Maugham said
"A truly lasting love is a love that is never reciprocated. ”When love is not obtained, people will be cautious, but once they get it, they will become fearless.
Only those who truly understand love will understand the truth that love will never be obtained.
In an intimate relationship, men will behave in these ways when they don't want to lose you.
Men treat the people they like, very double standard.
He may not be taken lightly when he is outside, but when he comes home, he lowers his profile.
His machismo is just a disguise, and in the face of those he likes, he will become gentle and considerate.
He is willing to give everything for you, including putting down his face and changing his temper.
I saw a couple quarreling, and the two had a dispute over whose hometown to return to for the New Year.
The wife felt that she couldn't win the quarrel, so she put down the cruel words:
If you don't come with me, we'll leave it alone. ”
The husband was stunned for a moment, and then said with an expression**
If I go with you, I will go with you, and you don't want to get rid of me. ”
After hearing this, the wife sneered, and the contradiction between the two became a comedy.
A wonderful comment from netizens is:
"In a ** tone, saying very cowardly words, it's not true love, what else can it be. ”The man who loves you, no matter how big his temper is, is also an outsider, as long as he is to you, he will be as well-behaved as a sheep. Because he is more afraid of losing you than winning you.
Although men attach importance to personal space, they will not play the trick of "if if you leave" to the person you like.
Men who usually like to play "if if you leave" belong to the man who only wants to get, but does not want to give.
So he won't let you get involved in his life, and he won't be interested in knowing too much about you.
A man who is afraid of losing you will not bear to be "if you leave" to you.
He will want to spend every day with you, for fear of missing that moment of yours.
He wants to be involved in your life.
When he wants you to be happy, he celebrates with you.
When you're sad, he's on your side.
Whatever he does, he remembers to tell you.
A man who truly loves you will only think that he doesn't have enough time together every day, and he will be willing to deliberately keep a distance from you.
If a man cares about a woman, he will unconditionally support the other person's choice.
He hopes that women can become their ideal selves, pursue their dreams, and do what they love.
Whether you want to become a painter, start a business and open a café, or continue your studies, he will not hesitate to support you.
He believes in your abilities and is willing to accompany you in your journey through and out.
He will not influence your choices, but silently achieve you behind your back and be your solid backing.
A good love is not about who to sacrifice or back down, but to achieve each other.
The man who loves you and thinks that you are willful is a kind of cuteness.
A man who doesn't love you will think that you are willful and vexatious.
To put it bluntly, a man who doesn't love you is only willing to accept your good side and dislike your real but not good enough side.
I've seen a short **, the man in it, this describes his wife like this:
"I love how she wakes up every morning with an unkempt facet look and pouts at me, a little wake-up and sometimes a little tantrum at me.A sentence suddenly came to mind:I think this kind of her is real and interesting, and I can say that I like her like this, surpassing the glamorous she who usually goes out. ”
"True beauty, always ordinary and interesting. ”When a man is interested in you, he will tolerate your willfulness and will not ask you to change. For him, this kind of beauty can only be seen by him, and he will only cherish you and will not blame you.
I saw this sentence on the Internet:
"If you are in a relationship and you still talk about self-esteem, then there is only one reason, in fact, you love yourself more. ”Men don't want to lose women, so they will be willing to give everything for you, whether it is material or spiritual. As long as you choose the path, whether it is failure or success, he will be by your side and let you have a way out.
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