Since his debut, Huang Zhizhong has starred in film and television works such as "The Right Way in the World is the Vicissitudes of Life", "Chinese Expeditionary Force", "Mansion Gate", "Past Events", "Home Cooking", "Breakthrough" and so on.
With his superb acting skills, he has won the "Golden Eagle Award" and "Feitian Award", and is a powerful actor loved by the audience.
Huang Zhizhong is now 54 years old, but he has been single since his divorce from He Yin, because the custody of his son is with his ex-wife.
Huang Zhizhong can't see his son all the time, and when he just got divorced, he couldn't help but cry as long as he remembered the happy times he had with his son.
Then I couldn't sleep all night thinking about my son.
Huang Zhizhong never forgot the day of the divorce, he hugged his 9-year-old son and kissed him again and again, and his son hugged his leg and asked him where he was going
He held back tears and coaxed his son to film, and his son told him in a milky voice: "After filming, come back to see me early." ”
The son's words pierced his heart.
Huang Zhizhong couldn't hold back any longer, snatched the door out, tears couldn't stop flowing, and then left the house step by step.
At that moment, Huang Zhizhong knew that he could no longer give his son a complete home, and the most important thing in this life was his ex-wife and son.
In 1997, Huang Zhizhong met his ex-wife He Yin in the crew of "Mainlander", and He Yin was already a well-known Qiong Yao girl at this time.
And Huang Zhizhong is just an unknown eighteenth-tier actor, and he receives small roles that don't show his face much.
He Yin is fresh and refined, and he is very outstanding in appearance, figure and temperament, and Huang Zhizhong is amazed by He Yin.
He sighed secretly in his heart: "It's better to see than to hear, it is worthy of being a girl Joan, you must take it, this woman will definitely be my daughter-in-law in the future." ”
Although there is a gap in fame between the two, Huang Zhizhong did not show any cowardice in the face of love, but tried to catch up.
In order to pursue He Yin, Huang Zhizhong put a lot of effort into it.
He knew that He Yin was a Sichuan person who loved chili peppers, so he used this excuse to get close, knowing that he couldn't eat spicy food, he also ate it hard.
Seeing Huang Zhizhong sweating and still playing silly, He Yin had a good impression of this simple and kind boy in his heart.
When He Yin was filming, Huang Zhizhong was waiting by the side to serve at any time.
The fan was hot, and the hot water was poured when it was cold, for fear that the water would be too hot, Huang Zhizhong also deliberately blew the water and handed it to He Yin.
Not only that, Huang Zhizhong also deliberately went to someone to learn Sichuan cuisine, and then showed his hand when He Yin's parents came to visit the class.
He Yin's parents were full of praise for Huang Zhizhong's cooking skills, and even the more they looked at him, the more they liked him.
When they learned that Huang Zhizhong was pursuing their daughter, He Yin's parents didn't consider whether they were the right person and persuaded their daughter not to miss it.
After getting along for a while, He Yin had long been moved by Huang Zhizhong's gentleness and thoughtfulness, and felt that he was indeed a person worthy of trust.
nodded and agreed to associate with Huang Zhizhong.
Huang Zhizhong was overjoyed, he excitedly held He Yin's hand and promised: "I will never let you down in this life, and I will definitely treat you well." ”
He Yin blushed, looking forward to the future life of the two.
In 1998, Huang Zhizhong and He Yin, who had been in love for seven months, entered the palace of marriage.
The wedding room is rented, a total of a few square meters, no bathroom and no heating, and there is still a long distance from the city.
Huang Zhizhong said to He Yin guiltily: "I'm sorry, I don't have the ability to let you live a good life now, will you regret marrying me?"”
He Yin told Huang Zhizhong: "Plain is true." ”
It can be said that every time Huang Zhizhong and He Yin go out shopping together, they see so many fans around their wives asking for autographs and photos.
But he could only stand in the corner and carry things, and no one came to take care of him, and he couldn't help but lose in his heart except envy.
One night, Huang Zhizhong and He Yin watched TV together, and the two had a dispute because of a role in the play.
After arguing for a few words, Huang Zhizhong felt a little unhappy.
He said to He Yin in a weird way: "You are a big star, you can just think it is good, I am not famous, and my opinion is not important." ”
He Yin suddenly heard the meaning of Huang Zhizhong's words, and knew that he had been worried about not being able to receive a good script and not being famous.
