The girl was blocked by her boyfriend because she asked for a tablet, and netizens pointed out that her thoughts were exposed
The girl asked her boyfriend to give her medicine, but in fact, she had been blacklisted. "Netizens said this to the girl's thoughts.
A girl asked online:
My boyfriend had a tablet and I casually asked him if I could borrow it, but he immediately removed me from his contact list. I was confused, not because I had to have his tablet, but just to test his perspective on our relationship. I didn't realize that his reaction was to delete me directly, which hurt me"。
The girl emphasized that she did not urgently need her boyfriend's tablet, but just wanted to test his feelings for her in this way. She didn't expect her boyfriend to do this, and she felt very sad.
Whether the boy's behavior was right or not, I had a feeling of depression after reading this text. This text is somewhat similar to some of the words that parents often say:"I'm doing this for your own good"、"If it weren't for you, how could I have done this"。While a person may think that their actions are for the good of the relationship between the two parties, sometimes such actions can upset the other person.
In the face of such an ostensibly unsolicited approach, but in fact with a cautious approach, we feel that we cannot treat honesty with the utmost rigour.
One netizen's response won the approval of tens of thousands of netizens, and his words went straight to the true thoughts of netizens.
Netizen vs. female netizen"Ask for a piece"The understanding, both mentality and motivation, is a big surprise.
Proceed with caution and be cautious when testing the hearts of others. "You feel like you're in the driver's seat and that the other person is the one being tempted", this sentence is concise and to the point, especially when a girl looks at a boy with a tentative attitude, no matter how the boy responds, it is difficult to get the recognition he deserves.
Because if a man gives a unit, the girl will take it for granted, and if she doesn't, she will be considered not affectionate enough.
It's like a 60-point test that men never seem to be able to reach"Excellent", at best, to meet the minimum standards set by girls.
This netizen's answer was very thoughtful, revealing the girl's ** psychology word by word, which made me pause, and I suddenly understood what men usually say:
I started and you started with a completely different concept"
I thought it was just a common excuse for men, but this lady's behavior made me understand"Reach out and ask"The true meaning of .
In fact, one of the main reasons why most netizens criticized the girl was that she clearly had expectations of herself, and when she didn't end up getting what she wanted, she put the blame on the boy, claiming that she was just trying.
This attitude of being clearly expected but avoiding acknowledgment can hardly evoke goodwill from others, whether they are men or women.
Do people think that a boy's reluctance to share a tablet means that he doesn't love girls?