At the time of the seventies of life, there is a treasure in the family, but time flies, and now the old life is not as good as in ancient times. In modern society, people of all ages are the treasures of the family, but not all elderly people can raise resilient offspring. Children who have been pampered since childhood often face future problems in adulthood, which not only ruins their own future, but also exhausts their parents.
1. The mansion has been reduced to a garbage dump: the reporter visited the miserable life of the old people.
The protagonist of the story is Yoshihisa Maeda of Japan, who was born into a business family and has a privileged family. However, he lost his ability to take care of himself since he was a child, was addicted to online games, and his academic performance was poor. I started working under the arrangement of my parents, but when I encountered problems, I always put the responsibility on others, and I left my job soon after.
*Description: Maeda Yoshihisa's mansion was reduced to a garbage dump].
After the death of his parents and sister, Maeda Yoshihisa lived alone in a mansion. However, to the shocking thing, the entire house was littered with garbage in every corner, and even his bed was in a dilapidated state. This otaku is addicted to alcoholism, and his body has long since grown old. Among the "gnawing old people" group formed in society, Maeda Yoshihisa has become a prominent representative.
There was a reality TV show that aired in Japan called "Can I Shoot at Your House". Once, the program team invited Yoshihisa Maeda to witness his miserable living environment. Walking into the villa from the paradise-like bamboo forest, you find that the mansion is full of stench and garbage. Maeda told the staff that the chaotic environment was his shelter.
Second, the sadness of excessive spoiling by parents leads to self-abandonment.
Maeda's residence is jaw-dropping, and he has spent his entire life in the care of his parents. After the death of her parents, her sister took over the housework, but after her death, Maeda Yoshihisa fell into complete self-abandonment. This phenomenon is becoming more and more common in today's society.
*Description: Maeda's residence is astonishing
In Chinese society, there was a time when the one-child policy was implemented, and the child became the focus of the family. These only children are often overly pampered, and parents can't bear to let them suffer a little grievance. However, such doting leads to a lack of tenacity and independent problem-solving skills in the face of difficulties.
*Description: An only child who grows up lacking the ability to take care of himself
3. Reinvent yourself: In the face of crisis, learn Xi enrich yourself.
Through what happened to Maeda Yoshihisa, we began to think deeply. The fundamental reason he doesn't know how to fix the roof and tidy up his room is that he never received the right guidance when he was growing up. In this society, we need to pay attention to the importance of family education, and parents and teachers should guide children to establish the correct three views, and cultivate their self-care ability and sense of responsibility.
Liang Qichao pointed out in "Juvenile China Theory": "If the youth is strong, the country will be strong, and if the youth is independent, the country will be independent." "When raising children, it is necessary to grit your teeth and not let them indulge in a life of being pampered. The state** and relevant authorities should also provide more skills training and opportunities to help young people regain their place, regain their confidence and recognize themselves.
*Description: Learn Xi enrich yourself and reshape your life in the face of crisis].
Ultimately, we can't simply laugh at Yoshihisa Maeda, society is one big family, and we need to solve problems by caring and helping, not attacking. Both parents and teachers should be correctly guided in education, so that children can establish a correct outlook on life and values. Only in this way can we avoid more "gnawing old people" like Yoshihisa Maeda.
Conclusion: Call for correct education and guidance to cultivate a more responsible next generation for society].
This article profoundly reflects the living conditions of an elderly Japanese man named Yoshihisa Maeda, and provoked me to think deeply about family education and social responsibility. The story of Yoshihisa Maeda is a typical case of "gnawing at the elderly", his family is superior, but in the environment of excessive doting by his parents, he lost his self-independence and self-care ability, and finally fell into the tragedy of loneliness and old age.
First of all, the one-child policy mentioned in the article has sparked my concern about family education. In China, a long one-child policy has led to a generation of young people being the sole focus of the family. Excessive pampering and spoiling make these children seem overwhelmed when faced with real-life challenges. The article points out that parents should pay attention to cultivating the ideas of respecting the old and caring for the young, and being diligent and self-care in their children's education, rather than solving all problems for their children, so that they lose their due self-care ability.
Secondly, the article discusses the cultivation of social responsibility. Maeda's case shows that society should provide more opportunities for young people to train and develop their skills so that they can regain their place and confidence. This requires the joint efforts of ** and relevant departments to create more development platforms for the younger generation and help them better adapt to the needs of society.
In the face of Maeda's tragedy, we should not simply blame him personally, but should think from a broader perspective. Society is a big family, and each of us should be responsible for the people around us, providing care and help. The article concludes by calling for correct education and guidance to cultivate a more responsible next generation for society. This appeal applies not only to China, but also to families and societies around the world.
Overall, this article provoked me to think deeply about family education and social responsibility through an individual case. We should reflect on our responsibilities in the family and society, and provide a better environment and development opportunities for the younger generation, so as to avoid the recurrence of tragedies like those of Yoshihisa Maeda.
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