Yan Xuejing attended a wedding in October 2020, and she took the stage to deliver a speech on behalf of the groom's family.
On behalf of a large family, I am Yan Xuejing, Ma Mingdong's daughter-in-law, bless the newcomers.
Isn't Yan Xuejing's husband Lin Yue?A lot of people are curious about this. The two also have a son.
Yan Xuejing and Lin Yue have been divorced for many years, and now she has re-entered the palace of marriage with her son.
Despite this, Yan Xuejing and Lin Yue still maintain a friend relationship, she treats her stepdaughter like her own daughter, and she does not forget to take care of her stepdaughter even if she remarries.
The relationship between Yan Xuejing and her stepdaughter has become a beautiful story.
Yan Xuejing was born in 1972 to a rural family in Liaoyuan, Jilin Province.
The parents are from the countryside, and they make a living from farming.
The children in the village have to go to the fields to help their parents after school, and Yan Xuejing is no exception.
What sets her apart from the other children is that they are all eager to help with the work, while she does not like to work in the fields, but loves to sing.
Yan Xuejing often worked in the fields for a while, and then began to sing.
The villagers generally believe that Yan Xuejing's future is bleak, but although her parents do not support her verbally, they do support her in practice.
In order to give 13-year-old Yan Xuejing the opportunity to learn performing arts, her parents used their connections to arrange for her to join the Weijin Small Theater Troupe.
Although people don't expect him, Yan Xuejing doesn't care, he always seizes the opportunity in the team to learn from his seniors, from singing in "bottoms" to wearing formal clothes in performances, and finally wins the opportunity to perform on stage.
Yan Xuejing was already dissatisfied with the conditions in the troupe, so she decided to sign up for the local drama department of the Jilin Provincial Opera School.
In 1990, Yan Xuejing obtained the admission letter of the school she dreamed of and began to learn two-person turning, which made the whole village look up to her.
After graduation, Yan Xuejing was assigned to the Provincial Armed Police Force Art Troupe, where he worked for a period of time before going to the Jilin Opera Troupe.
Career is booming, and love is moving in a beautiful direction.
In 1991, Yan Xuejing met Lin Yue, who was 10 years older than him.
The boss of Liu Laogen's big stage is Lin Yue, he likes the two-person turn, and has a very good relationship with Zhao Benshan.
Lin Yue liked Yan Xuejing's two-person singing method very much, so he took the initiative to make friends with her.
Lin Yue said that if Yan Xuejing needs help at work, she can ask him for help at any time.
Lin Yue often plays with Yan Xuejing, and whenever Yan Xuejing performs, Lin Yue can always be seen in the audience.
The emotion between them changed from friendship to love.
Lin Yue took a daughter and lived a life of rich feelings.
Yan Xuejing was carried away by love, she didn't care that he had a marriage, and was willing to treat her stepdaughter like her own daughter.
When Yan Xuejing introduced Lin Yue to his parents, he was unsurprisingly opposed by them.
Yan Xuejing's parents are from the countryside, and their only wish is that their daughter can find an honest man to marry and have children. It doesn't matter if you've been divorced, the key is to accept having a child.
It is rumored that the role of the stepmother is not good, so the parents are not willing to let their daughter suffer because of marriage, so they force their daughter to break up.
She resolutely chose to be with Lin Yue and did not obey her parents' wishes, which led to the deterioration of her relationship with her parents.
With Yan Xuejing's unremitting efforts, his parents finally compromised and agreed to the marriage of Yan Xuejing and Lin Yue.
Lin Aoxue, Lin Yue's daughter, likes Yan Xuejing very much, and she can't wait to ask her father to take Aunt Yan Xuejing home.
Lin Aoxue felt very happy on the day she got married, because she knew that she could finally have a mother.
Although Lin Yue provided her daughter with the best life, the lack of maternal love could not be filled since her parents divorced.
When Lin Aoxue got along with Yan Xuejing, she seemed to feel the warmth of maternal love, and the relationship between the two was as close as that of a biological mother and daughter.
