Receiving a private message, the content is not complicated, but it is quite common in life.
A girl asked, she has a male friend, and the relationship between the two is quite good, but I don't know whyWhat does it mean that he suddenly stopped contacting himself?
Although the girl didn't give a lot of information, I could guess that the relationship between the two should be in a more tangled state, not a couple, but not an ordinary friend.
To be honest, in the face of this dilemma, the most important thing for women is to first figure out why the other party suddenly stopped contacting.
Only by finding out the core of the problem can we better "prescribe the right medicine".
Typically,When the opposite sex gets along, a man suddenly stops contacting you, most of the reasons are hidden in these 4 reasons, which are very real.
1.He shifted his target.
In the emotional world, people are always searching, comparing, and choosing.
When a man meets a woman he likes more likely, his emotional focus may shift.
This kind of transfer is not necessarily a simple change of thought, this kind of transfer may be that he is more identified with the new partner, or he is disappointed in the existing relationship.
In this case, his sudden silence represents a renunciation.
Of course, this abandonment is not because of your problem, but that he has turned his gaze to someone else.
2.He was angry.
In the process of getting along with men and women, due to different personalities and concepts, sometimes there will be some misunderstandings and frictions.
If a man feels that some of your actions have hurt his feelings, or he feels that his enthusiasm is not being reciprocated, he may choose to disconnect to express his dissatisfaction and anger.
In addition, it is also possible that you are too close to other members of the opposite sex, so he is jealous.
In these cases, disconnection is a self-protection mechanism to avoid further emotional damage.
He expresses his displeasure by keeping his distance, while also giving you the opportunity to reflect and adjust.
3.He's tempting.
In emotional relationships, temptation is a common strategy used to assess the emotional engagement and willingness of the other person.
By suddenly disconnecting, he can observe whether you will reach out to him and thus judge his importance in your heart.
This temptation may stem from a sense of uncertainty about the relationship or anxiety about the future.
This kind of temptation is like a double-edged sword, if it is used well, then the relationship between the two of you will go further.
If one pushes too hard, then the relationship may be over.
4.He's really busy.
Busy, sometimes it is an excuse, but sometimes it is indeed the main reason, but this reason is often ignored by everyone.
In the fast-paced life of modern society, people often face multiple pressures such as work and study, resulting in a serious lack of time and energy.
In this case, he may be too busy to reach out to you.
Of course, while this situation is more frustrating, it does cause emotional alienation.
If both parties fail to communicate in a timely manner and deal with the situation together, the relationship may be damaged as a result.
Objectively speaking, a man suddenly does not contact you, the reasons can be varied, for women, you need to judge in combination with the actual situation, and then think about how to deal with it.
You can advance or retreat, you can treat it as if nothing happened, or you can take the initiative to care about the other partyYou can do whatever you want, the key is to follow your heart.
Finally, I want to say that,The relationship between the hunter and the prey,
It's not an eternal ......