It's really the most heart-wrenching thing, especially in a royal family.
If Concubine Rong had kept this sentence in mind when she first entered the palace, I believe she would not have died so tragically in the end.
In the whole play, Concubine Rong is one of the most sympathetic characters, she has a kind temperament, but in the end she is brutally murdered under the pressure of the toilet, and when she goes to death, she must be full of despair and anger.
It was precisely because of Concubine Rong's tragic death that Emperor Kangxi was hated by countless audiences.
In fact, he was also deeply tormented. After learning the news of Concubine Rong's death, he burst into tears and asked to be buried with her in the future.
Does Kangxi love or hate Concubine Rong, and is this belated affection cheaper than grass?
Why let her wash the toilet, make her lose face, if it is love, why should she be buried with her?If you hate, why should you be buried with her?
Let's revisit the emotional entanglement between them today and see what kind of helpless emotions are hidden.
The most beautiful girl in his mind was her.
As a famous emperor through the ages, Emperor Kangxi's political achievements do not need to be repeated.
However, only Concubine Rong shows the emotional experience of Emperor Kangxi as a real person in Kangxi's emotional world, allowing us to see that he also has joys, sorrows, and sorrows.
Emperor Kangxi's feelings for Concubine Rong can be said to be extremely deep, and even in his heart, Concubine Rong should be regarded as his only wife.
Concubine Rong's appearance is very likable, and even when she appeared for the first time, even Emperor Kangxi was overwhelmed by her beauty, and the audience was also moved.
Concubine Rong's eyebrows were affectionate, and at first sight, she revealed a touching look, such a gentle and virtuous woman with good looks, who can not be overwhelmed?
Some people think that Kangxi is like a brother and sister to Su Mala, but in fact, they are more of a brother and sister relationship. Only Concubine Rong can truly win Kangxi's manly love.
Kangxi's deep affection for Concubine Rong is due to her difference and the bits and pieces that the two have experienced together.
In ancient times, once you contracted malaria, you were in danger of death.
In this case, only Concubine Rong crossed the obstacle without scruples, walked to Kangxi in person, and took care of him day and night. And Concubine Rong even ignored the danger and tried the medicine herself. Concubine Rong at this time, even if she is asked to sacrifice her life for Kangxi, I believe she will not hesitate.
When you are sick, people are fragile, and when Kangxi sees the woman serving in front of the bed, how can he not cherish her more?
Kangxi fell deeply in love with Concubine Rong because of her kindness, intelligence, and wisdom, and these qualities were filled with love in her eyes, making the initial relationship between the two absolutely sincere.
In Concubine Rong, it can be said that Kangxi broke many traditional rules.
As a Han Chinese, although Concubine Rong did not give birth to a son, she was promoted to the imperial concubine, and she and Kangxi's beloved daughter Lan Qier were also promoted to Gege. Isn't this an obvious exclusive favor?
Kangxi allowed his homesick lover Concubine Rong to return to her hometown to visit her family, and also allowed her to stay at home for a while.
In the palace at the time, this was unprecedented.
Emperor Kangxi favored Concubine Rong, and it was out of his deep love and trust in her that he could be so calm. Kangxi believed in Concubine Rong's character and believed that she would not behave in a way that would displease him, so he was relieved to let her go home to save her family.
Some experts have conducted an in-depth analysis of why Emperor Kangxi especially loved Concubine Rong.
In terms of appearance, there are many beautiful women in the harem;And in terms of talent, all the women in the harem have excellent talents.
Concubine Rong chose another path, she regarded Kangxi as her husband, not the monarch. She showed genuine affection.
As an emperor, Kangxi was very busy and at the same time felt lonely. In his heart, no one wants to be honest with him.
Therefore, Kangxi was quite lonely in his heart, and at this moment, Concubine Rong broke into his spiritual world.
Emperor Kangxi poured out his heart to Concubine Rong unreservedly, and even disregarded the rules of courtesy in the harem to discuss court affairs with her in person. In front of Concubine Rong, he could express his thoughts without reservation.
Concubine Rong has never tried to fight for any power like other concubines.