She comforted Huang Zhizhong: "You are very talented in acting, but the time has not yet come, I believe you will be able to succeed in the future." ”
He Yin was warm and comforting, but Huang Zhizhong was still uncomfortable in his heart, a dignified man, what is it to live under the halo of his wife all day long.
The once sweet feelings unconsciously cracked.
Later, as long as He Yin was filming, she would tell the director Huang Zhizhong's name before asking the director to help pay attention to the suitable role.
But in those years, Huang Zhizhong was not popular, and he played many roles and was still tepid, and when the outside world mentioned it, he was still called "He Yin's husband".
Don't mention the grievance in Huang Zhizhong's heart.
Once He Yin came back from filming, she found that Huang Zhizhong didn't cook, so she casually asked: "Why didn't you cook?"”
A simple sentence poked Huang Zhizhong's sensitive nerves.
He said unhappily: "I'm not a nanny, why do I have to cook." ”
As soon as He Yin heard Huang Zhizhong's tone, he knew that it hurt his self-esteem again, so he said cautiously: "I'm working hard in filming, and it's not good for you to share a little housework." ”
This sentence made Huang Zhizhong angry, and he yelled viciously: "I'm only worthy of cooking for you, right?"”
After that, he slammed the door and left, leaving He Yin alone to cry.
After Huang Zhizhong was angry, he took the initiative to go back and apologize to He Yin, but He Yin made a decision that surprised Huang Zhizhong.
She is quitting the entertainment industry.
He Yin did this completely to take care of her husband's self-esteem, and she didn't want to affect the relationship between the two because of the gap in her career.
In career and family, He Yin resolutely chose the latter.
After He Yin retired, he introduced all the resources to Huang Zhizhong, while he taught his husband and children at home and became the woman behind her husband.
At that time, it was the peak of He Yin's acting career, and you can imagine what a big loss it was for her to quit the entertainment industry.
Huang Zhizhong also knew that He Yin did this for him, and he repeatedly promised that he would get ahead and live up to his wife's expectations.
In 2002, the son of Huang Zhizhong and He Yin was born, named Huang Boyuan, and the birth of the son brought a lot of joy to this small family.
In order to make his wife and children live a good life, Huang Zhizhong also worked harder, and kept running the crew and auditioning.
The hard work paid off, and finally in 2006, Huang Zhizhong began to emerge.
Under He Yin's recommendation, Huang Zhizhong got the script of "Ming Dynasty 1566", and the director asked him to play the role of the Qing official "Hai Rui".
In order to play "Hai Rui" well, Huang Zhizhong was ruthless, he was born as a basketball player, and his body was too strong to fit the image of the characters in the play.
For this reason, Huang Zhizhong made up for 15 days of Ming Dynasty historical knowledge, and he also began to diet and only eat some vegetables, and lost 19 pounds in just 12 days.
At the end of the audition, Huang Zhizhong put on a costume and stood in front of the camera, looking like a clean official.
This drama has opened up a little popularity for Huang Zhizhong, he has more and more confidence in himself, and he is becoming more and more serious in filming.
Later, Huang Zhizhong was uncontrollable.
His partner Sun Honglei starred in "The Right Way in the World is the Vicissitudes of Life", and then won the "Feitian Award" and "Magnolia Award" in one fell swoop, becoming a double emperor.
More than 10 years after his debut, Huang Zhizhong finally became popular all over the country and reached the peak of his acting career, which can be regarded as a late bloomer.
Huang Zhizhong enjoyed the taste of being surrounded by flowers and applause as he wished, and no matter where he went, people asked him to take photos and sign autographs.
Isn't that what he's dreamed of?
After becoming famous, Huang Zhizhong took his wife and children back to his hometown during the Spring Festival, but he didn't expect a car accident on the road.
The car fell from a height of 9 meters onto the field.
At that time, He Yin had an idea in his heart, as long as the person was fine.
But at that time, He Yin would never have thought that although she was fine, her relationship with Huang Zhizhong for more than ten years would not be retained.
Later, as Huang Zhizhong became more and more popular and famous, he spent less and less time at home with He Yin and his son.
The perennial gathering of less and more separation made the father-son relationship between Huang Zhizhong and his son Huang Boyuan very tense, and it was not easy to meet like strangers.
