Introduction:
What is the first thing parents say when they do something wrong? However, many parents always adopt a critical and blaming attitude when they encounter their children's mistakes. These negative words will not only damage the relationship between the children, but also cause mental damage to the children. Therefore, we need to communicate with children in appropriate ways so that they can develop in their learning Xi and correct them.
Text: Many parents are anxious to see their students coming home from school, but instead of doing their homework, they are playing with their phones. They tend to criticize and condemn their children, pointing out how irresponsible and unmotivated they are.
However, we need to know that such reproaches can only make them resistant and unwilling to correct their mistakes. Worse still, such harsh accusations and rejections can not only hurt children, but also make them feel like they are not understood. Children don't know what mistakes they've made and how to correct them. If these problems are not well addressed, they will deviate from the purpose of teaching.
We need to recognize that when children make mistakes, it is we who give them the best opportunity to promote their development. Whether children succeed depends on how we respond. However, we often hurt small children.
If we say to a child, "How long have you been playing?""You haven't done your homework yet" is actually pointing out their faults and shortcomings. We vetoed the kid in a word. If a child keeps being rejected, he doesn't immediately change his performance, but puts the ** aside and starts doing his homework. On the contrary, he will become more rebellious and reluctant to do homework. Severe rebuke and blame from parents will not only damage the feelings between their children, but also hurt their children's psychology. At the same time, they won't realize their mistakes, or they won't correct them. Mistakes like this happen again and again, and the problem goes unaddressed. This is contrary to the goal of teaching.
Instead, we need to communicate with your child in a gentler and more considerate way. We can let them know that we care about them, for example, "I found out that you didn't do your homework and started using your phone when you got home from school." "I'm afraid I'll delay your studies. "In this way, we don't criticize them positively, but we show our concern and concern for them. We can then ask them for their perspectives and perspectives, such as: "Do you think this approach will work for you?"."Are you in trouble?”
In this way, we can have a communication with the children and let them exchange their thoughts and doubts together. We don't just have to put the blame on them, we have to help them figure it out. On this basis, the author puts forward a few suggestions to help students realize the importance of doing homework, as well as how to master their own time and self-discipline.
If we treat them with care and respect, they will feel understood and supported. In this way, they will be more willing to listen to us and try to correct their mistakes. Parents use appropriate methods to communicate with their children, which not only promotes their healthy development, but also plays a great role in the relationship between parents and children. In this way, children are more confident in solving problems and learn more from experience.
When we are teaching children, we need to be mindful of what we say and do. With proper communication with your children, we can grow them up and correct their mistakes. We should see ourselves as advocates and mentors for children, not as critics or critics. This approach helps to strengthen the bond between us and our parents, helps to develop positive thinking in children, and develops their ability to think independently.