Lin Aoxue had already called Yan Xuejing "mother" before Lin Yue and Yan Xuejing got married.
Lin Yue's affection touched Yan Xuejing and made her even more determined to marry him.
Yan Xuejing handled family affairs well after marriage, and her relationship with her stepdaughter was as harmonious as ever.
Yan Xuejing is very concerned about her stepdaughter's emotions on weekdays, and once Lin Aoxue feels unhappy, she will take the initiative to ask the reason and help her stepdaughter solve her problems.
Occasionally, she would sing a duo to her stepdaughter to make her stepdaughter happy, as if Lin Aofei was Yan Xuejing's biological daughter.
Maybe it's because Yan Xuejing is just in her early twenties, and her age is not much different from her stepdaughter, so it's easier to understand her, which leads to the further development of the relationship between the two.
Yan Xuejing later became pregnant, which made Lin Yue feel very happy.
She was worried that Lin Aoxue might not be able to accept having a younger brother or sister, and that she would misunderstand that they were robbing their parents of their love.
Yan Xuejing talked about this matter with her stepdaughter very seriously, but her stepdaughter had no objection and was willing to let her give birth to a younger sister or younger brother for herself, so that she could have a companion.
Yan Xuejing relaxed a lot because of her stepdaughter. She stopped working during her pregnancy and focused on raising her baby at home.
Her stepdaughter is also very sensible and can accompany her and take care of her when she is in trouble.
In the past, Yan Xuejing didn't let Lin Aoxue do housework, even if she was pregnant.
But she realized that her mother's body could not go wrong, so she volunteered to take on the responsibility of housework.
Yan Xuejing was very pleased with the scene in front of her.
Throughout her pregnancy, she spent a great time with her husband and stepdaughter.
21-year-old Yan Xuejing successfully welcomed a healthy doll in 1993, which made Lin Yue and her daughter Lin Aoxue extremely excited.
After the birth of her son, Yan Xuejing had to take care of the family and work.
She focuses on her stepdaughter, fearing that she doesn't give her enough love. Whenever her son and stepdaughter have a conflict, she always stands by her son's side.
Lin Aofei suspected that Lin Aoxue was Yan Xuejing's biological child.
In her career, she got the support of her husband Lin Yue, and through his help, she got to know Zhao Benshan, and began to sing duo and sketch performances with him.
In the process of breaking through the film and television industry, Yan Xuejing received strong support from Zhao Benshan, and his career was thriving.
Yan Xuejing became famous in 2001 for starring in "Liu Laogen".
Yan Xuejing's work is getting busier and busier, and soon after entering the organization, family affairs are beyond her scope to handle, and Lin Yue needs to be in charge.
Lin Yue was very busy because he was responsible for two life education tasks at the same time.
Lin Yue also has his own work to be busy, and sometimes he can't take care of it, which causes Yan Xuejing to find some messy things when he goes home, and the two will have disputes.
Yan Xuejing and Lin Yue's later lives were only left with endless quarrels, and gradually the relationship between the two was also worn out.
Lin Aoxue didn't want to go through the pain of losing her mother for the second time, because she had already experienced the pain of losing her mother once.
When she heard her mother arguing with someone else, she always tried to mediate their relationship, but in the end she didn't make any decisions.
Yan Xuejing and Lin Yue finally made the decision to divorce, and this news made Lin Aofei difficult to accept, and she broke down emotionally and cried.
She asked her parents, "Do you have to come this far?"Isn't there any other way?Yan Xuejing and Lin Yue didn't speak, they just shook their heads silently.
Yan Xuejing was also very sad in her heart, but she pretended to be strong and comforted her stepdaughter Lin Aoxue: I divorced your father, but this will not affect our relationship, I have always regarded you as my daughter.
This sentence made Lin Aoxue feel a burst of warmth in her heart, and she trembled and shouted, "Mom!."Yan Xuejing hugged her daughter tightly and cried bitterly after agreeing.
After the divorce procedures were completed, Yan Xuejing took her son and left the place where they had lived for more than ten years. Lin Aofei was very reluctant and sent the two of them away in tears.
