The topic of "girls don't follow the etiquette when they post articles in the circle of friends in order to avoid ineffective social circles" rushed to the hot search on December 1, and once rushed to the position of "first hot search" on the hot list.
Xiao Wang, the party concerned, said: "There are many people I know who are married, and some of them have not been in touch for ten years, and they only came to join me this year and my junior high school classmates invited to attend the wedding." I feel that this situation will occur in the future, and I myself am very disgusted with the Xi of gifting, so I directly sent it to the circle of friends to make it clear, people who agree with my ideas do not need to explain much, and people who disagree with my ideas will not become good friends with me, so that friends who are not familiar with me will not ask me to go to the ceremony in the future. ”Wages have remained unchanged for ten years, and the money of the members has risen. I thought that this hot search would be supported by the public, but this is not the case, and it seems that the voices of opponents are even stronger:After sending out this circle of friends, no one has let themselves follow the gift yet.
Point 1: Work changes quickly, and colleagues' weddings can not be followed
exsachina said: I think it's best not to attend weddings or anything like that, and it's not a lot of acquaintance, colleagues are a group of people who get together for the common good, and they have a stake in each other, so there's no need to be courteous!
149edee: That's right, no one should help anyone after there is no benefit, no one should remember anyone's love, anyway, now people are selfish, don't pay back the favor, the real benefits are important. Since it's for the sake of profit, that's right, anyway, people are very indifferent to each other, why don't you be cold, don't hold grudges when you are killed, remember when the benefits come, don't change if you accept the grace, in short, remember, shamelessness is the most important, otherwise how to profit?
Casperzzy: Isolated from each other, no one lives on anyone.
Ayu 12138: Because some people deliberately send invitations to colleagues for you to go, just want you to be courteous, and you won't work together in the future, so you don't need to return the gift, and you can make money.
Point 2: If you don't follow it, why bother to offend everyone by posting it to Moments?
90e4d309 said: But this emotional intelligence is really low.
foxrrrr: So if the person has low emotional intelligence, it doesn't mean that you can't refuse, you just say it alone. Send a circle of friends and keep out all the unfamiliar ones?What does it mean to be uncooked?Some of my classmates haven't been in touch for years, but if they want to call me, I'm sure I'll go. You may feel unfamiliar, but the other person may not think so. Also, how did acquaintances come about?Don't all start from 0, what should you do if your attitude meets a social cow?Don't have contact with people?Don't make friends anymore?
Hua Xi b0c3: But wouldn't it be nice if you replied to that classmate alone?Why do you want to post a circle of friends?
Sapphire Blue Minari: Have you finished reading the news?What she said was that she didn't go if she wasn't familiar, and only went if she was familiar, and the junior high school classmates who hadn't been in touch for more than ten years got married and sent invitations, you have high emotional intelligence, and I hope you are surrounded by this kind of classmates.
Niu Ma Yu: Emotional intelligence is for people who are worth doing, it's not that I don't know you well and you have to maintain high emotional intelligence at all times, that's called kidnapping.
Viewpoint 3: If you are not familiar, please don't invite it?There are also people who don't know each other
Love Da Confused 1212: If you think too much, people you don't know will invite you at all.
A song of soul vv: Thinking too much?I didn't say a few words for a few days after joining the company, and the child invited the whole department to the full moon, and I can't afford to lose this person if I don't go, and it's bad to go, so people can not go, but the money has to be dropped.
Huaxi b0c3: That's what you haven't seen, send a message after sending an invitation, refuse, do the second time to send a message again, the key is not in a city, more than a year without contacting ordinary colleagues!
yyyyp718 : You haven't seen everyone in the office, you don't even know anyone, ask so-and-so in person where to sit, give candy and invitations, people sit in front of him and don't know each other, that embarrassing ah......
Don't make a fuss about the alarm clock: I think about it too much, I didn't reply to him after a junior high school classmate sent me a private message, and then he asked others to find me and asked me to go to the ceremony, and I directly said that I was not familiar.
Point 4: Add my friend for the sake of gift money, delete it in seconds!
People have rules: I did this very early, and my classmates who haven't been added in four years of college suddenly added friends through various methods one day after graduation, and my classmate's circle of friends sent him a circle of friends that he was going to get married, and I blocked him and deleted him in one second!
149edee said: People didn't call you to go, haha, it's like this when you meet a circle of friends, it seems that you are really sensitive to money.
de88640 said: Circle of friends sent, and I didn't call you, even if I called you, you just said that you can't go if you have something, and you can block it in a second, it's incomprehensible, but you say you can't go, and let you give gift money, it's understandable that you block it.
Weigh the rivers and lakes: Don't talk about cool words, you Guangdong only follow how many courtesies, just come to a former classmate to add you, start at least 500, who is willing?
Point 5: Just follow 100, what do you want to think about love!
Jingle 20131023: Several elementary school classmates invited me, but they didn't go, I felt that although I was a classmate from the same village, I really didn't have much fun, so I called the classmates to go with 200 yuan. I don't want to make a special trip, and I don't want to worry too much.
785408233: My primary school girlfriend to now, I think I get along very well, we live close to each other and often have contact, we travel together every year, and I get married with 100.
Tuo Zhu 5q: I feel like I'm a failure, as if no one in elementary school, junior high school, and high school has invited me, and I haven't intersected, saving a lot of money, and the university is slowly not intersecting. Abroad, there are too many people in the south and the north, anyway, I think it's very good now.
In order to avoid invalid social circle of friends, girls post articles without courtesy, and they are all in one net, today's topic