A third party who does not require a superior position.
In the redemption of marital relationships related to extramarital affair infidelity, there are some cases of redemption that are a very big test for both the client and the counselor.
The client needs to be patient enough to persevere, and trust the consultant to be able to implement the plan thoroughly.
Counselors need a senior foundation in psychology, able to study and judge problems and developments, and have more ways to deal with the accumulation of cases.
If she is not interested in your marriage, and the cheating party is just mutually beneficial, she provides emotional value to the man, and the man provides her with benefits, it is easy to last for a long time.
The visitor and her husband have been married for 17 years, and they have two children, one in high school and the other in elementary school. The visitor is a civil servant. Her husband is an executive of a foreign company, with a good salary but a busy job, and often needs to travel for entertainment.
The visitor's husband and the third party started at the high school reunion, the third party has been divorced with a child, the personal economic conditions are average, the visitor's husband has some ambiguity when he is in the classmate, and there is sympathy and compensation when he meets again.
The third party was pregnant with the client's husband's child, and when the two went to the hospital for a prenatal checkup, they were met by the client's friend, only to find out that they were cheating.
After the relationship is exposed, the client asks the husband to solve it immediately, and the third party begins to ask for a superior position, and the cheating man plays Tai Chi on both sides.
The counselor and the client develop a separation plan. (In the face of extramarital affair cheating, counselors have 10,000 ways to solve it).
1. Collect evidence of cheating
2. Establish a united front with the derailing party
3. Dismantle the relationship between the cheating party and the third party
Fourth, repair the relationship
Most third parties do not seek to be superior at first, which is a combination of pros and cons, and when these factors change, it is very likely to upset the balance.
In the extramarital affair of a third party who does not require superiority, the different demands of the third party will also lead to different directions of the marital relationship.
Extramarital relationships dominated by financial interests.
Some are similar to professional third parties, or are guided by economic interests in the relationship, where economic interests come first, and emotional relationships are secondary or none.
Because she only values wealth, she chooses to build a relationship with a cheating man instead of getting married. In this way, she can get more money, and marriage will be bad for her and bring a lot of constraints. By developing an extramarital affair, she can withdraw at any time.
In contrast, it may not be easy to get a divorce after marriage, so the third party does not seek superior status. In fact, the relationship does not last, and they see the cheating man as a step up the ladder to meet the more wealthy man and get more money by building a relationship with the cheating man. This relationship between money-seeking third parties and cheating men does not stand the test of time, and they see cheating men as a resource through whom they can obtain money and try to find a richer partner.
Of course, there are some circumstances that can make an extramarital relationship that is purely financially linked to it dangerous, such as a third party becoming pregnant in order to obtain more financial benefits.
Diagram feelings, only ask to be with the cheating party.
All extramarital affairs are immoral, and interfering in other people's marriages and being a third party will have some common situations.
Some of them are neglected or hurt in the process of growing up in their original families, causing them to feel that they are not worthy of love when facing emotional relationships, so when they are cared for or loved, they will also be sincerely afraid, and in order to be loved, they would rather turn their backs on morality and even love brains.
Of course, in terms of competing for the attention and care of the cheating party, the cheating party will gradually be required to spend time and energy to accompany the cheating party, and even force the cheating party to divorce, which will also lead to the third party hating the cheating party out of love.
Use the cheating party as a springboard to get more resources
The pursuit of resources and power is the willingness of a third party to intervene in other people's marriages across age and feelings, without asking for another part of the upper position.
In the workplace and business occasions, extramarital affairs mostly use the cheating party as a stepping stone, while the cheating party enjoys the desire for conquest brought by their power and resources.
Just like in the name of the people, Gao Xiaofeng urged Secretary Gao to obtain policy support and commercial resourcesAnd Secretary Gao enjoys the deliberate worship and her youthful contentment.
There may be a variety of factors in the situation in life, such as there are also extramarital affairs that cheat for revenge and do not pursue the upper position, and active resolution is a firm factor for recovery.
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