With tears in her eyes, Yan Xuejing left home, she was reluctant to part with her stepdaughter, and promised to keep in touch often.
Lin Aoxue stood in place and cried so much that her voice was choked, as if the sky had fallen, and Yan Xuejing had already left with her son at this time.
Although Yan Xuejing told her that she was still in a mother-daughter relationship, she was worried that the two might never be able to contact each other again because they were not biological.
Such a person, Yan Xuejing does not belong to this category.
Yan Xuejing and her son Lin Aofei chose to move to a new place after their divorce.
She immediately told Lin Aoxue the new address, and told her to come to her mother when she was free.
Lin Aoxue was very excited to receive confidence.
Whenever Lin Yue was busy, whenever she was free, she would go to Yan Xuejing's mother to stay for a few days, have dinner with her, and go out shopping together.
Yan Xuejing and Lin Aoxue's deep relationship cannot be described in words, their relationship is as close as relatives, and the outside world often mistakenly thinks that they are a mother-daughter relationship.
Influenced by Yan Xuejing, Lin Aoxue also became interested in acting.
Yan Xuejing not only supported her stepdaughter's filming, but also personally introduced resources to her and accompanied her to participate in the filming.
Later, Yan Xuejing fell in love again, and this time she chose to keep a low profile.
Notify your friends and relatives only when you get married. Lin Aoxue was happy about Yan Xuejing's marriage.
Yan Xuejing told her husband before marriage that she would treat her stepdaughter well if she got married, while her husband expressed his willingness to treat her stepdaughter and son as his own children, and said that it didn't matter if he didn't have children of his own.
Yan Xuejing was deeply moved, and at this moment her heart was determined to marry him.
After Ma Mingdong got married, he liked Lin Aoxue and Lin Aofei very much, often took them out to play, and let his stepdaughter live at home.
They live together, and Lin Aoxue seems to be like an outsider.
Lin Yue stayed at home alone, while the other family of three went out to play.
Lin Yue never participated in the relationship between Lin Aoxue and Yan Xuejing, and even thought that this would be very beneficial to her daughter.
Her daughter had already been injured by her divorce from her biological mother, so she could not be hurt again.
Lin Aoxue is very sensible, she knows that Yan Xuejing's mother already has a new family, so she won't bother too much.
When her mother and her husband are busy, she also helps take care of her younger brother herself.
Yan Xuejing is 45 years old and has been married to Ma Mingdong for many years, but has not yet been able to have a child of her own, which was the case in 2016.
However, she felt unwell that day, and guessed that something bad was going to happen, so she went to the hospital for a check-up, and the result was as she expected, she was pregnant.
Yan Xuejing is already an advanced maternal age, and she gave birth to a child at this time, because she already has two children, and having another child will increase a lot of pressure.
When she returned home, she discussed with her husband how to deal with the matter. Ma Mingdong did not give a clear answer, saying that he wanted to listen to the child's opinion.
Yan Xuejing summoned her son and stepdaughter to her side and told them about the matter.
Lin Aoxue and Lin Aofei were both quite surprised.
Sister Lin Aoxue said,"Mom, you are not young, and having another child has a great impact on the body. "Lin Aofei immediately agreed with her sister's point of view.
They decided to let the mother give birth to the baby and promised to help take care of the child.
Yan Xuejing was greatly moved, so she decided to give birth to the child. A few months later, a daughter was born.
Lin Aoxue was willing to help take care of the children because she was worried that Yan Xuejing would feel tired.
Lin Aoxue will wait for her sister to grow up a little and then start living her own life.
However, she will keep in constant contact with Yan Xuejing's mother and go home to visit them when she has time.
Traveling together is a common choice for the family when they have free time.
As a stepmother, it is not easy for Yan Xuejing to do this, she is a great mother.
As the saying goes: a stepmother is difficult to be, and a stepmother is terrible. However, Yan Xuejing completely subverted this traditional concept.
A stepdaughter and stepmother can also have a close relationship like a biological mother and daughter.