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When the opposite sex is together, men dare not say or speak, dare not say or do, it turns out that the two people are very fateful, because of cowardice, because of hesitation, because of some concerns, they did not take action to support their feelings, and finally missed this beautiful marriage.
As the saying goes, "Flowers should be straightened, don't wait until there are no flowers to break branches." "The ancients have long reminded that when you meet someone who makes your heart miss you, you must dare to express your love, and only then will you not leave regrets in your life.
When a man meets a woman who makes him feel excited, he should be brave enough to confess his feelings and tell the other party, and at the same time, in the process of getting along with a woman, he should dare to release his feelings and maintain the feelings of two people, and the feelings of two people will naturally get better and better. You know, if you want a woman to think about you day and night, remember: "three dare"!
1.Be gentle and empathetic.
Men are too "macho" in front of women, everything is self-centered, they rarely consider women's feelings, they have no empathy, they talk too hard with women, let women listen to their own affairs, be casual about women's words and deeds, and don't consider women's feelings.
Sometimes, he obviously wants to do something to make women happy, take women out to play, and invite women to dinner, but he always imposes his "good" on women, and does not know how to listen to women's real needs.
On the contrary, when two people are together, if a man can think more about women, dare to show a gentle and considerate side, listen to women's opinions, consider women's feelings, and get along with women in the way that women expect, women's hearts are often warm, and finally they are willing to put their minds on men, the two often go by day, and women will also be fascinated by men, which woman doesn't want to meet a person who really understands herself and can get along according to her own wishes?
2.Dare to pay silently and give women a different experience.
Some men, when dealing with women, give a little to women, put their "good" on their lips, and often say to women, "I am so good to you, you should also give me something in return." "I'm so nice to you, should you marry me?"I've done so much for you, but you won't let me touch you. You've let me down. ”
Obviously, men's "love" is conditional, and men's efforts are required to be reciprocated by women, which is often the "weight of life" that women can hardly bear, and the more men use kindness, the more they will bring mental pressure to women, and women are unwilling to bear this pressure, and finally often avoid men.
When a man is dating a woman, he dares to do something for a woman secretly, dare to pay silently, dare to speak for a woman behind her back and share a woman's troubles, although a woman may not hear or see, but your presence will have a positive impact on a woman's life, will bring a different life experience to a woman, and the woman can really feel it. Women will always know your silent dedication, and at that time, women are often moved and often fall in love with you.
3.Dare to take responsibility and make women really feel reliable.
When the opposite sex is together, men are too weak, afraid that they can't give women happiness, always avoid women's "affection", or when dealing with women, they always evade their responsibilities, promise women what they can't do, and then make all kinds of excuses for themselves.
Of course, there is also such a kind of man, he doesn't even have the courage to give a woman a "pie", he doesn't dare to look forward to the future with a woman, and he doesn't dare to give a woman some promises that he can make a little effort to do, not so much that he is afraid of letting women feel disappointed in the end and feel that he is unreliable, but that he doesn't even have the courage to make a promise. Such a person may rarely break his promises, but he may not be really reliable.
A man who gives a woman some promises may not be able to do it, but he dares to give women promises and practice them with actions, forcing himself to become more powerful, and striving to give women a better life, such a man is worth relying on even if he is "not perfect". A woman may blame a man for "breaking his promises", but she admires him from the bottom of her heart because he tries to move the lives of two people forward, not stagnate.