In recent years, the hot topic of "all members of Zihan" has gradually faded and has been replaced by a new wave of common names. However, these common names caused some uncomfortable feelings among the students and made them unable to hold their heads up. This article will explain the reasons for the popularity of new names and the problems that exist in them, and call on parents to pay attention to their children's feelings and future development when choosing names.
Recently, the stalk "Teacher, my family Zihan" has been frequently circulating on the Internet. The cause was that a child named Zihan was bitten by a mosquito in the kindergarten, and his parents questioned the teacher, triggering a series of funny comments and jokes. However, the name Zihan used to be very popular in the past, and many parents have given their children similar names. Names such as Zihan, Zihan, Zihan, Zihan, and Zihan have almost become rotten streets, so that when the new students start school, most of their classmates are called Zihan. In order to avoid confusion, the teacher had to add a suffix to each sub-hann, which led to the embarrassment of the students being flagged. However, this phenomenon gradually subsided, and a new batch of common names began to become popular.
Why is a new batch of common names starting to catch on?First of all, some parents like to give their children rare names, especially those born in the 90s. They pursue individuality and distinctiveness, and the more difficult and rare the words to write, the more they can satisfy the maverick psychology of parents. However, these names can cause writing difficulties for students and even affect their enthusiasm for learning to Xi to write. Secondly, some parents like to give their children four-character names with pseudo-compound surnames, and even use various games, anime, **, etc. as inspiration for naming. Such a name may seem very distinctive to parents, but students are often nicknamed by their classmates and feel embarrassed. In addition, parents are too personal and neglect to consider their students' future development and social context, resulting in their reluctance to introduce their names in public.
Although the popularity of common names satisfies the individualized needs of parents, it has caused some problems for children. First of all, some of the unfamiliar characters make students feel bothered and frustrated when learning to Xi to write. Students learn to write mainly Xi simple characters, but their own names may be made more difficult by the unfamiliar characters, and they may cry and complain that their parents have given them an overly complicated name. Secondly, the name of the homophonic stalk is easy for students to take nicknames. While classmates may not have malicious intent, students often feel uncomfortable and even have a damaging character. Finally, names that are too special and personal can make students feel embarrassed and bothered when introducing themselves. Names are supposed to represent a person, but names that are too special make students tend to hide their true identity.
In the face of the popularity of common names, we should call on parents to take into account their children's feelings and future development when choosing names. First of all, avoid using words that are too obscure and difficult to write, so as not to add unnecessary distress to your child. Second, avoid overly maverick and personalized names, and consider whether your child will be able to introduce themselves confidently in a social setting. At the same time, parents can communicate more with their children, listen to their opinions, and give appropriate suggestions on the basis of respecting their children. The most important thing is to consider the future development of the student, and not to give the child blessings and misfortunes in order to pursue individuality.
Although the popularity of "all members of Zihan" has gradually subsided, the popularity of a new batch of common names has caused some problems. Parents are overly individualized and maverick, and naming their children should take into account their children's feelings and future development. We urge parents to choose a name wisely to avoid unnecessary distress and embarrassment to their children, so that they can confidently face their own names and the evaluation of others. A name is a symbol of a person's identity, and should follow public morals and social norms, without pursuing too much individuality and ignoring the feelings of others about the name. Naming is not only a parent's right, but also a responsibility for the child's happiness and growth.