Give a happy pet a haircut
I saw a sentence before:
Guarding himself in the deepest red dust, keeping the initial sprout and joy. ”
One day, after I trimmed the hair of the little white cat, I found that the little white began to be depressed, neither did I have the previous sprout, nor could I see the slightest joy on its face, and even had a kind of loveless appearance, even I became gloomy.
Xiaobai and I were injured twice, this is definitely not what I want.
Suddenly, I asked myself: Is it a mistake to let others live the way they want?Whether the starting point is good or bad?
This reminds me of a quote from the English writer Oscar Wilde:
All people are different, but everyone is beautiful, everyone is unique, and everyone deserves respect. ”
As a result, I realized that while sticking to my own beliefs and values, I should respect the views and thoughts of others, and accept the happiness and suffering of others.
For example, Xiaobai, who was imposedly modified by me, originally wanted to give it a visual beauty and make it look more pleasing to the eye;But for Xiaobai, this kind of imposed beauty may be a fatal disaster.
This move made me discover:
It turns out that in the deepest red dust, it is not easy to defend yourself.