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Have you ever felt that you have given so much and received so little?Maybe it's the same in life, you try to get something, but the result always doesn't live up to your expectations. Contrary.
In love, we may put in a lot of effort to get the attention of the person we like. However, when you put it into practice, you may find that what once seemed like simple love techniques and theories are difficult to apply.
No matter how much we tell ourselves to calm down and slow down, we can't help but feel a lot of love deep down. We want to give everything we have to God, but our minds are constantly wandering, and it's hard to stay calm.
But if you try to give more and relax too much, the results often backfire. After all, working hard doesn't necessarily mean you'll get the results you expect.
People who like it are always full of confidence.
Have you ever let your inner world get stuck and suffer from it because someone loved one doesn't approve of your words and actions and doesn't give you enough attention?
Maybe you're confused, constantly reflecting and asking yourself, are your actions or words alienating him?
However, there is one thing you should know. There is no distance between true love. Because the person you love deeply can always feel infinite warmth and trust.
My classmate Xiaoya is a kind and generous girl who welcomes every day with enthusiasm and diligence. However, being in love makes her feel helpless and nervous, making her work harder and harder for her partner.
Xiaoya loved the boy very much, but the boy didn't give her enough emotional attention. Xiaoya is always moody, frivolous, and cold in her own way, and she feels that she is compared and treated in love.
Xiaoya tried to communicate with her boyfriend many times, but her boyfriend always responded perfunctorily, making her feel powerless. She began to sink into deep self-reproach and helplessness.
In fact, there are many girls like Xiaoya who pursue love, insist on perfection and dedication, but at the cost of experiencing endless pain and loss. They often lack genuine attention and understanding and complain that they are not good enough.
But we can't blame them for being weak or overcommitted. Because love is what it is, there is often a deep attachment and a feeling of being trapped.
Remember, though, that you deserve the perfect relationship, and that you deserve attention, love, and respect. You need to focus on yourself, strive to be the best version of yourself, and show what makes you unique.
It's like a flower, blooming quietly and naturally. The process requires courage and patience, there are pains and joys, but there is growth and hope at every step.
When faced with people who don't value you, it's best to let go of your baggage and focus on your own growth and progress. Because only in this way can you win true love, and you can win people's admiration and affection.
I believe that when the flowers bloom and fall, and the butterflies come, this happiness will come.
If you try too hard, you will fail.
Xiaomeng once told me that she put all her effort and sincerity into a boy, but in the end she felt pain and loss.
She deeply felt that she was loving too hard, ignoring her own feelings and needs, and focusing only on the boy.
She begins to understand that love needs to be maintained by both parties, and unilateral efforts will only hurt herself.
In order to get out of this predicament, Xiaomeng begins to rethink her relationship with love. I learned to pay attention to my feelings and needs and try to develop my interests and hobbies.
She gradually became independent, confident, and started a new life. And this change finally brought her real happiness and satisfaction.
Many people say that love is one of the best things in life. Love not only makes people feel the beauty of spring flowers and the warmth and dazzle of summer sunshine, but also brings infinite happiness and beauty. But how to love is a lesson that we need to keep learning Xi and exploring. In the process of courtship, we need to learn to control our emotions and avoid over-devoting and giving to maintain psychological balance. Unilateral giving and taking will not work in love. Love in the true sense of the word is only the collision of two hearts. When we love someone, we shouldn't get too involved. If you don't, you may lose yourself.
Mr. Sanmao said: "Love is like the Zen Buddhism of Buddhism, if you say it wrong, you can't say it, you can't say it, you say it wrong." "Because love is an emotion that cannot be expressed in words. If we value love too hard or expect it to meet certain standards, we can lose our way. In love, excessive devotion and dedication often lead to the loss of self, and even make the emotional life heavy and depressing. Therefore, in love, you need to be independent and confident, and always pay attention to your growth and happiness in order to have a healthy relationship.
I've also experienced the ups and downs of love. In love, we give a lot, but sometimes it is difficult to get what we deserve. I kept changing myself to please others and give to satisfy others, but in the end I found that all the hard work only made me lose myself. It is also important to choose effective ways to maintain a good relationship and respect yourself and each other. Good love is not forced or accommodating, but requires mutual understanding and respect. We can slow down the pace of love, find balance in moderation, and move happily towards happiness.
Love is an ability, an art, that we must cultivate and perfect gradually. Just like the sand we hold in our hands, we need to grasp it correctly in order for it to become a precious treasure in our lives. We need to learn how to maintain balance in the world of love, a little more patience and understanding, and a little less impulsiveness and selfishness.
Letting go is a way of expressing love and giving the other person the freedom to develop their own lives, and it can also help you change your way of thinking and reduce stress. At the same time, we need to learn how to deal with the contradictions and conflicts between two people and find solutions to make their relationship more stable and balanced.
Therefore, love not only needs to be constantly learned Xi and improved, but also needs to learn to harvest and cherish. Only by grasping the height of love, can love continue to sprinkle on us and become an unforgettable wealth in our hearts.