Life will not be smooth sailing, we have to go through setbacks in order to grow and become stronger.
Our choices determine our lives, so no matter when and where, we must have self-esteem, self-fear, and self-courage.
Only in this way can we truly improve ourselves, improve ourselves, and ultimately take control of our lives in the process of self-improvement.
Shame
Shame is the basic principle of being a human being, and people without shame will be like animals, unable to restrain their behavior.
The sages in history can be famous through the ages because they can resist **, stick to their beliefs, and not degenerate into beasts.
People will have mistakes and difficulties, but as long as they can admit their mistakes and feel ashamed, they will not go to depravity, as Mencius said: "Shame is great for people."
Shame is an important quality of people, and people with shame will be self-disciplined, honest, and become saints.
And people who have no shame will be unreasonable, unprincipled, and bottomless, worse than beasts, only caring about their own interests and ignoring the feelings of others.
They will indulge in pleasures, pursue low-level desires, and even do things that are immoral, and even if they are exposed, they will not be ashamed, but will be self-righteous.
Such a person will eventually become a beast spurned by others, achieve nothing, and be ruined.
Therefore, we must be ashamed, be ashamed and courageous.
Awe
The most fundamental thing is to be in awe.
As the saying goes, only when a person has a heart of awe, will he be full of awe for life, for life, and for the world.
When people have reverence, they will realize their own insignificance and will be able to discover their potential.
The two seem to be opposites, in fact, only truly mature people, people who really live and understand, can understand the truth and philosophy.
People, once they have a sense of awe for nature, human nature, and society, they will have a calm and calm mentality, a wise and cheerful mood.
Don't don't do good things because they are small, don't do them because evil things are small, be a person and do things, cultivate inside, and practice externally, so that you can become stronger and more independent.
People who are truly in awe will definitely understand what to do and what not to do.
Those who do not have reverence can easily become arrogant, and it is easy to do risky things, but they want to show off themselves in the hope of wealth and danger.
But in fact, a truly intelligent person, a person with a true sense of awe, will never have a fluke mentality, let alone violate his conscience to do something contrary to the principles of heaven.
You must know that if you often walk by the river, there is no reason not to get your shoes wet, and the more bad things a person does, the easier it will be to reap the consequences in the end.
Instead of deceiving and deceiving and losing reverence, it is better to be sincere, do things with integrity, treat others with awe, be kind to yourself and others.
Ultimately, stay humble, learn to keep a low profile, and let yourself truly be successful.
The heart of the brave
Life is not satisfactory, life is long, but time is like an arrow, remember to learn to cherish it.
Of course, when you are young, you should struggle more, make more progress, and take the initiative to gain experience, lessons, and knowledge.
Even if you fall, even if you are wrong, don't be afraid, but be brave, change your attitude and ideas, and continue to update and optimize yourself.
What people fear most is that they don't dare to get back up after they fall.
Everyone will lose their way sometimes, but the timid will only be in the wrong place, self-pity, self-harm.
But there are people, even if they fall and lose their way, they will not give up on themselves, but will pick themselves up again and start again.
Even when necessary, give up all the previous efforts, give up the previous preparations, know how to stop losses in time, and dare to start from scratch.
Then, truly let yourself have a heart of shame, a heart of awe, and a heart of bravery, constantly shape yourself, strengthen yourself, and let yourself truly live with integrity, honesty, brightness, and shame!-end-
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