It's not an easy thing to judge if you still like your boyfriend, because everyone's feelings are unique and there is no fixed standard to measure. However, we can infer our emotional state by some telltale signs. The following is my personal experience and opinion, I hope to help you better understand this issue.
First, ask yourself if your relationship with your boyfriend is still as passionate and intimate as it used to beIs there still a spark, are they still attracted to each other?If you feel that your relationship has become uneventful or even a little distant, then it could mean that your feelings for him have weakened.
Secondly, are you willing to share your life with your boyfriend, or is he willing to share his life with you?Are you still interested in each other's lives?If you feel like you don't have anything in common anymore or that you're no longer interested in each other's lives, then it could mean that your feelings have faded.
Third, do you feel tolerant and forgiving for your boyfriend's shortcomings and mistakesOr are you starting to find fault with his behavior?If you start to get impatient with his shortcomings or you start to be too his behavior, then it could mean that you have lost your love for him.
Fourth, are you still confident about your boyfriend's future?Do you believe that he will be able to achieve his dreams and goals?If you no longer have confidence in your boyfriend's future, or you start questioning his dreams and goals, then it could mean that you have made a change in your feelings for him.
Finally, do you realize that you are looking for a new love experience?Are you starting to become interested in other people?If you feel like you've developed an interest in someone else or you're ready to find a new love, then it could mean that you don't love your boyfriend anymore.
In my story, I've been with my boyfriend for three years. In these three years, we have experienced many challenges and difficulties, but we have also built a stable emotional foundation. However, in the last year, I've started to have some doubts about my feelings. I found that I was starting to take an interest in other people, I was starting to be nitpicky about my boyfriend's behavior, and I was no longer confident in his future. These signs made me realize that I was losing love for my boyfriend.
In the process, I tried various ways to rekindle our relationship. I've tried more dating and intimacy, I've tried more communication and sharing, I've tried more tolerance and understanding. However, these efforts do not seem to have changed our relationship.
Eventually, I realized that I needed to make a decision. I need to decide if I want to continue the relationship or if I need to find a new love experience. In the process, I realized that I was ready to look forward. I'm ready to find a new love experience.
While this decision made me feel painful and sad, I also felt a sense of relief. I feel like I'm able to understand my relationship state better. I know what I need, and I know what kind of love experience I need. This decision gave me more confidence and courage to pursue my dreams and goals.
In short, it is not easy to judge whether you still like your boyfriend. However, you can infer your emotional state by observing your own behavior and emotional state. If you find that you have lost love for your boyfriend, then you need to think seriously about your future. This may mean that you need to make a decision, but it will also allow you to better understand your relationship state and find your own happiness.