Xiao Huang Boyuan often pointed to Huang Zhizhong on the TV and asked He Yin: "Is he really my father, why don't you come out to play with me." ”
Whenever this happens, He Yin will say to Huang Boyuan: "This is Dad, but Dad is very busy, and he will come back to see you when he has time." ”
The people around him persuaded He Yin: "Now Huang Zhizhong is a hot item, you must take a good look at him." ”
He Yin smiled noncommittally, she had never doubted Huang Zhizhong, she believed that her husband would never betray her.
But soon the scandal between Huang Zhizhong and Ke Lan spread all over the sky.
Although Ke Lan later clarified that she and Huang Zhizhong were just buddies at that time, the two had nothing to do with each other.
But her "good buddy" still ran home and filed for divorce from He Yin.
One day in 2011, He Yin was at home with the children as usual, but Huang Zhizhong, who had not been home for a long time, suddenly ran back.
Before He Yin could speak, Huang Zhizhong preemptively said: "Let's divorce!."”
The sudden divorce declaration made He Yin freeze in place all of a sudden, and she asked incredulously: "What are you talking about." ”
son Huang Boyuan is 9 years old, He Yin and Huang Zhizhong have also spent 13 years together, and they have finally had a better life.
The husband actually wants a divorce.
He Yin couldn't help but shed tears, she couldn't let the family break up, she couldn't let her son have no father, she couldn't lose Huang Zhizhong.
He Yin begged hard, but Huang Zhizhong was determined to divorce.
Huang Boyuan was woken up by He Yin's crying, he got up and ran to his mother, hugged his mother and said, "Mom, I protect you." ”
He Yin hugged her young son and cried bitterly.
Huang Zhizhong was also very uncomfortable when he saw the scene in front of him, he knew that he was sorry for He Yin and his son Huang Boyuan.
But he doesn't want to deceive his feelings, and reluctantly being together is just hurting each other, and that kind of environment is even more detrimental to his son's growth.
Since her husband's heart is no longer in her, He Yin is unwilling to force it, she agreed to Huang Zhizhong's request for divorce.
Huang Zhizhong left the house out of guilt and left the car and house to He Yin, and his son Huang Boyuan also lived with He Yin.
In January 2011, Huang Zhizhong and He Yin's 14-year marriage came to an end, but the two hid the fact of divorce from their son.
When Huang Zhizhong left home that day, Huang Boyuan ran to his father's side to kiss him as usual, and asked his father to come back earlier.
Huang Zhizhong left home as if he were fleeing.
He knew that all the sweetness of this home had become a thing of the past.
Not long after the divorce, Huang Zhizhong was photographed driving out of Ke Lan's house, and the underground relationship between the two was complete**.
The news that Ke Lan is a "little three" is overwhelming.
Huang Zhizhong was not spared, and there were discussions on the Internet that he abandoned the chaff after becoming famous, and gave him the nickname "Huang Buren." ”
In the midst of scolding, He Yin strongly supported her ex-husband and said that the two broke up peacefully and there was no third party.
Huang Zhizhong also stood up to clarify, saying that he divorced He Yin because of the breakdown of the relationship, and even if there was no Ke Lan, he would divorce.
Despite this, Huang Zhizhong's divorce from He Yin has become an indelible stain on his acting career.
In 2020, Huang Zhizhong and Ke Lan played a mother and son in "Meritorious", and the rumored girlfriend became their "mother" in the play.
This is still quite embarrassing to the outside world.
However, Huang Zhizhong didn't care, he thought that actors still rely on their works to speak, and scandals and gossip are other people's snacks.
Huang Zhizhong felt that instead of spending time on these scandals and gossip, it was better to care more about the growth of his son Huang Boyuan.
He Yin is a kind woman, she and Huang Zhizhong are husband and wife, they can still be friends after divorce, and they have to raise their son together.
In order not to destroy Huang Zhizhong's image in his son's mind, He Yin has never said a bad word about her ex-husband in public.
He Yin's generosity made Huang Zhizhong admire him very much, and he felt more and more ashamed of his son.
In order not to make his son suspicious, Huang Zhizhong would call him ** every day, and go to his ex-wife to see him whenever he has time.
Huang Boyuan wondered why his father only stayed for half a day every time he came to see him, and he left at night, never sleeping at home.
Huang Zhizhong lied to him and said that he wanted to shoot a night scene.
But the paper couldn't hold the fire, and after a long time, Huang Boyuan still knew the news of his parents' divorce, and he locked himself in the room without eating or drinking.