Not only did he really think about the emperor, but he also recommended Li Guangdi, an important minister. Kangxi trusted Concubine Rong, and it was precisely because of Concubine Rong's intelligence that she was able to gain favor for many years and accompanied Kangxi day after day.
He eventually still became the emperor of the Qing Dynasty.
When he has love for you, your kindness and integrity are your merits;But once he no longer loves you, everything you do will be seen as wrong.
Concubine Rong's kindness has long been known to Kangxi, and he loves her deeply and tolerates everything about her. However, Concubine Rong eventually made a big mistake, and this was because she took Kangxi's favor for many years for granted. This kind of real temperament makes it difficult for Kangxi to get out of trouble.
Kangxi is a man with a fighting spirit in his heart, and he is also a man who values his career more than anything else. The initial estrangement between him and Concubine Rong stemmed from the moment when he married Lan Qi'er to Geerdan.
Concubine Rong couldn't imagine that Kangxi would bear to let her beloved daughter go to such a land of tigers and wolves.
Kangxi did not hesitate to marry Lan Qi'er to Geerdan, despite Concubine Rong's plea. Therefore, this incident made Concubine Rong very disappointed in Kangxi.
Kangxi felt deeply guilty, and his heart was like a knife. However, as the emperor of the Qing Dynasty, he could not abandon the country and put the country in danger for the sake of personal feelings.
This time, Kangxi felt that Concubine Rong's behavior was incomprehensible for the first time, and it was also the first time that he realized that his former lover had become so strange.
Despite this, Concubine Rong is still a kind-hearted woman who fulfills her responsibilities as a wife wholeheartedly, and although there is a gap between the two, neither of them has broken the window paper between them.
When the two armies were fighting, what really made Concubine Rong see Kangxi's true face was the order he issued: "No matter who the other party is, as long as they stop us, they will all be killed." ”
Concubine Rong overestimated herself and her daughter Lan Qi'er, so the two of them seemed a little too much when they hugged each other and cried bitterly.
Their tears are shed for their own fate;It's to cry for the dilemma of not being able to change your fate as a woman. At that moment, Concubine Rong's heart was probably completely cold.
Although they survived unscathed, their hearts have died on the battlefield. Once the two were deeply in love, but now it has become Concubine Rong's hatred for Kangxi. Imagine what kind of conflict will arise as hatred accumulates
Concubine Rong has no way out, at this time she can only return to the palace to accompany Kangxi again, even if she looks good, she is also doing her duty as a wife.
Then Concubine Rong kept making mistakes, which angered Kangxi and angered him. When Kangxi decided to abolish the crown prince, Concubine Rong did not care about Kangxi's face, accused him in public, and even invoked the edict of the Empress Dowager Xiaozhuang.
This kind of public slap in the face not only made it difficult for Kangxi to calm down, but also aroused his great anger.
The contradiction between them finally broke out completely, and Concubine Rong also made a mistake that all harem women should not make - too self-centered.
Concubine Rong thought that the emperor was her husband, and her favor over the years made her think that her status was comparable to that of the country, and her favor made her heart be blinded. However, the emperor only selfishly regarded her as his plaything, how could he tolerate his selfish desires?This relationship between children and daughters eventually led to a catastrophe ......
Emotions are intertwined, love and hatred come one after another.
Concubine Rong finally released Hongyu privately because she was too kind, completely crushing all Kangxi's feelings for her, and was demoted to a slave because of this.
From then on, Kangxi began to turn a blind eye and let other concubines bully Concubine Rong, even when he learned that Concubine Rong was cleaning the toilet, he had no mercy.
The gentleman didn't believe his words, how painful Kangxi's heart was in countless late nights, but he couldn't bear to face Concubine Rong again.
Concubine Rong always believed that the emperor would come back to pick her up, and until the last moment of her life, she was still waiting for Kangxi.
Because the knot between the two has always been difficult to untie, Kangxi was so sad after Concubine Rong's death, and even asked to be buried with her.
Kangxi has complex feelings for Concubine Rong, loving and hating deeply, and this emotion eventually led to the irreversible ending of the relationship between the two......
Concubine Rong's kindness is understandable, but her mistake lies in choosing the wrong place. In the harem, kindness can eventually become a disservice to oneself.