In the original work of "Blood Romance", Yuan Jun and Zhou Xiaobai got married, and after a long period of pursuit, Zhou Xiaobai finally agreed to marry him.
However, for many years after their marriage, Zhou Xiaobai's relationship with Yuan Jun did not seem to be harmonious, and their marriage was not so happy from the beginning.
Although Zhou Xiaobai married Yuan Jun, Zhong Yuemin still remained deeply in her heart.
Yuan Jun knows Zhou Xiaobai's inner world very well, and he always stands next to Zhou Xiaobai silently, giving her the deepest magnanimity.
Without Yuan Jun's selfless care and protection, Zhou Xiaobai's fate would be to enter middle age, his face is no longer there, and due to the obsession in his heart, he is likely to spend the rest of his life alone, even if he realizes it one day, it may be that it is too late to regret it.
Zhong Yuemin is undoubtedly a fateful emotional crisis for Zhou Xiaobai, and Yuan Jun is the one who can save her.
The reason why Yuan Jun was able to do this is just like Zhou Xiaobai's deep affection for Zhong Yuemin, and his love for Zhou Xiaobai is also deep and moving.
Zhou Xiaobai, a kind person, is worthy of being loved.
Zhou Xiaobai's emotional "axis" towards Zhong Yuemin is puzzling, but in fact, she is a very good girl, so Yuan Jun's deep affection for her is not surprising.
Zhou Xiaobai is a very kind person.
Yuan Jun once had a relationship with Zhou Xiaobai's close friend Luo Yun, but due to Luo Yun's initiative to show love, Yuan Jun was in a passive attitude, and the two eventually became a couple.
When Yuan Jun was digging a tunnel in the army, he was unfortunately injured by a squib and taken to the hospital. As Yuan Jun's girlfriend, Luo Yun's mind is filled with thoughts about whether Yuan Jun "will become disabled", believing that taking care of him "may have a negative impact on her performance and pose a threat to her future". Her thoughts were full of utilitarianism, and she didn't have the sense of responsibility that should be due in a difficult situation.
Zhou Xiaobai and Yuan Jun are just ordinary friends, she doesn't care about the opinions of the outside world, she doesn't worry about the impact on her future, as long as she has free time, she will go to the ward to take care of Yuan Jun.
This period allowed the two to get to know each other better.
Yuan Jun observed that Zhou Xiaobai, an affectionate person, was troubled by Zhong Yuemin, and as Zhong Yuemin's closest friend, he knew Zhong Yuemin's way of dealing with feelings.
In fact, when Zhong Yuemin and Zhou Xiaobai first started dating, he already had a premonition that their relationship would end sooner or later. Because he felt that he was a very attractive and difficult person to get along with. He and Zhong Yuemin grew up together since childhood and have a deep understanding of him. He is a man who chooses to give up in the midst of chaos. When it comes to getting married and starting a family, he may never have thought about it. If one day someone forces him to marry a wife and return home, he would rather choose to end his life.
It is precisely because of my understanding of her that I feel even more distressed about the silly girl in front of me.
Yuan Jun used to have an impression of Zhou Xiaobai as arrogant and unapproachable, but when he really got in touch with Zhou Xiaobai and confessed his feelings for Zhong Yuemin, he gradually realized this innocent and persistent girl in love.
The girl values friendship and righteousness. When Yuan Jun was seriously injured and needed care, Zhou Xiaobai did not hesitate to lend a hand. Although Yuan Jun may have been misunderstood, he did not back down, which deeply touched Yuan Jun.
Zhou Xiaobai's care and companionship provided Yuan Jun with great spiritual comfort, enabling him to quickly recover his health and rejoin the team smoothly.
It was at that moment that Yuan Jun developed a deep affection for Zhou Xiaobai.
In fact, a girl like Zhou Xiaobai who is both beautiful and honest and kind, there are really many men who love her deeply, but Zhong Yuemin does not cherish them.
Therefore, women should not be too attached to the reason of death, because the ocean of pain is endless, and happiness will only come if you turn your gaze.
Yuan Jun's deep and humble love story.
Some people believe that loving someone deeply, even if you can't get her affection, is a kind of happiness to be with her.