He Yin was afraid that something would happen to Huang Boyuan, so he told Huang Zhizhong about **.
Huang Zhizhong rushed to He Yin's house the next day, and as soon as Huang Boyuan saw him, he asked: "Why don't you want me and my mother?"”
Huang Zhizhong patiently comforted Huang Boyuan's emotions and told him that there was a problem in the relationship between adults, but it would not affect the child, even if his parents were separated, his love for him would not decrease.
But no matter how Huang Zhizhong and He Yin persuaded him, Huang Boyuan couldn't understand it, he firmly believed that his father had abandoned him and his mother.
The father and son parted unhappily.
Knowing that after his parents divorced, Huang Boyuan didn't like to smile as much as before, and locked himself in the house as soon as he got out of school.
When he saw Huang Zhizhong, he was lukewarm, unwilling to deal with him, and unwilling to call him "Dad", just like a stranger.
His son's attitude made Huang Zhizhong very sad, but he knew that he was not qualified to be angry, because he did not give the child a complete home.
In order to mend the father-son relationship between the two, Huang Zhizhong discussed with He Yin to take Huang Boyuan to take care of him for a period of time.
He Yin didn't want to see his son hostile to his father, and hoped that the father and son could reconcile as before, so he readily agreed to Huang Zhizhong's request.
Huang Zhizhong took his son to his residence as he wished, and he temporarily turned down a lot of film contracts and spent most of his time with his son.
After all, blood is thicker than water, and under Huang Zhizhong's careful care, Huang Boyuan gradually opened his heart to his father and became close to him.
Grandpa told Huang Boyuan: "Your father loves you very much, and he can't sleep every night when he thinks about you, and he cries several times." ”
Only then did Huang Boyuan know that his father really loved him, and he used to blame him.
Although his son forgave himself, Huang Zhizhong knew that what he had done for his son was far from enough, his son wanted to learn, he spared no effort to support, Huang Boyuan went abroad to study in high school, and almost all the expenses were borne by Huang Zhizhong.
He went abroad to see his son once a month, talked to his son like a buddy, and saw his son who was about the same height as himself, Huang Zhizhong felt relieved from the bottom of his heart.
After graduating from high school, Huang Boyuan wanted to learn acting like his father, Huang Zhizhong said to his son: "As long as you like it, I will definitely support you." ”
In 2020, Huang Boyuan was admitted to an art school abroad, and on the day he left, Huang Zhizhong personally sent his son to the airport.
At the time of separation, Huang Boyuan suddenly hugged Huang Zhizhong.
Huang Zhizhong thought that his son was reluctant to let his family go, so he patted him on the shoulder and wanted to comfort him, but he didn't expect Huang Boyuan to say a word to him.
Huang Boyuan said: "Dad, I will always love you. ”
The son's words made the iron-clad tough guy on the screen cry in the airport hall.
Although Huang Zhizhong is not a qualified husband in marriage, it is undeniable that he is a good and conscientious father.
In 2013, He Yin married Xu Yunfan, who was 9 years younger than her.
After Xu Yunfan and He Yin got married, they treated Huang Boyuan as their own, took him to swim, and the family of three made dumplings together at home.
Xu Yunfan also thought about conceiving his own baby with He Yin, but considering He Yin's age and Huang Boyuan, he gave up this idea.
In this way, He Yunfan gave all his father's love to Huang Boyuan, and his concern for his stepson even exceeded that of He Yin.
After a failed marriage, He Yin also summed up the lesson, this time she did not give up her career because of her family like the last time.
With a happy marriage and a successful career, 55-year-old He Yin has now walked out of the shadow of the last marriage failure and is gradually getting better.
And Huang Zhizhong and Ke Lan have been separated and combined for nearly ten years, but they still have not achieved positive results.
As he grew older, Huang Zhizhong experienced loneliness and loneliness, and his longing for home became stronger and stronger, and he wanted to enter marriage again.
But Ke Lan publicly stated: "I am unmarried, and I will never get married in this life." I don't know how the 54-year-old Huang Zhizhong feels.
It's hard to tell who's right and who's wrong when it comes to feelings.
Huang Zhizhong and He Yin may not be able to bear the pressure, and only after meeting Ke Lan can they release themselves and find a spiritual partner.
Now Huang Zhizhong has fame and fortune, and his relationship with his son has eased, and he has no other regrets except for being alone.