Lao Qin is 60 years old, with a pension of 4,900 yuan, cooking every day, playing chess, and sometimes hiking, outing, and barbecue with old friends, he is still very happy.
On this day, he wanted to eat wontons, bought some beef and coriander, thought about making some wontons, and also sent some to his son's family, and his grandchildren liked to eat the wontons he wrapped.
When he got home, his wife Lao Zhao was not there, although he was used to it, he couldn't help frowning and sighing.
He began to work alone, chopping stuffing, mixing noodles, rolling skins, and there was a book in his mobile phone, it was Lin Haixueyuan, the anchor's voice was very good, and he broadcast all the characters by himself, each character was very distinct, he felt really powerful.
Lao Qin was busy listening to the book, and at this time Lao Zhao came back, and sighed as soon as he entered the door, he glanced at it, thinking that he must have lost again.
He didn't say anything, every time like this, she must have to find fault again, blaming him for giving her too little money, so that she didn't have a chance to turn the book, anyway, in her opinion, all the fault is someone else's.
Lao Zhao glared at Lao Qin, looking at his leisurely wontons, and listening to books intoxicatingly, which made her angry when she looked at it.
Usually she complains at most, but today, she is so angry, just one afternoon, she lost more than 100, and what makes her even more angry is that this month is only halfway through, and her 1000 yuan pocket money has been spent, so how can she play tomorrow?What did she get to turn over?
The more Lao Zhao thought about it, the more irritated he became, seeing that Lao Qin didn't pay attention to her at all, he suddenly rushed over and swept over the things on the table, Lao Qin's wontons were scattered all over the ground, and the flour was sprinkled everywhere.
Lao Qin was angry, really angry, he didn't expect Lao Zhao to be so willful, he stood up abruptly and glared at her angrily.
Lao Qin felt that Lao Zhao was too much, he couldn't go home to play mahjong every day, and he did all the work at home, what reason did she have to lose her temper when she went home?
Lao Zhao saw Lao Qin glaring at him angrily, and he was a little scared in his heart, but thinking about Lao Qin's temperament, he suddenly became bold again.
She shouted like a complaint: Hmph, you know that you can eat this and that a day, and you can die if you eat less, give me such a little money a month, what do you want to do, which woman do you want to give the money to?I'm telling you, if you don't give me the salary card, I'm not done with you.
Lao Qin stared at her speechlessly, feeling that this woman was getting more and more excessive, and glanced at the mess on the ground, and the fire in his heart became more and more intense.
Lao Zhao was still scolding angrily, saying: You are useless, you have earned so much money in a month, and you are reluctant to give it to your mother, what is the use of a man like you, I really regret it, how did I fall in love with you when I was young?
Lao Zhao was still scolding, anyway, she was already familiar with this kind of thing, she could open her mouth to say these words, and she didn't need to think about it at all.
At this moment, he was suddenly slapped heavily in the face, making Lao Zhao dumbfounded.
She has lived with Lao Qin for almost 40 years, this is the first time, she was beaten by Lao Qin, she was almost 60 years old, she was slapped in the face, she was going crazy, she was really going crazy.
Lao Zhao pounced desperately, she was going to fight with Lao Qin, she definitely couldn't suffer this kind of humiliation.
After Lao Qin slapped him, he was actually stunned, he had never fought with anyone in his life, let alone beaten his wife, but today he actually slapped Lao Zhao, and he himself didn't react at all.
Lao Zhao pounced and hit him without a head or face, he dodged left and right, but it still didn't work, so he could only throw Lao Zhao to the ground at once, and then went out.
Lao Qin sat in the small square downstairs, stunned, he suddenly didn't want to live this kind of life, now that his grandchildren are older, he can also live a relaxed life.
He didn't know how long he had been sitting, and suddenly heard his granddaughter Le Yan shouting loudly: Grandpa, grandpa, I'm here.
