In the process of children's growth, many children will be fragile in their hearts, can not encounter a little frustration and blame, a little unpleasant things happen, as if they can't bear the blow, what should parents do when they encounter this situation?We first need to understand the reasons for this situation, and then understand the harm of these behaviors, and find ways to guide them, so let's go into more detail.
What are the reasons for a child's inner fragility?
1. Family environment.
If the family environment is often noisy, there are unstable factors such as violence or divorce, which may cause the child to feel uneasy and helpless, which can lead to inner vulnerability.
2. Lack of attention.
Parents lack attention and support for their children, and frequent criticism, blame, and punishment will make children feel that everything is wrong, and they will not dare to try new things, which will cause children to feel unconfident and make them feel uneasy and helpless.
3. School pressure is too high.
Poor grades in school ** current Xi, excessive pressure, bullying by classmates, etc., will also cause some mental health of children.
4. Social difficulties.
Children who are not talkative, social, have no children to play with, or are isolated or ostracized by their classmates can make them feel lonely and helpless.
5. Physiological problems.
Physical and psychological problems can also cause some negative effects.
Children are fragile inside, how should parents guide
1. Cultivate children's optimistic character.
When children encounter unhappy things, listen to their thoughts more, enlighten them to go to a better place, teach them how to do things well, how to solve them next time, and get rid of bad emotional influences.
2. Believe that children are more encouraged.
Too much blame will make the child gradually lose self-confidence, and it will also make the child doubt his own ability and do nothing without believing that he can do it well. Children should be encouraged to get in touch with new things, encourage more attempts, and praise and encourage children to gradually cultivate their self-confidence.
3. Encourage children to express their emotions.
Allowing children to express their thoughts and emotions may suppress their emotions for fear of being ignored or misunderstood. Helping children learn to express emotions can help them better understand their feelings and receive support when they need help.
4. Establish good interpersonal relationships.
Children will come into contact with teachers and classmates in school, and if they have a bad relationship with teachers and classmates, it will definitely affect their psychology. Causes low self-esteem, irritability and other personalities. Parents should actively guide their children to establish good interpersonal relationships and be generous in the world.
5. Cultivate children's independence.
A person can live independently and deal with problems, and can better adapt to the new environment and meet the challenges of life in the future.