When I was in high school, the high ponytail was gone and replaced with a catfish, which made my parents very puzzled.
In recent years, we have witnessed a shift in the aesthetic perception of college students. The former classmates all wore pigtails one after another, looking clean and refreshing, full of youth. In the 90s, wearing a high ponytail was a cool sign, and those girls preferred to comb neatly and without bangs.
On the contrary, the boys still maintain the traditional board size, which is simple but also charming.
However, after a period of development, the post-10 students have already completely overturned their hair in the past"Kill Matt", but followed"Catfish head"of fashion trends.
Nowadays, it is not only girls but also boys who are popular in middle schools. In the 90's it was also called"Nose of the aircraft"The head of the catfish is reminiscent of the "non-mainstream" of that time.
The most striking feature of its head is the spike-like tassels on both sides, the slightly thin tassels resemble the beard of a catfish, and the wide tassels resemble the wings of a flying machine. This wide, fat hair is also the favorite style of many junior high school students.
Although such hairstyles and dressing styles are popular among elementary school students, their parents are confused by them. In their opinion, the head of the catfish will hinder the visual effect of the students in class, and the outfit is also ugly.
It has to be said that the aesthetics are different between people, especially middle school students. Parents need to understand that if their children's performance does not hinder their schoolwork, then they can be properly indulged.
Children should have their own private space, they should have their own independent life, and parents should not be too strict. Being too harsh can be counterproductive, making students feel constrained and losing their freedom.
Although it is difficult to understand the aesthetic concept of today's teenagers, parents should also think carefully and find a way that suits them. Otherwise, there will be a rift in the relationship between parents and children, and parents should be more tolerant and understanding.
However, parents should be alert when children are behaving abnormally. At the beginning of junior high school, teenagers are in the period of puberty, and curiosity about women and attention to their own appearance are common. However, when there is a sudden decline in children's academic performance, parents need to pay attention. The college entrance examination is very important for every candidate, and a small mistake may make them lose their qualification to enter undergraduate colleges and universities, and thus be shunted to secondary vocational colleges.
Therefore, at the beginning of junior high school, parents should guide their children so that they understand the importance of correct knowledge and focus on their own research. Because the ratio of vocational transfer students in the entrance examination is 5 to 5, half of them go to ordinary schools, while the rest go to vocational schools. Although the state attaches great importance to higher vocational education, the bad atmosphere of higher vocational colleges and the poor self-control ability of students are likely to cause some bad consequences.
Students need to understand that their first mission is to learn. We can go after it, but don't exaggerate it. As long as there is moderation, a high ponytail can also be beautiful. Students should know that the most urgent thing at the moment is to study, and other things can be put aside first.