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Li Baoli is not only a woman with both wisdom and ability, but also a sympathetic existence.
Ten years ago, Li Baoli stumbled upon her husband's illicit relationship with a female colleague in the factory, and in a fit of rage, she tried to break down the door with a fire extinguisher and immediately shot the couple to death. However, Li Baoli did not do this because she still has her own son Xiaobao. If she breaks in like this, Xiaobao will either have no father or no mother, which makes Li Baoli feel heartache.
Ten years later, Li Baoli was full of joy when she saw that Xiaobao, who she had worked so hard to raise, successfully entered an excellent university and achieved the top results in the city's college entrance examination.
On that day, she ended her work early so that she could go home earlier to celebrate with her son.
At the dinner table, Xiaobao first showed his father's posthumous photo, and then toasted Li Baoli with a glass of wine. Li Baoli originally accepted the glass of wine happily, but she didn't expect her son's next words to be like a thousand arrows piercing her heart. Xiaobao responded: "After drinking this wine, you will no longer be my mother, your house will be left by Dad and left to Grandma, and you can move out." ”
Li Baoli couldn't believe that her son would treat her like this, and she asked him, "What's going on?" ”
The son responded coldly: "It was you who caused my father's death and made me lose my father for 10 years." ”
Li Baoli exudes the sensitivity and passion of a typical Wuhan person, and she often shows her stalls in the wholesale market for others to see. She has a warm and harmonious home, and her husband is an engineer. Although his family was not financially well-off, he was very intelligent, capable, and good-looking. Her husband is an ordinary rural youth who returned to his hometown to become a farmer after graduating from junior high school. My husband, Ma Xuewu, is a scholar who came from the countryside and works as a workshop supervisor in a factory.
Ma Xuewu's factory allocated him a house, which allowed the family to move from the shantytown to the city center, and Li Baoli thought better days were coming.
During the moving process that day, due to the narrowness of the alley, the workers began to lift the ** grid. Li Baoli angrily argued with the workers, while Ma Xuewu stood beside him, looking very timid and not daring to act rashly. "I'm not going! Ma Xuewu hoped to have a cordial exchange with the workers, distributing cigarettes to the workers and instructing his son Xiaobao to go downstairs to buy a few bottles of drinks for the workers.
Seeing that her husband was so weak and reckless, Li Baoli harshly criticized him in front of the workers, saying, "It's so despicable. "Then what should we do, you say? Facing the workers, Ma Xuewu could only show an embarrassed smile full of helplessness.
Before the movers were about to leave, the words he said made Ma Xuewu feel complicated. The worker responded: "Brother, although we are all doing manual labor, my wife is a very virtuous person, and her life is more comfortable than yours. I can see that you are also a cadre outside, but why would you be taken care of by such a woman all your life, it's so pitiful. ”
At night, after enjoying the independent bathroom, Li Baoli hummed a little song and walked to Ma Xuewu's side, Ma Xuewu suddenly announced in silence: "Li Baoli, I have decided to end my marriage with you." "What's wrong with you? With that, he walked outside with a pillow in hand.
Li Baoli was still immersed in the joy of her new home, feeling like she had been hit hard, and did not show up at the workplace for three days in a row. Ma Xuewu still works as usual, he finds excuses to work overtime with his colleagues every day, leaving early and returning late.
Li Baoli confided in her close friend Xiaojing, constantly accusing Ma Xuewu of lacking a moral bottom line, how could he easily file for divorce as a person from a rural background. Xiaojing advised Li Baoli to work hard to repair the marital relationship, instead of talking about rural people all the time.
Li Baoli's attitude is as tough as a deflated ball, and she tries to please her husband in order to repair her marriage. She asked him to go shopping before he went to work. When her husband came home from work, Li Baoli enthusiastically provided him with water to wash his feet, completely changing her previous pungent attitude.
Ma Xuewu remained calm and still chose to rest on the sofa in the living room. Li Baoli actually asked her son Xiaobao to shed tears in front of Ma Xuewu, hoping that he could forgive her mother.
This time, Ma Xuewu's disgust for Li Baoli deepened.
Ma Xuewu's factory welcomed a young and beautiful female colleague named Xiao Zhou. Xiao Zhou was very gentle and considerate, spoke softly, and the two quickly resumed a good relationship. That day, Ma Xuewu suddenly called Li Baoli and told her that she didn't plan to go home for dinner at night. The couple was in a state of cold war for a long time, and Ma Xuewu probably wouldn't go home for dinner, and although he never gave Li Baoli a **, Li Baoli firmly believed that he had a problem.
Li Baoli asked her boss for leave and arrived at Ma Xuewu's place of work early. When it was time to get off work, Ma Xuewu rode his bicycle to a fruit stand that he and Xiao Zhou had agreed on in advance, and the two quickly entered a hotel.
Li Baoli followed, quickly picking up their room number from the front desk. There were two people in the room who were doing tai chi. Li Baoli stood outside the room, and when she heard the ** sound coming from the room, she couldn't help but tremble, and in anger, she picked up the fire extinguisher next to her and prepared to rush in. She was just about to make a move, when she suddenly heard a "mother", and immediately ran to the door in fright. Suddenly, a child's voice calling for his mother sounded in the hallway.
