Some children are always reluctant to learn Xi, and only when their parents are angry will they slowly begin to memorize knowledge points, do questions, read books, etc. This shows that children are not motivated to learn Xi, so if you want to improve their enthusiasm, you must start from the root and find the reason before you can solve it in a targeted manner. So, how to cultivate children's self-learning Xi ability? Reasons for the lack of motivation to Xi
The first point is that there is no distinction between proper play and indulgent play. Children are naturally playful, but when some parents see them playing, they will forcefully block their interest and reprimand their children for their playfulness with nasty words.
This often leads to: The child thinks, why can't I play? What is my time occupying? It's Xi to be learned, because I have to learn Xi, so I can't play; Because I had to study Xi, I was deprived of my interest. Over time, they will lose motivation and even resent Xi learning.
For parents, nothing is more concerned about their children's learning and Xi. But many times at a loss, it is better to find a professional at this time, or ask experienced people who have come over, in fact, what children want most is to see their efforts rewarded! For the sprint for the exam, my child did it under the planning of Tutu Classroom, and it was a targeted strategy plan made for the child's current situation, which saved me a lot of worry!
The second point is that the parent-child relationship is not good. Poor parent-child relationship is one of the biggest obstacles for children to learn Xi, because learning Xi Xi is mental work, which requires learners to have a good psychological and emotional state, if the relationship between children and parents is not good, poor communication, it will affect their emotions and psychology, and will inevitably have an impact on Xi.
Because the child is still young, when he encounters difficulties in school Xi, what he needs most is to get support and help from his parents. Especially when the exam is not good, the child is also very uncomfortable, and at this time the most need for the comfort and understanding of the parents.
However, many parents often give their children not support and understanding at this critical time, but criticize and complain. This practice is the most harmful to children's enthusiasm for learning and Xi, and it is also the main reason for poor parent-child relationship.
The third point is misconception. A child's lack of motivation is a sign that this is not what they want to do. Moreover, many children mistakenly believe that learning Xi for others, which may be the wrong guidance given by parents at the beginning of learning Xi.
Some parents may use material rewards to induce their children to learn Xi, so that learning Xi becomes a task. Over time, they will become tired of this type of education, which will lead to the idea of being tired of learning.
Fourth, there is no good way. The development of such students' learning Xi skills lags behind, and the methods are inappropriate, and the tasks assigned by teachers or parents are often not completed, and they are easy to fall into a sea of books and problems, resulting in knowledge loopholes. There is an urgent need to improve skills such as academic goal management ability, time management ability, classroom learning Xi efficiency, and Xi skills of various disciplines.
How to cultivate children's self-directed learning Xi ability? What to do if your child is not motivated to learn Xi
1. Task subdivision to enhance achievement motivation. When helping children make Xi learning plans, parents can subdivide their Xi goals into small goals, and improve their children's motivation to achieve after completing the small goals again and again. Because many students procrastinate and do not concentrate on Xi learning, it is often because they feel bored, which reduces the efficiency of learning Xi. In this regard, parents can use psychological and behavioral cognitive techniques to improve their children's learning and Xi efficiency.
2. Protect curiosity and interest. Children are naturally curious about the world, they begin to touch with their hands, taste with their mouths, observe with their eyes, and when they are older, they begin to think with their heads and ask all kinds of questions. The process of finding "what", "why", and "how" is the process of building up their self-driving ability, and the process of rapid development of thinking and intelligence.
For how to cultivate children's independent learning ability Xi sharing, parents must focus on guiding their children not to die Xi learning, the knowledge of primary school is still relatively simple, and finding the symptoms can definitely improve grades.
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