He turned his head and saw his son and daughter-in-law, coming with their children, his son has 3 children, 2 sons and 1 daughter, they are triplets, he is really lucky, and now the three children are 8 years old.
Le Yan is the little sister in the triplets, with the most lively personality, and has already run towards him at this time, the second Lechen follows behind, and the eldest Lejun is more stable, but he also follows his younger siblings.
Lao Qin touched Le Yan's hair that ran to his side, and said with a stiff smile: It's so hot, I don't know how to run slowly, you see that your head is sweating.
Le Yan took his hand and said, "Grandpa, let's go back, I want to eat your wontons, I've been thinking about it for many days."
Lao Qin listened to his granddaughter's words, and remembered the wontons that were swept to the ground, but he still stood up and said, "Okay, as long as we want to eat it, grandpa will make it for you."
Lechen raised his hand and shouted: Grandpa, there is still me, and me, my brother also loves to eat.
Lao Qin was surrounded by children and was in a much better mood.
They went home together, and after entering the door, Lao Zhao sat on the sofa and cried, the things on the ground were still there, and there was almost no place to put his feet.
Son Qin Zhen frowned, but didn't say anything, and began to clean up the ground with his daughter-in-law and 2 children.
Lao Qin didn't say anything, he sat on the side very weakly, he was really tired, physically and mentally tired, so tired that he felt like he didn't want to speak.
The floor was cleaned up quickly, the three children went to the study to read, and the four adults sat down, and no one spoke.
At this time, Lao Zhao began to cry and said: Zhenzhen, you have to make decisions for me, I have been married to him for almost 40 years, but he actually beat me, he beat me, I am not over this day, there is no way to live.
Qin Zhen let out a sigh of relief, and then said, "Mom, what's going on?."Why did Dad hit you?Like you said, you've all lived your whole life, and I've never heard my dad beat you?
Lao Zhao: Hmph, what else can you do?It's just that I don't like it, maybe I'm obsessed with an old widow again, it's really shameless.
Qin Zhen was speechless, he was really helpless, he just wanted to persuade a few words, and suddenly heard Lao Qin say: Divorce, I don't want to live such a day.
Lao Zhao didn't expect Lao Qin to say this, in fact, she just scolds Lao Qin every day, this is not good or bad, but in her heart, she has never thought about divorce, she is almost 60 years old, what do others think of divorce?Don't you die of being laughed at?
Besides, she doesn't want to divorce at all, she has been a housewife all her life and has never worked at all, how can she live after divorce?
Lao Zhao was still crying, but after being frightened all of a sudden, she was stunned, and when she reacted, the fire in her heart also burned, she felt that Lao Qin was wolf-hearted and ungrateful.
Lao Zhao stood up, pointed at Lao Qin's nose, and scolded loudly: You old shameless person, you really have this kind of thought, your grandson is so old, you are too dirty.
Qin Zhen couldn't listen to it anymore, and said: Mom, what nonsense are you talking about?Can you calm down?
Lao Zhao saw that his son didn't speak to her, and yelled at her, crying and scolding, saying: Woo, you all bully me, you know how to bully me, what era is it now, you don't need money to buy anything when you go out, but your father will give me 1,000 yuan, how can I live.
Lao Qin said coldly again: Well, you're right, divorce, this house is divided by my unit, it's my own, and I don't have any savings at home, but I can give you 50,000 yuan at one time.
Lao Qin glanced at her coldly and said: You better stop being greedy, you should know why I want to return the salary card, you took my salary card, but borrowed 65,000 outside, how long did the money be repaid, you won't forget it.
I'll give you 50,000 now, and I have to find a way to borrow this money, my pension will give you 1,000 per month, and the rest will be enough for the two of us to live, and we can't save money.
Lao Zhao glanced at Lao Qin, glared at him and said, "Are you serious?".Are you really going to divorce me?Completely don't care if I live or die?
