In this uncertain world, it is often said that a man's mind is as unpredictable and unpredictable as the weather. However, there are some sensitive points in men's hearts that are called "emotional dead holes", and if women can deeply understand and treat them properly, they will be able to walk more steadily on the journey of feelings.
Especially these three emotional dead points, women must know. In this way, you can better manage a relationship and keep the intimacy fresh for a long time.
01, the man's past:
Everyone has a past, maybe it is a time from the darkest to the darkest, maybe it is an unforgettable time. Everyone has their own past, it is our memories and our secrets. It was their scar, a sensitive area of their heart that could not be reached.
A wise woman learns to embrace a man's past and let it be a catalyst for each other's feelings.
When a man shares his past with you, you want to show that you are listening and understanding. Try to understand his past experiences and growth, respect his past, and don't try to change or blame his past. If a woman must investigate the man's past at this time, it will only make him rebellious.
02: Men's Spiritual Needs:
Men also need care and support emotionally, especially when they are facing stress, frustration, or confusion. As his partner, you need to pay attention to his spiritual needs and give him enough space and encouragement to stimulate his inner motivation. Men are more concerned about their spiritual needs than love. When two people get along like this, they will definitely have a perfect ending and will not leave themselves with any regrets.
Men are Xi to pretending to be strong, like to hide their negative emotions and thoughts, as for the inner scars, they often digest them alone in the dead of night. Therefore, women should pay more attention to the spiritual world of men, especially those needs that he cannot speak. Lovers can rely on each other and take care of each other.
03: A man's self-esteem:
Self-esteem is essential for everyone, especially men. In public, women should learn to maintain a man's face. In life, something unsatisfactory will always happen. At this time, women should learn to tolerate and forgive men's mistakes, instead of harshly blaming and sarcastic.
In life, there are some men who are not afraid of hard work and hardship, and even in the face of hardship, they will become more and more courageous. However, they are afraid of hurting their self-esteem, especially the woman they love who will suspect their incompetence and ridicule themselves for being inferior to others. Therefore, women still have to learn to take care of men's self-esteem when necessary.
In fact, there is no long-lasting love, long-lasting feelings, all need to be maintained with love. The simplest and most straightforward way to love a man is to understand his emotional deaths, and then cherish each other and take care of him with his heart.
They often hide their emotional dead holes and don't want women to know. And if a woman doesn't know how to understand and care for a man's emotional dead end, it will be difficult to maintain a long-term relationship. In the end, I hope we can all have a partner to accompany us for a lifetime: smile and know each other deeply, love each other deeply, be happy for a long time, meet and pity together, and grow old without words.