Despite this, Li Baoli did not rush in, she recalled her son Xiaobao, and she did not want the family to be dissolved. Still, she struggled to accept the situation, so she walked into a small shop in the alley, dialed number 110**, and reported her husband allegedly**.
After Ma Xuewu**, Li Baoli calmly returned home with her husband from the factory.
For the outside world, Li Baoli did not show the behavior of crying, making a fuss or hanging, but was willing to spend the rest of her life with her husband who was having an affair, and she was indeed an excellent woman.
Only Ma Xuewu knows that his life has sunk into the abyss, and Li Baoli will never let him go easily, her real purpose is to bind herself tightly to her side and cut off her body with a knife. She knew that her life was not good, but she still couldn't resist to do an experiment - let her husband cut off the pigtails and then cut the flesh with her. As expected, Li Baoli seemed to grab Ma Xuewu's braids, and she would easily taunt her husband whether in public or in private.
Li Baoli's best friend Xiao Jing suggested that she should care more about her husband, otherwise she would regret it sooner or later, but Li Baoli didn't care too much about it.
It didn't take long for Ma Xuewu to pick up his mother from the countryside. Although Li Baoli never showed a friendly expression to him, she knew that she could not be an enemy of her family. Despite her inner resistance, her mother-in-law chose to stay.
Ma Xuewu's husband's life was full of disappointment and despair, and he lost hope in life. At home, he was held tightly by Li Baoli, and at the factory, due to his work style, he lost the post of workshop director.
Therefore, he found Xiao Zhou again and expressed his thoughts and inner depression to her. He confessed to Xiao Zhou that his feelings for her were sincere. But Xiao Zhou politely declined him, and revealed that it was Li Baoli who reported Ma Xuewu and them.
After saying goodbye to Xiao Zhou, Ma Xuewu walked into the factory, and the factory director told him that this was the last straw for him in the list of the first employees to be fired.
Extremely disappointed, Ma Xuewu left a suicide note, and then chose to jump into the river to end his life.
When Li Baoli came to claim the relics, she found that the suicide note left by Ma Xuewu only mentioned his son and mother-in-law, and did not mention his identity as a wife. This left Li Baoli feeling very sad, lost, and accompanied by deep dissatisfaction and anger. At the funeral, Li Baoli's tears never fell.
My best friend Xiaojing revealed to Li Baoli that since the move, the unfortunate things have not stopped, this is because the feng shui condition of the house is not good, and almost all the roads pass through the bottom of the house, like a thousand arrows piercing the heart of feng shui.
Li Baoli resolutely did not believe it, and she was determined to shoulder the burden of the family alone. She said, I don't believe that one person can feed so many people? In the past, Li Baoli was two people who shared the financial responsibility of the family, and she never cared about her income. But now, she's making money on her own. In order to make a living, she chose to give up her job as a stall keeper and instead took up a job as a flat shoulder (also known as Bangbang in Chongqing) by the river. Most of this manual labor is done by men, and women rarely participate. But in order to support her son's studies, Li Baoli persevered for a full 10 years.
After his son successfully entered college, the first thing he did was to expel Li Baoli from the house, and mercilessly expressed his dissatisfaction and inner depression. At the end of the movie, Li Baoli organizes her bags and moves out of the home that made her heart skip a beat.
"Ten Thousand Arrows Through the Heart" is a film with a rich plot directed by Wang Jing in 2012, which is based on the writer Fang Fang's eponymous **, which mainly tells the twists and turns of the fate of an ordinary woman in the 90s of the 20th century.
In this story, Li Baoli is a repulsive but at the same time sympathetic woman. Whose fault is it for a woman who drains the first half of her life and ends up being betrayed by her husband and expelled from her son, which leads to the breakdown of families and the alienation of people?
There is an opinion that Li Baoli's desire for control and strong attitude made her feel suffocated, which is also the reason why she reaped the consequences. However, the true meaning of marriage lies in the joint efforts of two people, and in the same way, the success or failure of a marriage should not be attributed solely to one person's mistakes.
Although Li Baoli has her shortcomings, in this marriage, Ma Xuewu cannot be unharmed. Although many people lamented Ma Xuewu's misfortune, this was no excuse for him to turn his back on his wife and family.
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This tragic incident may have been caused by two people who knew nothing about business by forcibly walking together.
Reminded by her best friend, Li Baoli is not ignorant of her own problems, but she firmly believes that her views are correct and deludes herself into believing that she is the master of the family. Her life is like this, everything goes according to her own wishes, without any purpose. Ma Xuewu always listens to his words, and although he is aware of the tension between himself and his wife, he still finds his way out through infidelity with his wife.
Marriage is not only about tolerance and acceptance of the partner, but also about the growth of the individual with the development of the marriage.
When two people from different worlds come together, it's a mistake in itself, and if you don't know how to run it, it's a mistake to stack up.
Li Baoli and Ma Xuewu's married life is like a besieged city, in which some people are eager to enter, while others come up with solutions. Their marriage story tells all those inside and outside the besieged city: some marriages are like oranges, each slice is sweet; Some marriages are like watermelons, as long as the middle part is cut, how sweet can it be? Some marriages are like coconuts, and despite the large shell, there isn't really much attraction on the inside.