A new type of gnawing at the old: young people are fledgling, but they have already nested and returned to their roots in this fast-paced, high-pressure social environment, and a new mode of life has quietly emerged, called "new type of gnawing the old".
This is different from the old way of relying on parents to gnaw at the old, today's young people have chosen a seemingly independent, but in fact still bound to the gentle township of the temporary escape from the limelight. Imagine a bird that chooses to return to its nest before a storm hits rather than spread its wings. These young people, faced with the challenges of life and the pressure of work, choose to retreat to the original safe haven - home.
The siege of reality, the pursuit of ideals, is like a meandering stream, which hits a dam on the way to the sea, and many young people's careers are forced to come to a standstill before they even begin. They enjoy the fruits of higher education, but they choose to return to the protection of their families in the face of the great waves of challenges and competition.
Like a battle without gunpowder, these young people have chosen to retreat before breaking ground on the battlefield. They may have a deep dissatisfaction and resistance to reality in their hearts, and what they pursue is the realization of their inner passion and self-worth.
The illusion of the Internet and the heaviness of reality bear a heavy burden in real life, and they are looking for solace in the online world, and the two-dimensional and cyber culture have become their new spiritual home. Like Fang Hongjian in "The Siege", they escaped from the siege of reality, but they were trapped by the siege of the Internet and became part of the new type of gnawing at the old.
The reflection of society, the role of the family, society has many mirrors that reflect a wide variety of views. Some see it as a product of the times, the new normal for young people;Others see it as a sign of evasion of responsibility.
As Mr. Lu Xun said: "There is no road in the world, and when there are many people walking, it becomes a road." "Is this new path a shortcut to progress or a way to retreat?The role of the family, as the cell of society, has become more and more important on this issue.
The parents' wing protection was originally intended to allow the chicks to learn to fly, but excessive protection may deprive them of the courage to flapp their wings. The solution, the shared responsibility of society, in the face of this problem, every cell of society needs to play a role.
Education needs to foster practicality and independent thinking, as Spinoza said, "Don't mourn death, cherish life." "Young people need to sweat on the battlefield of life and cherish every struggle that belongs to them.
* Enterprises need to provide more platforms for employment and entrepreneurship, so that young people can get rid of difficulties on the real chessboard and find their own place. What families need to do is to develop a sense of responsibility and independence, not simply indulgence.
The confusion and struggle of youth In every line of this story, we can feel the silent struggle and rise of young people. They are wavering, exploring themselves, and some people choose to further their studies, using pressure as the driving force to move forward;Some people return to the starting point, choosing to find a temporary haven in the warm embrace of their parents.
As the old saying goes, "If there is no wind and waves, there will be no brave tide-makers." But today's storm seems to be too turbulent, so many of the tide makers choose to turn back. Is the phantom of the Internet really happy?
Internet culture, like exquisite spider webs, attracts these young flying insects to fall willingly. They find an excuse to escape reality in this illusion, but whether they have found true happiness is another question. The world of the Internet is boundless, but in reality, their world is getting smaller and smaller, and may eventually be limited to a few square meters of room.
Parental responsibility, not to condone but to guide parental love, is like a woodcutter's axe, which can either open up space for the sapling to grow, or mercilessly cut it down. Excessive indulgence is like the abuse of an axe, which not only does not help the sapling grow, but weakens its vitality.
Parents should be guides, not conniversers, and give appropriate pressure and support to help children learn to be self-reliant in the weather. The responsibility of society and the sharing of wind and rain There are various views on this phenomenon, but in any case, society cannot let this phenomenon develop, and must take responsibility and face this problem together. Just as a ship needs to adjust its sails to meet the storm, society needs to adapt strategies to help young people find their way.
Conclusion: In the face of the phenomenon of "new gnawing at the old", we can't help but ask: have we given enough support and understanding to young people?Does society provide them with enough space to develop?Has every young person found their own sky?
In these times of change, every choice can determine the direction of the future. And how will the choices of this generation of young people affect our society and culture?In this war without gunpowder, everyone is a fighter and a decision-maker.
Therefore, when we are faced with the proposition of "new gnawing at the old" again, can we bravely stand up and give young people a bright future?