A 16-year-old child is in the stage of adolescent rebellion, if the parents have been by his side to emphasize the importance of reading, or give him a lot of study pressure, etc., then it is likely that the rebellious child will not want to study in the end. So, what should I do if my child's grades suddenly drop in the third year of junior high school?What should I do if my child doesn't want to study?
Many parents want their children to be able to fight for themselves, so they are very strict with him since he was a child, which will actually lead to more and more psychological pressure on his children. Therefore, parents should not put too much pressure on their 16-year-old child and do not always force him to study. Parents should take a correct view of their child's academic performance, as long as he tries his best and works hard, it is already very good, we should not care too much about the child's grades, but to pay more attention to himself.
As the saying goes: Doing things with confidence can get twice the result with half the effort, which shows how great the role of faith is. Therefore, if parents want to give their children confidence, they must continue to give him correct evaluation, affirmation and encouragement, and take positive education as the main means to praise and encourage their children, so that they can have a sense of success, pleasure, and see their own shining points.
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Parents need to create a home learning environment that is conducive to concentration, because the environment around 16-year-olds is very important for them to maintain good attention habits. On the child's desk, only books and other corresponding school supplies can be placed, toys and food can not be placed, and there can be no sound interference such as TV and **. Parents also try not to go in and out of his studies as much as possible, and to interfere loudly.
Parents usually tell their children to study hard in order to have a good job, money to buy and play food, and some parents even tell him that if you study well, you can marry a beautiful wife and choose to marry a handsome guy. These rhetoric seemed useful at the time, but it didn't make sense.
In fact, the most suitable answer is for parents to tell their 16-year-old children to read so that you can have the ability to protect their parents in the future. If one day your parents have no money, you can study well, have a good job, and you can support your parents. Of course, Mom and Dad will try not to trouble you, but we still hope to rely on you when we need it, and Mom and Dad need you, can you understand?
This point of view will indeed cause pressure on the child over time, so the scale of it should be grasped well, but this concept must be "implanted" in his heart. Because, children are willing to protect their parents.
The child's grades suddenly dropped in the third year of junior high school!What are the reasons why 16-year-olds don't want to study?
First, there is a setback. Most of the 16-year-old children want to study hard, but the effort is not proportional to the gain, and the parents do not give him positive encouragement in time, "meritocracy", ignoring the child's efforts. This frustration will wear out the child's interest in learning, and he will not be able to learn if he wants to.
Second, the basic knowledge is not solid. If the child does not know the old knowledge, he will turn the new knowledge that he does not know into the old knowledge. It's like snowballing, there will be more and more knowledge. In the process of learning, the child owes too much knowledge and has too much baggage, which crushes him, and he will not listen to the new lesson, and finally he will lose interest in reading.
How to stimulate 16-year-old children's interest in learning
Build self-confidence. Parents should give their children affirmation and praise, and children generally love to listen to stories and tell jokes. For a story, parents will ask a question, and children will read it with relish and get the answer through their own efforts.
Whether he reads fluently or stuttering, his parents should praise him very much, he will have a sense of pride, he will read happily, and he will be more interested in books. As he grows older, he will tell what he sees and hears, and his child's self-confidence will be built, and he will be interested in everything.
For the child's sudden decline in grades in the third year of junior high school, the sharing is here, and the desire is not up to speed. As the saying goes: "If you want to do it quickly", "it will come naturally". To improve children's interest in learning, parents should avoid impatience, not be in a hurry, and not force him to learn. If you push too hard, the child will become agitated, impatient, and subconsciously rebel, so that he will become forgetful, and will forget all the things he has just learned.