The cheating party and the third party have real feelings.
In the recovery of an extramarital affair, the two situations that are most tested for the client and the counselor are the two situations in which the extramarital affair touches the true affection and the illegitimate child.
Qian Zhongshu said that when the elderly fall in love, it is like an old house on fire, and it cannot be saved.
An example of Qiong Yao's third party turning positive.
Lin Wanzhen, who was cheated, did not agree with her husband's divorce at that time, but chose to defend her marriage to the end, but this marriage defense battle lasted for eight years, and finally Lin Wanzhen gave up, and the man and the third party Qiong Yao got married.
Lin Wanzhen, like other wives who were cheated on and did not want to divorce, thought that as long as she dragged it out, her husband would remember his relationship and children for many years and return to the family, but she didn't know that her husband at that time had really fallen in love with a third party.
When a man has true feelings for a third party, rashly redeeming it will not only not let the man return, but will also make the man fall deeper and deeper into the third party, and will make him haunt you because of your obstruction.
Even if delaying tactics are used to redeem success, most of them are only a body without sincerity.
There are some extramarital affairs that have real feelings for each other, they are really in love with each other together, they met the right person at the wrong time, and the relationship between the two people is getting deeper and deeper because of their love.
Due to a sense of responsibility, or considering children, parents, and various problems, there is no way to divorce, and I don't want to be completely separated. In this case, the extramarital relationship, without firewood, rice, oil and salt, only talks about poetry and distance, may last longer.
When you find that the other party's betrayal is not dealt with in time, although the days seem to be peaceful, but in fact there is an undercurrent, but the other party is just covering it up.
The responsibilities and obligations of marriage are waived.
People who are sincere to a third party will feel that the family is a bondage, and the partner is the third party, and he will lose his temper and be irritable if his words go wrong, and he wants more freedom.
Love someone, apart for a quarter of an hour, will miss. If you don't love someone, the longer you leave her, the better.
A man who has moved his heart in extramarital love no longer has the spirit of marriage contract, nor does he want to assume due responsibilities and obligations, and is clamoring for divorce.
I no longer have patience with my partner, only indifference and disgust, and just want to get rid of my married status as soon as possible and have a good love outside of marriage.
He will be duplicitous, saying that he is ashamed of his family and his partner, but he has already made a choice in action.
There are even some who will shift the blame for the breakdown of their marriage to their partner in order to reduce their guilt.
Increased energy and material input to third parties.
People in extramarital relationships are more willing to spend their time and energy on a third party outside of marriage, whether it is energy or material.
He will become budget-conscious about the needs of his family, passive and indifferent to the emotional needs of his partner and family, and unwilling to give anymore.
To preserve extramarital relationships can undermine legitimate marital interests
At first, the visitor was used to her husband's cheating, and her voice in the marriage was very low, and she felt that her husband was acting on the scene anyway, and she couldn't do anything about it.
I haven't divorced my husband until now, I don't want to affect my family, and I hope to maintain my current marital status, even if it's just a formality; Second, the cause and property of the common struggle cannot be controlled by oneself.
Until he received the ** of the third party, he was different from the previous scene, and this time the husband seemed to be moved by his true feelings. The husband even filed for divorce, and even threatened to be willing to leave the house and be with a third party.
At first, the client did not realize the seriousness of the problem, and felt that her husband was in a cheating and cerebral madness period, and after a while, the relationship would fade, and he would be fine.
It's only a few months later, when she went to enroll her child in the make-up Xi class, she found that there was not much money left in the account, and when she inquired, her husband was even ready to buy a house for a third party.
The visitor, who has always been calm and calm, is faced with a situation of both people and money, but this time he is really panicked.
Find the "Nine Sugars" in the hope of saving the marriage, in fact, the key at this time is to recover the financial losses first, and then decide whether to save the marriage relationship.
After forming an advisory team consisting of counselors, legal affairs, and investigations, after mastering the payment and transfer records (cheating recovery and marital relationship reconstruction: how to collect evidence of infidelity), they negotiated with a third party (cheating recovery and marital relationship reconstruction: how to take the initiative in negotiating with a third party?). Substantial progress has been made.
When a man has real feelings for a third person, waiting and forcibly separating are not effective options.
All extramarital affairs are immoral, and by the time you decide to defend your power and fight for your interests, you already have the first-mover advantage.
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