Lao Qin said tiredly: Anyway, in this life, you have always looked down on me, feel that I am not worthy of you, dislike me every day I can't make money, I have no ability, and I still do, I play mahjong every day, and I will find fault with all kinds when I go home, I am old, I don't want to be found by you every day, I want to live quietly for a few days.
When Qin Zhen heard this, he was also a little dazed, he didn't know what to say, he didn't want to see his parents being 60 years old and getting a divorce, but what about his father's thoughts, did he really care about it?
In Qin Zhen's memory, the work at home is his father's, he has to go to work every day, go home to change his clothes, wash clothes, and cook.
Mom dresses up beautifully every day, and goes to play mahjong when she sleeps.
Once during the kindergarten holiday, his mother took him to play mahjong, those small mahjong parlors, there was a smell of smoke everywhere, he asked and kept coughing, and his mother said at the time: Zhenzhen, can you fight for some gas, why is it as useless as your father?A boy can't stand such a cigarette, what can he do in the future?
He cried and didn't go in, but his mother had no choice but to let him stay at the door, saying: Then you stay obediently, don't run around, be taken away by human traffickers, they won't let you eat, and beat you every day.
Qin Zhen was very scared, so he could only stand at the door until his father came back from work, didn't see him at home, and found the mahjong parlor.
Dad carried him home, he was tired and hungry, lying on his father's shoulder and crying all the way.
Dad made him something delicious and let him take a bath and go to bed after eating, and that night, he heard his parents arguing, and the sound was very loud, and in his ears, it was the sound of his mother's loud abuse, and those voices were all in his dreams that night.
He was 5 years old that year, and the next day his father asked for leave and sent him back to his grandparents' house, and he also understood why, every time the kindergarten was closed, he spent it at his grandparents' house.
Qin Zhen was still in a trance, his arm was pulled, he glanced at his wife beside him, and only heard his mother say again: Old Qin, if you want to divorce me, you must give me 100,000, otherwise don't even think about it, hum, I have been with you all my life, and now that I am old, you want to kick me away again, it is not so easy.
Qin Zhen said slowly: Dad, do you have to get a divorce?You're both this age, can't you think more about each other?It is said that young couples are old companions, and at this age, there is an old wife, and it is good to talk together.
Lao Qin glanced at him, smiled bitterly and said: Hehe, do you think such a wife is really reliable?If I did live with her again, I would probably have to live a few years less.
Lao Zhao was just about to speak, but Lao Qin had already said: Zhenzhen, my salary card has always been in your mother's hand, not to mention before, just say that in the past few years after you got married, there were only two of us in the family, not to mention that there was no little savings, and I borrowed tens of thousands, no way, I asked for the salary card back.
I also finished the account, give her 1000 yuan a month, our life is good, we are all 60 years old, one day with those old friends to drink tea, play chess, have time to go outings, barbecue how good, but, she is still in the mahjong hall every day, she has been there most of the time in this life, won and scolded me, lost and played a temper.
Lao Qin shook his head and said: Forget it, let's let each other go and live our own lives, and I also want to live a few more years.
Qin Zhen didn't know what to say, he knew what his father meant, and he couldn't persuade him anymore, but if he really got divorced, what should his mother do?
Mom doesn't have a house, she doesn't have a pension, and she's 59 years old, how can she live?Is he going to take his mom home and live together?Thinking of this, he suddenly shuddered, yes, he didn't want to.
Qin Zhen knew that if he really took his mother to his home, then he would not have a quiet life, he had a wife and 3 children, he couldn't afford to gamble, with his mother's heart, he would definitely break up his wife.
What a headache, Qin Zhen couldn't help but keep pressing his forehead, he understood his father, and selfishly didn't want them to divorce, after all, he was a son, no matter what, he didn't want his mother to be too pitiful.
Lao Zhao is still scolding with ** on her face, in fact, she is also afraid in her heart, she has lived together for so many years, she actually knows his character best.
Under normal circumstances, even if she plays with her temper, Lao Qin doesn't pay attention to her at all, but if he really decides, it won't change, at this time Lao Qin is that kind of tough character, no matter who says it, he won't change.
