Title:"Family wealth battle: two houses for an ashtray, brothers reunited after 6 years"
Li Ying, 83, has three sons, and her husband is 10 years older than her, a veteran of the War of Resistance Against Japanese Aggression
In the first half of her life, she followed her husband to fight in the north and south, and made great contributions to national construction.
After retiring, her husband was assigned to a state-owned enterprise as an executive, and his life gradually stabilized.
The eldest son, Chen Wen, once had a formal job, but he was dissatisfied with the status quo and resolutely resigned and ran around.
In the end, the money could not be saved, but life was getting worse year by year, and his wife could not see hope, so she left him.
The second son, Chen Wu, was in poor health and could only work odd jobs to make ends meet.
Years later, his wife also chose to leave him.
Only the third son, Chen Bin, was well-behaved and obedient since he was a child, and later became an executive of a unit, and his family life was happy.
Faced with the difficult life of the eldest son and the second son, Li Ying decided to transfer the two properties to the eldest and second children respectively after discussing with her husband.
However, the news spread, and soon after, the third son came to question his parents after learning of the incident.
He thinks he's a son, why didn't he get any allocation?He thinks his parents are too biased.
However, before Li Ying and his wife could explain, the eldest son and the second son rushed to hear the news and expressed their wishes for the property.
In a fit of rage, the eldest son picked up an ashtray and smashed it on the third son's head, causing blood to flow and he had to go to the hospital for 8 stitches.
It was thought that this would lead the parents to re-plan the distribution of the property, but a few days later, the parents still transferred the property to their eldest son.
This made the third child feel very angry, and he didn't go home to see his parents for 6 consecutive years
Not long ago, their 93-year-old father died, and the unit issued a pension of 240,000 yuan, which should have been half of the mother's share and the other half of the three sons.
However, thinking that the third child had not returned home for 6 consecutive years, and did not even attend his father's funeral, Li Ying made up his mind not to give the third child this money.
Therefore, she took the eldest and second child to the bank to withdraw money, but was told that her three sons had to sign together to receive the pension.
Li Ying had to give the third child a **, hoping that he would go over and sign.
However, the third said that he could sign it, but only if he had to share half of his pension, otherwise he would rather donate to the state than let the eldest brother get the money.
In order to get the pension as soon as possible, the boss had many friendly negotiations with the third child in private, but the third child was resolute and ended in unhappiness every time.
As a result, the matter of the pension has been delayed for three months.
Seeing that he couldn't convince the third child, the boss had to call in a mediator for help.
Facing the mediator, the mother Li Ying said with a sad face that in fact, among her three sons, only the third child is the most filial and considerate, and he bought several electrical appliances for the family in the first few years of work, bought us cotton pants when it was cold, and installed air conditioning for the house when it was hot.
What neither the eldest nor the second child thought of, the third child carefully arranged.
However, in the past 6 years, as long as the third child meets his mother on the street, he will not call her, even if his wife is critically ill and the eldest brother calls him, he will not come.
In the end, he asked his wife to leave with regret, and he didn't even attend his wife's funeral.
In order to find out the truth of the matter, the boss brought the mediator to the third child's house
However, as soon as the brothers met, the eldest angrily accused the third child: "Mother had surgery, father was critically ill and beat you, you didn't come, you didn't even attend your father's funeral, you are unfilial and unfaithful, just a person like you, there are friends around you, and you are also friends of wine and meat." ”
The third child explained: "When my mother had surgery, I was also undergoing surgery, and my father was seriously ill, so you didn't notify me at all, and there was nothing you could do when he died, so you called ** to inform me later."
As for not attending the funeral, it was because I was unwell and really couldn't go over. ”
However, the eldest obviously did not believe the explanation of the third child, and continued to accuse him of being unfilial with sharp words, taking care of his father for six years, and the third child did not even show his face, and asked for half of his father's pension!The two began to argue, and the mediator quickly pulled the third child aside, and he told the truth of the matter.
It turned out that the eldest brother beat him more than once because of the house, once he hit him with an ashtray, and once at a party, the brothers brought up the real estate issue, and the eldest brother immediately picked up a kitchen knife from the kitchen and drove the third child, his wife and children out.
The reason why the third child has not returned home for six years is because he is worried about another conflict with his eldest brother.
At that time, his parents did not support him, and he made the greatest contribution to the family over the years, but he was not recognized by his family, and he felt very cold.
