——Preface·]—
Birth, old age, sickness and death are normal human feelings, and people have to accept countless partings in their lives, and the first parting that most people experience is the parting with the elders in the family
The death of the elder is of great significance to the whole family, and if these 4 situations appear in the family after the death of the elderly, it means that the family fortune is about to decline
What are the 4 types of cases?
——Children and grandchildren are foolish and filial.】—
When the elderly are alive, the juniors in the family will always listen to the opinions of the elders before doing things, and the old people will also give the juniors guidance based on their experience for most of their lives
Moreover, filial piety to the elders is our traditional virtue, most families will obey the wishes of the elders, if the old man left any instructions before he died, the children will try to fulfill the old man's wishes.
But it is worth noting that the words left by the old man are not necessarily right, for the elderly, what they want to see most is nothing more than that the family can continue to prosper and their children can live a good life, so most of the last words are to show them the way
But after all, the old man's thinking can't keep up with the development of the times, and some things that seemed good in their time may not work todayBlindly listening to the old man can lead to catastrophe
In addition, if you are blindly filial piety, your children will abandon your personal hobbies and choose to follow the path given by the elderlyIn the long run, the child's personality will not be released, and the mood may become low and negative, which is not good for the family that wants to develop in the long run
Although we are children, we must also have basic judgment and discernment, and we can't say what the old man says, and it is best to take the path that suits us
- Husband and wife discord ·] —
The quality of a family depends on the relationship between the husband and wife, and if the husband and wife are affectionate, Qin Se and Ming, the family will get better and better with the efforts of the two
On the contrary, if the husband and wife are not in harmony, then the family will also become precarious.
Just imagine, if you and your partner often quarrel, no matter how much love you have for each other before,These feelings of love will be worn out in one quarrel after another, and the relationship between the husband and wife will become more and more strained
If you have a child and let the child live in a family full of gunpowder for a long time, the child's mood and personality will also be affected by the parents, and he will become a child who lacks love and has low self-esteem
Husbands and wives often quarrel, children are depressed all day long, and the family is not working hard to work together, how can such a family hope that it will flourish?
- Suspicious and suspicious].
Some old people were more oppressed by old ideas during their lifetimes, which led them to believe in ghosts and gods, and they had to worship ghosts and gods every major festival
Especially when the old people perceive that their limit has been dropped, they often say some nonsense in their mouths, the general content of which is related to ghosts and gods
At first, the children will think that the old man is old and will inevitably have a time when he is mentally abnormal, but once the old man dies, the children will realize that maybe the words that the old man said before his death are not groundless.
But when the deceased is gone, and no more questions can be asked, the hearts of the children will be even more uneasy, fearing that those ghosts and gods will come true
And if you are affected by this kind of thinking for a long time, your spirit will become sluggish, and you will even be obsessed with some ghosts and gods, trying to use these to help you get out of your current predicament
After a long time, it will not only affect his spirit, but also his daily life will be difficult to maintain, and the slightest disturbance will feel that the ghosts and gods are haunting, and his family will also be disturbed.
Therefore, we must be firm in our beliefs, and we must not pin all our hopes on ghosts and gods, nor can we indulge in them, otherwise the consequences will be unimaginable
- Sibling discord ·
In a person's life, in addition to their parents, the closest to them are brothers and sisters who have brotherly affection, and they are closely connected by the bond of family affection
Growing up, there will inevitably be fights, and parents will step in to help them solve problems, so that the relationship between siblings can be repaired quickly.
But once the parents died, the bond between the siblings seemed to be loosened a lot, and they could no longer be as close as before
What's more, when everyone grows up, everyone has what to do, and they are too busy to take care of their own affairs, so how can they care about others in time?
Moreover, the death of parents involves the issue of inheritance distribution, and the children have grown up and become individuals who value their personal interests, and it is easy for brothers and sisters to tear their faces when distributing
When their parents were alive, they could still live in harmony, but after their deaths, the relationship between siblings will be estranged for various reasons
Although they have the same blood in their bodies, their hearts are not together, and it is only a matter of time before the fortune of the family declines
——Conclusion·]—
The death of the elderly is a huge blow to a family, but we can't stop because of this, the best thing to do is to strive to enrich ourselves, and strive to live a better life, so as to comfort the elderly.
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