Just because she knew that Lao Qin usually didn't care, she would always mumble and scold him for so many years, and she was used to making trouble with him from time to time.
As a result, he was unwilling, she never thought that he was 60 years old, but he didn't want to live with her, she was really sad and sad.
Lao Zhao was really sad, and felt very wronged, at this time her tears kept falling, but she couldn't make a sound.
In her opinion, they have all lived like this all their lives, and they are all at this age, why can't they continue to live it?She was very confused, she didn't know what she would do if she really got divorced
It's Lao Qin who cooks at home, and he does laundry and cleaning, she hasn't done this for a long time, what is she doing?Yes, every day when I wake up, I go to the kitchen to find the food left for her, and then I clean up and go to play mahjong.
When she was tired of playing mahjong, she went home, and sometimes she would eat instant noodles in a mahjong parlor, and it was already late at night when she got home.
If she goes home early, she will definitely have to quarrel with him, even if Lao Qin ignores her, she will do it deliberately.
She thinks it's a good day like this, anyway, it's been so many years, isn't it good?
However, Lao Qin was unwilling, he had endured it for so many years, and now that he was old, he didn't want to endure it anymore, he also wanted to live a few years of pure life according to his own heart.
The atmosphere in the room was very tense, Lao Qin's face was resolute, Lao Zhao was crying sadly, Qin Zhen didn't know what to do
However, Lao Qin still spoke, he looked at Lao Zhao and said: Lao Zhao, we have also lived for so many years, you know my character best, since I said it, then I will not change, as for the 100,000 you said, I really can't take it out, I have to find someone to borrow the 50,000 I gave you, and it will take a long time to pay it back, and it is impossible for my grandson to pay 100,000.
Qin Zhen sighed and said, "Mom and Dad, have you really decided?"Must be divorced?
Lao Qin looked at him and said, "Zhenzhen, I'm sorry, I'm still making trouble for you at this age."
Lao Zhao suddenly said fiercely: No, I don't divorce, I won't divorce when I die, I have lived in this family all my life, why do I want to kick me out when I am old.
She glared at Lao Qin fiercely and said: Lao Qin, don't think about it, let me tell you, I won't divorce if I die, I won't let you get your wish, absolutely not.
Yes, Lao Zhao knew that Lao Qin would not change his mind after making up his mind, but she just wanted to provoke, she just didn't divorce, and see what he could do.
Lao Qin said lightly: Oh, then you can do it, I will not give you any more money in the future, nor will I leave you food, I will not wash your clothes, if you throw them everywhere, I will throw them directly into the trash, anyway, I will not say a word to you in the future, and I will not care about anything about you anymore.
Lao Zhao was stunned again, she knew that what Lao Qin said was true, he would definitely do that, what should she do then?
Do you really want to live that kind of life?Although in a room, they are like two strangers, maybe not as good as strangers.
Qin Zhen said slowly at this moment: Mom, divorce, Dad will give you 50,000 yuan, I'll make up some more and buy you a small house, it's good for you to live alone, otherwise you will toss every day in the future, and no one will want to live.
Lao Zhao looked at her son, she knew that in her son's heart, she didn't have a good impression, she was not as important as his grandfather and grandmother, and now he was still willing to take care of her, but he was just filial piety.
The son has never been close to her, probably when he was a child, and that time he went to the mahjong parlor to leave a shadow, but she didn't care, in her opinion, a boy, how can he be so hypocritical, not like her at all, but useless like his father.
Now that her son can say this, it is already a very good result, Lao Zhao thought silently, although she really didn't want to divorce, she still thought that she would have food to eat when she went home, and her clothes would be washed, and she could scold people if she was unhappy, that was the best life for her.
Lao Zhao also regretted a little at this time, why did she knock over the wontons he was wrapping, hey, it's useless to think about anything now, she can only think about how to do it better for her.
