The mouth industry is not gone, and the blessings are hard to save. With a knife on the mouth, bad karma is difficult to eliminate The mouth is a blessing and a curse The tongue is for the benefit of the ancestors The advice of the ancestors If people don't say four words, they will have a blessing. Tell our juniors to say what should be said, don't say what should not be said, sometimes the speaker has no intention, the listener has a heart, and it is inevitable that he will not get into trouble.
Hello everyone, I'm Xiaomeng.
There is a ruler of words and a degree of banter. Knowing people doesn't have to be exhausted, leaving some virtues" This is the warning of the ancients, speaking is an art work, and speaking must grasp the scale, and it is best not to say these four words.
First, don't talk about the length of the family, respect for others, many people's favorite is to say that the east is the family, the west is short, sometimes hearsay will get into trouble Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, a family does not know the difficulty of a family, you don't understand the tiredness of others, others can't feel your hard work, we must be cautious, do not talk about other people's housework, do not be a gossip communicator This is respect for others, but also a constraint on oneself After all, no one wants to be discussed by others For other people's housework, you can listen, but do not spread, this is the basic principle of living in the world. Many times, because of an unintentional remark, I came to the door to cause trouble, and I said that last month, Grandma Wang chatted downstairs and mentioned the divorce of Aunt Wu's daughter, and made bad remarks without knowing the truth, which had a great impact on Aunt Wu's daughter, so Aunt Wu went to the door to theorize, and quarreled, and Grandma Wang's son and daughter-in-law were also very angry, blaming her, and the family quarreled again Don't rub salt on other people's wounds, learn to accumulate virtue under your mouth, and accumulate blessings for everyone
Second, don't tell lies and lie People can't stand without faith Don't be smart When you use lies to fool people, what you lose is your character, and what you ruin is the second half of your life. Deceive people with lies, what you lose is credit, and what you destroy is relationship. If you deceive for a while, you can't deceive for a lifetime There will always be a day when you can't hide it, and your lies will always be exposed in front of people. In the end, you will lose the trust of others, you will lose the sincerity of others, family and friends can share weal and woe, you can quarrel, you can share worries, but you must not deceive because the people you can deceive are all people who believe in you are all people who love you Paper can never contain fire You are kind to others, like a piece of sugar, eat and eat and it will be gone, but if you have hurt others and deceived others, it is like a scar, the wound is healed, the scar will always be This is a permanent scar So speak, don't deceive; Be a man, don't be hypocritical; Be a man who should be honest, be true to his word, and be fruitful in his deeds Remember the saying: "Anything is better than hypocrisy and deception." "We usually talk to accumulate blessings, and we must cherish the people around us who believe in you.
Third, don't say cold words and treat others with kindness As the saying goes: good words are warm in three winters, and bad words are hurtful and cold in June. Good words and bad words are often only in a thought, and good people always put themselves in the shoes of others and give them the courage and strength to live upwards. And some people like to fall into the well, and the end result is to make people hate it even more, and when they encounter problems, some people are Xi using words to attack or hurt others, but in fact, this practice is harmful and only increases conflicts and conflicts. It's better to use gentle language to solve the problem There is also a situation where some people are obviously very kind-hearted and obviously understanding But it is because the heart is straightforward and does not say warm words Sometimes use the most extreme cold words to express her concern and kindness, I once met an eldest sister She is often enthusiastic about helping others but her speech is difficult to listen to Always speak coldly Although everyone knows that she has no malice But it will still hurt everyone's hearts Even sometimes you have a bad heart If you usually have the Xi of speaking straightforwardly and speaking openly Remember to correct it in time, it will increase the happiness of all. After all, "good words with people are warmer than cloth; Hurt people with words, deeper than spears.
Fourth, don't say hurtful and cruel words, good words are like clothes, giving people warmth; Cruel words are like knives, poking scars at people. Sometimes there are unintentional words for the sake of a momentary pleasure and a moment of anger, and the cruel words are difficult to take back, and they are happy, but they also stab the other party's heart. I remember that there was a pair of sisters and brothers in my hometown who died of old age because of a word; They haven't been in touch for decades, they have said cruel things to each other, and no one is willing to bow their heads Later, during the epidemic, both of them were more serious, worried that if they didn't reconcile, they wouldn't have a chance, and this was reconciled, and because of the cruel words, they caused decades of regret
There is a saying that a soft tongue can break a person's bones, and words can sometimes hurt people more than violence. In life, every word and deed is accumulating blessings for yourself. A person's good fortune has a lot to do with his "mouth". A person who is cautious in his words and deeds will inevitably receive help from others and gain countless confidants on the road of growth, while a person who does not know how to be cautious in words and deeds will inevitably suffer a lot of losses because of his reckless actions. A person who knows what to say and what not to say under what circumstances is high emotional intelligence and great wisdom in the worldI think that not saying these four words can bring blessings It really makes sense You can like and pay attention If it inspires you Or you have also said something wrong Remember to collect and give it to your important relatives and friends Tell them Self-cultivation first cultivates the mouth, and in the world, you must pay attention to the morality of the mouth. The highest knowledge in life is to know how to shut up when it is time to shut up, think twice before speaking, be cautious in words and deeds, do not suffer losses, be thoughtful, and have fewer contradictions. If wise people don't say these four words, they will be blessed, and they will definitely thank you for sharing your love
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