The dilemma for the future is this: the south wall is not worth a blow.
When I was a child, my family was poor, and it was a luxury to have enough food and new clothes. After years of hard work, I finally have a house and a stable life. However, the people around me have lived a life of luxury, and I am ashamed of myself.
In my quest for wealth, I was stuck. The road to investment and business development is fraught with exhaustion and confusion. Until one day, I heard the saying, "You'll never make more money than you know." "As it turned out, the problem was a mismatch between my abilities and desires, which caused me to burn out.
Smart Retreat: Why Always "One Step Ahead".
The rest of your life is long, learn from smart people and give yourself the ability to move forward and backward. Smart people are not fast, but timely. They know when to back away and when to slow down to avoid hitting the wall.
There are three situations in life: victory, chaos, and pinnacle.
When you win: It is said that behind the victory is a huge attrition. During the Northern Song Dynasty, the general Di Qing retreated shortly after defeating the enemy, and he knew that recovery after victory was far more important than pursuit.
When the situation is chaotic: Some people are always entangled in a chaotic environment, and it is better to choose to withdraw rationally. Rational people know how to protect themselves by "not disturbing others, not going to chaotic places".
When people reach the top: those who have money, status, and wisdom know how to take the initiative to go downhill. Learning to let go of success and share wealth and status is a kind of height of being a person.
The Way of the Wise: The Wisdom of Fan Zhongyan's Seawall.
The story of Fan Zhongyan's construction of the seaside embankment tells us that the way of a wise man is to be able to take a step back and live with the environment like nature. Learning to make concessions at the right time is not cowardice, but a sign of wisdom.
The Wisdom of Man and Nature: Why We Should Fight Against Nature.
Why fight with people?Why fight against nature?Learning to retreat is to teach us the wisdom of living in harmony with the environment and with people. In the face of life's ups and downs, you don't have to go your own way.
In this noisy society, we might as well learn to take a step back. As the saying goes, "If you want to progress, you have to regress;If you're starting out, think about letting it go. "Perhaps, taking a step back, the sea and the sky, life can be more leisurely.