to make ends meet.
At first, for a long time, she even lived in the basement.
fell from an Internet celebrity to the bottom of society, which was undoubtedly a great blow to her.
Have you ever thought that one day, you would fall to such a state where you have been on the screen?
However, reality did not give her much choice, and Luo Yufeng had to accept all this.
In this foreign country, she can only give up her self-esteem and endure humiliation.
Fortunately, Luo Yufeng has a tough personality, and these difficulties have not broken her will.
No matter how difficult the circumstances were, she never bowed to fate.
I can change everything!These six words became her inner belief.
While struggling to support, Luo Yufeng did not give up the idea of using the Internet to make money.
She is trying to replicate her success in China to the United States and regain attention.
But to her disappointment, the American audience was not interested in the conditions she proposed, and she suffered another failure.
This failure made Luo Yufeng realize that I was no longer the "Sister Feng" I was back then.
Maybe it's time to change your mindset and take on a new challenge.
This failure seems to have made Luo Yufeng reflect deeply.
Maybe it's time for me to change my mind, she thought.
In the days that followed, she began to work hard to adapt to life in the United States, learn Xi English, and integrate into the local community.
She realized that in order to gain a foothold in the United States, she had to have a deep understanding of the culture.
So Luo Yufeng began to learn Xi American customs and folklore through various channels.
She also no longer pretends to be high-profile, but humbly listens to others' opinions.
In the end, with unremitting efforts, she reaped the first line of life.
In 2022, 37-year-old Luo Yufeng was successfully admitted to a university in New York.
This is not only an opportunity to go on to higher education, but also represents her officially entering the mainstream society in the United States and starting a new life.
The moment she got the admission letter, the long-lost joy filled Luo Yufeng's heart again.
It turns out that as long as you don't admit defeat and persist until the end, hope will appear.
This time, she was determined to take advantage of the opportunity and prove that she was no worse than anyone else.
Maybe one day in the future, this legendary story will be made into a movie to inspire more people.
Now it seems that her efforts have not been in vain.
In a recent photo, Luo Yufeng and a man are strolling through the streets of New York.
The two are intimate, and it seems that she is not only successful in her studies, but also has a good love life.
Looking back on Luo Yufeng's life experience, we can't help but think deeply: how can an ordinary woman turn from danger to safety in the face of many difficulties and finally succeed?
The most important of these seems to be the spirit of perseverance.
Luo Yufeng, who grew up in a poor family, did not choose to give in in the face of the unfairness of life, but continued to struggle and look for opportunities.
Even if she failed several times, she never gave up the pursuit of a better life.