Today I saw a comment saying that I couldn't find a g-spot that satisfies the value of life. This is not an individual problem, it is a social problem, a collective problem. This topic is too large, and I will only extract a few points of my opinion. Because I have just passed through this stage, I should still be on this road, share it with everyone, I think this is more down-to-earth than those theories.
First of all, what is life?People, a lifetime, just a few decades. It's really not a long time. Excluding the time that was controlled before the age of 18 (excluding a very small number of special groups such as juvenile dezhi), excluding the time spent after the age of 60 (65 years old for men) (excluding the special people who started at the age of 60).
I haven't even counted the undergraduates, graduate studies, and Ph.D. studies abroad. According to normal people's data, you can only control your life for 42 years. 42 years is the time when we can fool around and realize ourselves. In the past 42 years, from enlightenment to enlightenment, it is necessary to understand the truth of rules, the truth of human nature, and the laws of interpersonal communication. There are enough Xi to learn in life. What is a satisfying life?Freud said that childhood is indeed nourishing, yes, what else do we have to make up for childhood in bed. And then in the unclear grade, he got married and had children with the crowd. It seems that there is no time to satisfy oneself, let alone the meaning of life.
Let's talk about the satisfaction of the current generation. Now behavioral analysis, psychoanalysis, meditation, etc. in psychology are increasingly proposed to discuss and Xi the application, which is people's confusion and gradual awakening. It is no longer limited to the food and clothing of the last century, but more about the pursuit of life, the meaning of life, the sense of self-existence and the social value that can be contributed. This is the greatest virtue of human nature, from which his creativity and good social atmosphere originate. Even if this satisfaction is not achieved in time, or is difficult to achieve, being able to think is on the way.
I can't find the g-spot that satisfies life" When I first saw this sentence, my heart twitched, and most of the hollow heart diseases of contemporary people felt like this, and they would always spend a time of confusion and helplessness, because their height and weight were growing in age, but their minds seemed to stay in the inner child stage. should be independent, but I don't know where to start, I don't know how this human race has come from generation to generation, so I especially want to peek into the lives of others, how everyone lives.
So how to find this g-spot. Look inward. Let go of the strict superego, let go of the secular rules, let go of the shackles of feudal ethics, you are just you. Calm down and think about what you want. This is an important question. Finding what you want to be is where you go. Go in the direction you want, and the height of the target can even be gradually increased as you are motivated.
The g-spot is made, and after finding the direction, action is the key.
When you are confused and helpless, when you are lonely and wandering, this is your little tree hole, welcome to talk!
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