When there is a gap in communication between us and our children, have we ever felt powerless, but the bitterness in our hearts is difficult to convey?Dong Yuhui's words are like a dawn light, illuminating the fog between us and our children.
Don't reason with your child, you say that you will find a good job after taking a good high school or university, he can't understand it, he can't understand why his parents are trying to persuade him to study hard, he thinks that working part-time is much easier than studying, so he should tell them in words that they understand. This is not just a paragraph, but also an insight into the parent-child relationship.
We were also children, and we were also confused by the admonitions of adults as children. Nowadays, with the passage of time and the passage of time, we have become adults, can we truly understand and communicate with children's curiosity and impulse to the unknown?
The children's world is innocent and immediate, and their eyes are only the joy and sorrow in front of them. For us adults, we see more of the path and choices of the future. But this difference often leads to our communication becoming the same thing.
But remember, every child is an individual with their own thoughts and feelings. We can't just shape them with our experience, but we have to really understand them and enter their world.
When we let go of those lofty truths and communicate with them in the language of children, we will find that in fact, they understand everything, but the way they express it is different from ours. What we need to do is to use their language to communicate with them and inspire them to think about the world.
We can use short stories to arouse their interest and make them feel the meaning of reading while listening to the story. We can tell them why birds fly high and why they flap their wings. We can share the stories of our friends and let them know that reading can really change their lives.
When we plant this seed of "reading" in our children's hearts, we are actually sowing a precious gift for their lives. This gift will slowly take root over time and become an integral part of their lives.
We want our children to know that studying is not only to find a good job, but also to broaden their horizons and enrich their inner world. We want to guide them to think, to explore, to discover the infinite possibilities of this world.
When there is a communication gap between us and our children, we should not forget our original intention. We need to understand them with love and patience and accompany them to grow up. We must believe that as long as we communicate with our children and guide them to grow with our hearts, they will definitely feel our love and care.
Let's cross the generation gap together and go to a spiritual appointment with our children. Let's feel the power of reading together and write a better future together!