Today, let's talk about a sharp weapon in the system, which can definitely help you.
Let's throw a question first, someone asked you to do something, it was not a big deal, and I said thank you to you. The other guy brought you a small piece of cake. The next time you encounter something, you can only give it to one of the above two people, who do you give it to?
Let's not raise the bar, under the same conditions, I think you will give the latter. Why?Because human nature wants to be respected by others, and human nature also likes to covet profits.
Some people scoff at the culture of gift-giving, but if someone really gives him a gift, he must be happy because he feels respected.
If you have two children, one child will bring you something every time he goes back, and the other child will take nothing and leave after eating. Although as a parent, I don't evaluate it too much, but in the long run, when I really have to balance, I will still prefer the former from the heart.
Parents are like this, but what about the others?
So sometimes, Zero Guide doesn't necessarily care about your little things, what he cares about is your respect for him.
There is a child in our unit, a newcomer, and a person from another province who works alone. Occasionally, I bought me a cup of milk tea or a small snack, which is said to have taught me a lot. It's not expensive, but I'm beautiful in my heart, and I took a big deal with him when he got married.
Later, we were promoted to a high level, and we took him away and took him to a small position. This kid is still like this to me, and there is no need to repeat how he is to Zero Guide, and caution can often make a big difference.
Therefore, when you have a request for help, don't always say thank you, use a little (send) heart (gift), and do better things next time. When you do more things, you will build your own fine network.