My mom said something to me:
The most precious thing in the world is a kind and sincere heart. ”
I remember when I was a kid, I loved to compare my report cards with my classmates. As long as I don't do well in the exam, I will secretly feel sad.
One time I was at the bottom of the monthly exam, and I was very upset. Mom saw me shed tears, ** head said:
"Junjun, don't be sad. It is her blessing that her classmates do well in the exam, and you will also have your own opportunities. The important thing is to learn knowledge, not to compare scores. ”
I cried and said, "But the teachers and other parents said that I was not determined and would not be able to go to university in the future." ”
Mom was silent for a long time, then took my hand and said
"You remember, the most precious blessing in this world is not scores, not prestigious universities, but a kind heart. The kinder the person, the more blessed he is by heaven and earth;The more vicious the person, the more tormented by retribution. This is the eternal principle of heaven. ”Now that I'm 27 years old, I finally understand my mother's words.
One thing stood out to me:
Uncle Li next door has raised three generations, but he lives a well-off and happy life.
And my classmate Ming Kai was admitted to Peking University, but now he is depressed all day long.
It turned out that Uncle Li had been a good person all his life, happy and good, three generations in the same house, and prosperous.
And Mingkai is ambitious as a young man, but he doesn't want to make progress, and he has nothing to do all day long. His family couldn't bear to kick him out of the house, and at this moment, he suddenly realized.
We all thought that good luck would always follow the wise.
In fact, the true blessings lie in those who do good.
Just like Uncle Li, a modest and kind elder, even if the conditions are hard, he will live happily. God rewards hard work, and they are the luckiest people.
And those who are not right-minded and have nothing to do, even if they have a high degree and family background, will end up with nothing.
This is the true meaning of "those who are virtuous have wealth".
Here's another example.
I have a *** married husband in the countryside.
She could have chosen to live a decent life in the city. But she prefers to fall in love with a vegetable seller.
After marriage, her parents-in-law commanded her. Not only did she swallow her anger, but she also took the initiative to take on household chores and farming.
Within a few years, ** became a good wife and mother in the village. She opened the largest vegetable shop in the village, and her business was booming, and she also sponsored children in the mountains all year round.
And my cousin is married to the son of a scholarly family. She eats, drinks and has fun all day long, and her married life is not harmonious, and she often divorces.
Once again, I have witnessed the saying that "those who are virtuous must have wealth".
**The reason why she can gather wealth and bring blessings depends on her kind, hard-working and stoic heart.
The longest-lasting wealth in the world is the accumulation of virtue.
Instead of taking advantage of it, it is better to do more good deeds.
Traditional culture tells us that doing good is the foundation of life and the way to gather blessings.
No external condition can change the trajectory of a person's destiny. The more you have good thoughts and deeds, the more you will be able to enjoy hard-won happiness.
So, no matter what you don't expect, first ask yourself if your heart is worth it
Someone summed it up well, called four words:
Virtue and trust!I hope that everyone, including myself, will remember these four words in mind.
No matter how successful you are in the future, never forget your original intention and do good deeds in the world, which is the only remaining fruit and endless blessings!