There is a saying that is true: "A woman's heart, a needle under the sea." There are also people who use the weather in June to describe a woman's heart, cloudy and unpredictable.
This description exists because men often find it difficult to see into women's hearts, let alone understand them all. Not only are women emotionally changeable, but girls who are caught up in the world of feelings often seem shy, they lack the courage to express their emotions directly, so they will choose other ways to convey their feelings for you.
Some girls, after liking you, will respond to your messages as quickly as possible, often reach out to you, ask for your help, don't mind being alone with you, and will even share their secrets and inner thoughts.
Other girls, however, prefer to verbally express their emotions. If there is a girl who frequently uses the following three signs, it may indicate that she wants to build a closer relationship with you, see if there is such a girl around you.
What are your criteria for choosing a mate, I can help you find one
Everyone's mate selection criteria are different, and some girls are reluctant to express their emotions directly, and usually explore each other's mate selection criteria in a suggestive way, which has become one of the ways for them to get close.
For example, there is a girl named Xinya who re-meets someone she hasn't been in touch with for years at a class reunion"Male god", although the two did not contact each other again after graduation. But she still has expectations for the boy, so she asks for his new *** at the class reunion, and the two start getting to know each other again. During the conversation, Xinya kept testing if the other party had a girlfriend, until after confirmation, she asked, "What are your criteria for choosing a mate?"I can help you find one. ”
The intention behind this kind of question is very clear, Xinya wants to be the other party's girlfriend. This kind of questioning not only allows her to understand the other person's mate selection criteria, but also allows her to know what she needs to improve to meet the other person's mate selection criteria. In fact, she even expressed her willingness to introduce potential people to the other party.
This kind of question is a consideration of how likely she is to be a couple with the other person, and if a girl asks this kind of question, she may be sending a message to you that she is interested in you.
Can you talk to me?I'm in a bad mood
It's not easy to find someone close to you, especially when you meet someone you like again. Xinya initially offered to introduce him to someone in her quest for the male god, and although she didn't let the male god perceive her true intentions, she didn't give up easily. On the contrary, she actively chats with male gods and constantly cultivates feelings.
When she is in a bad mood, the first person she thinks of is a male god, and she will take the initiative to ask him, "Can you chat with me?"I'm in a bad moodThis behavior makes Xinya's meaning obvious, and she tells the male god that talking to him can make her emotionally free and forget about unpleasant things.
These two gestures made the male god understand Xinya's true intentions, and finally the two successfully came together. You know, when a girl is in a bad mood, the first person she wants to rely on is usually someone she can trust, and this is also the person she thinks will be able to confide in.
If you don't have a girlfriend, see if I can
Some girls may be vague when confronted with someone they like, while others may be more obvious. For example, a girl who likes you might jokingly say in front of you, "If you don't have a girlfriend, see if I can?"”
In fact, she said this with a deep desire to be your girlfriend, and she wanted to get a positive response from you. The girl is usually more reserved and does not say such a joke to a person who does not matter to her.
So when a girl makes such a joke with you, don't rush to take it as a joke and don't simply take it as a joke. If you think back to your experience, you may understand that she is not just joking with you, but trying to express her feelings for you.
The development of feelings is often unexpected, and the lives of two people may intersect in an instant, which is difficult. If there is a girl who develops feelings for you and tries to express her emotions through some hints, then you have to seize this opportunity and cherish the fate between you. Feelings are a precious thing that is difficult to ** and control, so cherish the opportunity of the moment.