In this life, people are inseparable from the interaction with others. Those who get along become friends, and those who don't get along gradually move away. "Socializing" is like a need that must be met spiritually, even if it is some introverted people, they can't do without socializing. But in intimate relationships, socializing is not something that can be done as you like. For example, in marriage, it is necessary to keep a distance from the opposite sex outside of the partner. Of course, this does not mean that you should limit your interactions with other friends of the opposite sex, but you need to have a stronger sense of distance and proportion with them.
However, there are three types of the opposite sex, which must be kept away from after marriage. Once these kinds of people are pasted, not only can they not get rid of them, but they can easily ruin their marriages.
01 I want to have an affair with you.
Whether you are a husband or a wife, if you want to have an affair with someone of the opposite sex, you need to be aware that they are likely to have bad intentions. For women, if a man is having an affair with you, it may not be because he is attracted to you, but because you are married. If something really happens to you, you have a marriage, a family, and children, that's your weakness. You are easily eaten by him, and you dare not expose this relationship, so you will have to bear whatever happens to you in the future. And for men, if a woman wants to have an affair with you, do you know that she doesn't want your money, status, etc.?They get what they want, and your marriage has been a bomb ever since.
02 Predecessor.
The ex is really a very easy "bomb". If you can't forget your ex, you will unconsciously compare your ex with your current one. In this way, you will not be able to experience the good of the present and the good of the past, and you will lose both ends, and you will have nothing. And doing so is very irresponsible to the current one, if you really love your ex and miss the old love, why break up with her and marry the current one instead. Does the incumbent deserve to be the one who is wronged?How can such a state manage a good marriage?
03 "Confidant".
It's not that there is no pure friendship between the opposite sex, it's just that too many people hide their minds in the name of "pure friendship". The so-called "male girlfriends" and "female brothers" have slowly become an unreassuring relationship. A true friend and confidant will keep a distance from you who are married, and a true friend will think about each other. If in the name of a good friend and confidant, you secretly poke and poke your marriage badly, then there is no need for such friends to continue dating.