Yuan Jun is indeed so, but such happiness is too insignificant.
He has deep affection for Zhou Xiaobai, but Zhou Xiaobai only loves Zhong Yuemin in his heart. In front of Yuan Jun, she never hid her emotions, and when Yuan Jun expressed his love to her, she told Yuan Jun:
You are not only my closest friend, but also my most trusted partner, but it may take more time for me to truly love you. You say you love me, but I know I don't really like you. I really don't want to hide it from you, even though Zhong Yuemin hurt me, he always occupies a place in my heart, and I will always remember him.
I know that he loves me very much, and I know that he will love me, and I believe that he will cherish me. But you can rest assured, I will not sit back and wait for him to have mercy on me, I have my dignity, those that are not mine, I do not want.
Zhou Xiaobai is a person who is both frank and domineering, and she neither agrees with Yuan Jun nor directly refuses, which gives Yuan Jun a glimmer of hope. However, she also wanted to tell Yuan Jun: I still need to remember Zhong Yuemin in my heart, if you want to be with me, then you should accept him.
Because Yuan Jun has an in-depth understanding of Zhou Xiaobai's inner world, he shows great magnanimity to her.
He needs to wait a bit.
On the one hand, he is looking forward to Zhou Xiaobai's affectionate confession to him, and on the other hand, after Zhou Xiaobai agrees to become his wife, he hopes that she can think deeply.
In the relationship between Yuan Jun and Zhou Xiaobai, he has always carefully maintained the bond between them, giving people the impression of being full of tension and fear.
That's how it was before getting married.
When Yuan Jun learned that Zhou Xiaobai was willing to marry him, he was overjoyed and completely overwhelmed.
That's not what I want to say, and I'm naturally very eager for it. But the problem was that I was completely unprepared. A few minutes ago, our relationship was just ordinary friends, and you suddenly offered to be my fiancée and didn't even give me some time to get used to it. It feels a little like I'm dreaming
This is especially true after marriage.
In front of Yuan Jun, Zhou Xiaobai showed excessive concern and irresistible love for Zhong Yuemin, and Yuan Jun also agreed on the side.
When Zhong Yuemin returned from the army, he refused the position assigned to him, and when everyone welcomed him, he chose to sell miserably.
Zhou Xiaobai said to him: "Please don't say that, isn't this that I just finished my career?."My new life hasn't started yet, and if there's anything I need help with, I'm sure everyone will do their best. I really don't believe that the best among us will not find a job. ”
Zheng Tong said half-jokingly: "Yuan Jun, listening to your wife praise Yuemin, are you in a sour mood at the moment?"”
Jiang Biyun stopped him and said, "You're talking nonsense, are you kidding?"”
Yuan Jun said: "Don't worry, our brothers have Xi used to joking. And, what else would I do if it weren't for Yuemin continuing to maintain his style?This Zhou Xiaobai, I think only Yuemin has the ability to ** her. If Yuemin becomes her husband, she will ask her to make a foot wash every day, unlike me, because she has no status in the family, so she can decide everything and even not allow her to smoke. ”
Still, I'm sure Yuan Jun may still feel sour in his heart. His wife shows meticulous care for her ex-boyfriend in front of him, which is probably unbearable for any man.
Yuan Jun smiled like this and endured it.
In married life, Yuan Jun felt extremely aggrieved and humble, and the reason why he was able to do this was not because of his incompetence, but because he loved Zhou Xiaobai deeply.
Zhou Xiaobai's behavior is extremely cold and selfish, he can't squander love so freely.
It's incomprehensible when a man loves you dearly, and you hurt him for another man who doesn't really love you.
And, the men who are with you seem to be more appropriate.
Yuan Jun is a wonderful man who can provide women with a sense of security.
Yuan Jun and Zhong Yuemin were both born in the compound, and when they were young, they often clashed and caused trouble, and they were both stubborn people in the family.
When he first joined the army, he had a dissatisfied attitude towards both the squad leader and the company commander, so he was placed under house arrest, had a cynical attitude towards life, and lacked self-motivation.
Yuan Jun's transformation occurred after he developed feelings for Zhou Xiaobai.
Yuan Jun holds the view that when a person really enters the stage of love, he should show a mature side. If you cause trouble frequently, then the person you love dearly may feel insecure, and what woman doesn't like a man who gives her security?
