If you are 30 years old and have not yet figured out that "life is continuous hard work to have occasional sweetness", then you have lived this age in vain.
This sentence sounds a bit like a sensational line, but it says the true meaning of life. The sweetness in life does not come out of thin air, it requires our unremitting efforts and hard work.
Very friends think that the life of the wife and children on the hot kang is as long as they have no desire and no pursuit, and they lie flat. However, have we ever thought that the hot kang head of the wife and children is a kind of desire in itself?
Just like buying**, unless you buy very little and go up very little, your bankroll must be less and less the more you play. Why?Because every time you think about it, you need to make a decision, and continuing to take it is also a decisionEvery decision consumes energy.
If you want to live a high quality of life, you need to consume energy continuously, either you have less desire or you have more energy.
In this day and age, consumption is everywhereWhether it is physical consumption or spiritual consumption。Travel, shop, enjoy life,All of them consume our financial resources and energy
But what is the most important thing in life?It is to give up consumption and make money. If you don't have enough financial foundation, no matter how advanced your life is, it's just a flash in the pan. Therefore, only by understanding your basic market and giving up consumption can you really make money.
But giving up consumption is not to live an ascetic life, but to think carefully about your own spending and avoid blindly following the trend of consumption and comparison. Spending responsibly means meeting basic needs while thinking about future investments and savings, rather than spending too much money for short-term pleasures.
At the same time, it is not about blindly chasing money, but about striving to improve one's ability and value, and increase one's income through studying, Xi working, and investing. This is not to encourage people to rush for money, but to emphasize the need for long-term financial planning and financial self-reliance.
Because only by having a sufficient economic foundation can you enjoy a higher quality of life, and you can live the life you want by relying on yourself after the age of 30.
At this age, we should be clear that we can only rely on ourselves. In life, there are no things that must be done, but no matter what choices you make, there will be regrets.
So,Before we reach a certain economic level, we should first do what is best for survival.
Don't listen to people who say "life can't be enjoyed without time, can't always be so hard", because they are just cheap. After the age of 30, we should see clearly that only by relying on ourselves can we live the life we really want.