We women know that only by marrying a good man can we be happy, do you know what kind of man is a good man?
So as a woman, when we choose a husband, we must abandon romantic and unrealistic fantasies and be more realistic, because only a marriage rooted in the soil of reality can bloom beautiful flowers.
How do you know that your boyfriend is the right person to marry?
Here I have summarized the following types of men that women are most worthy of love:
1. Appearance is fleeting, character lasts forever, and character must be put in the first place.
A handsome and good-looking boy must be attractive, but being attractive does not mean that he is suitable for long-term companionship, the key depends on his character, that is, character and character, which is the most important factor in all the considerations for choosing a mate.
Because the attraction of appearance is short-lived, when two people enter the life of day and night, without good character and stable character, any strange things such as cheating, affairs, and domestic violence are easy to be staged in your home every day.
2. A man who can take care of both career and family.
A man can't be unambitious, but he can't be too ambitious, if he is too ambitious, he will use very little in the family and our thoughts, we look for him to watch movies, he doesn't have time, we want him to accompany him to go shopping, he said it's boring;His career has been successful, and we have followed the scenery, only those men who are not too ambitious know how to be considerate and pampered to us.
3. Similar growth environment and background determine your three views and views.
Only when the three views are the same, can two people get along comfortably and comfortably. Although the growth environment, family background and education situation do not determine whether two people are suitable, countless facts confirm that it is easier to harvest a healthy and stable marriage.
First of all, it is easier for two people to resonate and agree on many issues in life;Secondly, the concept of money will be very similar, petty bourgeoisie is interesting in the eyes of some people, but extravagant and wasteful in the eyes of others;In the end, it will be easier to communicate, and the chicken-to-duck and the cow are all due to the inconsistency of education and background.
4. When quarreling, they will actively obey.
It is said that a man who bullies a woman is not a good man, but in fact there is nothing wrong at all, even if he wins a woman when he quarrels, the man's face will be very humiliating, but he knows that the man who is weak and loves his wife is recognized as a good man in everyone's heart, and it is not a big deal for a man to quarrel with a woman, but it is very weak to apologize to a woman. If you have a conflict with a good man, you will definitely take the initiative to admit your mistake and bow your head.
A man who is usually good to you, that's probably pretending. Only when you encounter contradictions and expose your true temperament can you see your character.
5. Know how to tolerate and accommodate you.
A man can't be too small, if he still wants to be angry with the woman he likes, and talk about the short and long, then such a man can't do it. The reason why I say this is because such a man only has himself in his heart, and there is not much place for a woman at all, otherwise there is no need to argue with you for one breath. In daily interactions, when encountering contradictions, someone must bow their heads, but it must be the man who bows his head first, which is the happiness of being a woman. Because he thinks you are important enough, he knows how to feel sorry for you.
6. Men must be single-minded.
The big radish with a big heart, that is, it is unacceptable, no matter how good it is in other aspects. What is it that keeps a marriage going?Is it a promise, a marriage certificate, a child, or a house?In fact, these are all and these are not, what can really ensure the stability of the marriage is the inner sense of responsibility of both parties, responsibility means that they will take on the heavy responsibilities of the family, will work hard to manage their feelings, and treat their wives faithfully and dedicatedly.