In the third child's view, the eldest brother can be said to be unscrupulous for the sake of the house, and if the pension is in hand, the eldest will sooner or later occupy his father's share.
Rather than that, he would rather get no one at all.
Everyone began to take turns to persuade the third child, after all, in the past six years, he owed his filial piety to his parents.
However, no matter how much persuasion was given, the third child still insisted on taking half of the pension, otherwise he would rather donate it to the state than let the eldest brother get it.
The mother said that she did transfer the house to the eldest six years ago, but sold it to him at a ** price lower than the market price.
In the past few years, the boss's life has been difficult, and as parents, they have not favored the boss.
That time, the boss smashed the third child with an ashtray, and afterwards the old woman slapped the boss a few times, blaming him for not doing anything to his younger brother.
Since then, the third child has never come to the door again.
At the mention of the third child, the mother choked up a little.
In order to better mediate, the mediator invited the third child to his parents' home
After the mother and son met, the third child immediately apologized to her for not visiting her mother for many years.
When my mother heard this, she couldn't help but say angrily: "There is a conflict between brothers, and you have a prejudice against me, but that cannot be a reason for you to ignore us for the past six years.
My grandson didn't notify me of his marriage, he still had conflicts with the boss, he didn't come, and he even prevented his daughter-in-law and grandson from coming to me, have you considered my feelings?Mother Li Ying explained to everyone that the reason why she and her husband transferred the house to the eldest was because the eldest took care of them the most in the past few years, and the eldest had always been by their side to take care of them during the years when their husband was paralyzed.
The third child has his own house, the family is harmonious, and life is worry-free, and my husband and I are relatively relieved.
But the boss's life was not so smooth, and we wanted to help him within our ability, so we sold the house to the boss for more than 100,000 yuan, and there was no favoritism.
After the matter was said, the issue of the pension was mentioned again, but the third child still had to get half of it.
In his opinion, he and his eldest brother and second brother have each been allocated a house, so he should also have half of his share in the issue of pension.
The third child took the reporter to his home and said that in fact, he had been waiting for his eldest brother to apologize to him and his parents to support him all these years, but for so many years, he had not waited.
The family has always prepared a bedroom for their parents, and they also invited their parents to live, but they were politely rejected by their parents, saying that they could not rest assured that they could not afford the divorced eldest brother and second brother.
After learning about the knot in the third child's heart, the mediator immediately went to the old family, and at this time, the mother Li Ying also decided to persuade the eldest to give up the issue of the pension.
With the joint efforts of the mediator, the eldest Chen Wen finally realized his mistake, and the next day, he took the initiative to sit in front of his younger brother and said, it was wrong to hit you with an ashtray at the beginning, and my parents also criticized me afterwards, and I always wanted to apologize to you in person, but in the past six years, you have not come back.
Seeing that the eldest brother finally realized his mistake, the third child's attitude eased a lot.
Subsequently, the eldest asked the third child, as long as you can open the knot, no matter what you ask, I will meet it.
The third child said, I don't have any requirements.
At this time, my mother walked in and sat next to the third child, and couldn't help crying and said, all these years, I have been in a bad mood, so I scolded the eldest brother, scolded him for destroying the family relationship between brothers, if it wasn't for the eldest brother, the third child would be very good to me.
Now that the family has come to this point, it is all the eldest brother's harm.
Seeing his mother's tears blurred, the third child immediately held his mother's hand, hoping that his mother could live with him and let him make up for the debt he owed to his mother over the years.
Seeing that the attitudes of both sides softened, and the issue of pension was mentioned again, the eldest immediately took the third child's hand and said, I don't want the pension, do as you say, half to the mother, and half to you.
I hope you will come back often, and I wish we two brothers could still sit together and drink and take care of our mother together until her 100th birthday.
I hope you can let go of the past and stop talking about the past, okay?The third child's eyes turned red instantly, he held his brother's hand tightly, and bowed his head and said nothing.
Summary:A property estranged the family for 6 years, resulting in the death of the septuagenarian father with regret, which is really emotional
If the parents had been able to gather their three sons together to discuss the property allocation, things would not have progressed to this extent
After the third child was beaten, if the parents could gather the two parties together and mediate fairly, the third child's resentment would not be so deep
Each family plays a different role, so they don't see things differently
Whether it's big or small, as parents, it's best for them to discuss the issue openly and avoid the current situation.
Do you think it's the boss's lack of tolerance?Or is the third child too calculating?