With this concept, Yuan Jun completely changed himself, and he had a clear view of himself, that is, to serve in the army for the rest of his life.
Compared with Zhong Yuemin's men, who pursue personal satisfaction and experience various life experiences, there are more men who need to provide women with a sense of security, while the other is more focused on personal happiness and therefore has a more prominent social status.
Yuan Jun is a down-to-earth, hard-working person, starting from serving as a squad leader, he steadily marched towards the goal, truly devoted himself to the battlefield, his combat courage and wisdom made him receive the honor of first-class merit.
Yuan Jun had great success in his career, and he took the initiative to request from the General Administration to return to his original unit as a deputy division, with the goal of becoming a general.
Yuan Jun did not possess the complex temperament that Zhong Yuemin possessed, for example, he knew nothing about symphony or romance. Although he may not be as charismatic as Zhong Yuemin, he is a man who can provide a stable home and a comfortable life for women.
Although he knew that Zhou Xiaobai did not have a place in his heart, his loyalty and magnanimity made him willing to wait patiently for Zhou Xiaobai's change, and Zhong Yuemin would definitely not be able to do this.
From a personality point of view, Yuan Jun is a person who is easily satisfied and can live a comfortable life in peace. Compared with Zhong Yuemin, Zhong Yuemin is a person who sees things differently and is keen to pursue novelty and exciting life, and such a man is more suitable as a woman's partner.
However, women are sometimes more attracted to men like Chung Yuemin, believing that such men have more personality. But when they really live with such men, they realize that life is difficult. What a family needs is stability and tranquility, while children need a good environment to grow up in. However, such men cannot meet their needs unless they are willing to give up their children and spend their lives with men. But the question is, is it really possible for a woman to be adrift all her life?
Please cherish the person in front of you and don't be too pretentious.
Zhou Xiaobai's love for Zhong Yuemin is unwavering, and even if she is rejected, her emotions have not changed. Although it is often said that she is simple and persistent, in reality, she is too naïve and contrived.
At the age of seventeen or eighteen, love is so innocent and beautiful, but at that time we really don't know anything about love, and it is easy to change each other's feelings, after the breakup, we have all had pain and tears, and it is enough to commemorate this relationship for a while.
However, it takes decades to reminisce and immerse in it.
Yuan Jun underestimated Zhou Xiaobai's persistence and overestimated his own value, he thought that with his own love and protection, give Zhou Xiaobai some time, she will use time to erase the wounds in her heart and fall in love with him.
However, after a long time, finally one night, when Zhou Xiaobai cried again in his dream and called out Zhong Yuemin's name, Yuan Jun felt both crying and angry.
He suggested ending the marriage.
Fortunately, under Yuan Jun's anger, Zhou Xiaobai finally came to his senses.
Yuan Jun never got angry at me, but his sudden appearance really surprised me. Thinking back to his meticulous care for me over the years, I deeply felt how unreasonable I was. Now that he's done everything he's supposed to do, what else do you want?But anyway, he didn't make any mistakes, it was entirely my fault. I told Yuan Jun, 'I didn't do well, I hope you can forgive me, I don't want to divorce you because I love you deeply'. ”
Zhou Xiaobai has finally entered the middle age of her life, decades have passed, and she has successfully walked out of the misunderstanding of emotions. Between her and Yuan Jun, without the company of others, they can think about each other wholeheartedly and live happily for the rest of their lives.
Thanks to the existence of Yuan Jun, Zhou Xiaobai became very lucky.
Still, I feel sorry for her because she wasted so much precious time. This is also described in **. If, in real life, a man is able to wait for decades and then let go prematurely, then the woman loses the person who truly loves her and the opportunity to enjoy a happy life.
Therefore, we still need to go back to real life. Those who have put in countless efforts and care for you in their lives have emotions that go far beyond that unattainable lover in our hearts. We should cherish those who truly love you and repay them with sincere love, because only such people are the ones we should really love.
Let the good memories of the past drift away with the wind, no matter how beautiful it is, it is only a part of the past.
Women can be reserved, but don't be too pretentious, because in real life, not all men are Yuan Jun.