Lao Qin glanced at Lao Zhao again and said: If you agree to divorce now, I will find a way to give you 50,000 yuan within a week, otherwise we will go our separate ways in the future, won't we just live together?I don't care.
Lao Zhao looked at him who was not angry at all, and suddenly said a little sadly: Lao Zhao, we have been married for almost 40 years, are you really not nostalgic at all?No matter how bad I am, I haven't done anything to be sorry for you, and I gave birth to a son for you, do you hate me so much?
Lao Qin glanced at her coldly, didn't say anything, Lao Zhao's heart was cold, even if she was not good, when he was sick, she took care of her, why was she so ruthless, she was old, and she still wanted to divorce her?This man is really bad.
Lao Qin said coldly: Lao Zhao, we are all old, no one knows how many years we can live, divorced, let's live a few years according to our own hearts.
When the time comes, you can play mahjong as much as you want, and no one cares about you, maybe you will understand what kind of day you really want to live.
Actually, I always feel that you play mahjong just to anger me, and then it becomes a habit, but you are also 59 years old, and it is time to take care of your body.
If we don't get divorced, you will definitely always be like that, arguing with me every day, it's really unnecessary, our days are really not so much, let's let each other go.
Lao Zhao sat stunned, she really didn't know what she had done in her life
She hasn't worked a day, she doesn't like to do housework at home, and when she married him, she just thought he was good at home, and she didn't have a better choice.
Lao Qin was very accommodating to her, probably because he didn't want to quarrel with her, after the child went to kindergarten, he found her a job as a clerk in a unit, which was very comfortable, but she didn't want to go, she felt that the mahjong parlor was lively and lively, and how happy she was to play mahjong every day.
Now think about it, if she went to work at that time, how good it would be, at least with more than 3,000 pensions per month, would she and Lao Qin also live happier lives.
Lao Zhao saw that his son also agreed to their divorce, he was really helpless, very funny, what did she do, why did everyone in the family treat her like this?
She didn't have to look at her daughter-in-law, she definitely didn't have a good eye for her, when she gave birth, she wanted her to help take care of the confinement and help take care of the child, and she also went.
But she really doesn't know how to cook, and she can't take care of children, Zhenzhen was brought by his grandmother when she was a child, she saw that she couldn't help, and ran downstairs to play mahjong, and her daughter-in-law got angry and had a big fight with her.
At that time, Zhen Zhen said: Mom, you are here to take care of the mother and the child, there are 3 children at home, you went to play mahjong, what do you think?Can't you be reliable?
At that time, she was also very angry, thinking that her own mother was also there, and she was not necessarily needed, so why did she yell at her?
The son shook his head and said disappointedly: Mom, I'll send you back, I don't expect you, I'll hire a nanny.
After that time, she didn't have a good relationship with her son's family, and she didn't have a deep relationship with her grandson and granddaughter, but Lao Qin, who went to help take care of the children on weekends and let her mother rest, and her daughter-in-law was very good to him.
He can cook, wait for the children to be older, often cook food for them, take them out for outings, cook barbecue for them, and the children like him very much, often call him **, shouting that they want to come to see him on weekends.
Thinking about it like this, Lao Zhao smiled bitterly, he was such a failure, he played mahjong every day, he lost all his pocket money, he was reluctant to buy a piece of clothing, and he went out to have a good meal, these were all bought for her by Lao Qin.
Hey, forget it, divorce, maybe as Lao Zhao said, she should also think about her future life.
Lao Qin saw that Lao Zhao agreed, and said: Okay, when I raise money, I will go through the divorce procedures.
Qin Zhen looked at Lao Zhao and said: Mom, let's look at the house together tomorrow, and buy a small apartment when the time comes, the kind of one-bedroom apartment is quite suitable for you to live alone.
Lao Zhao nodded, and she suddenly said: Zhenzhen, then how will I live in the future?I don't have any money
Before Qin Zhen could speak, her daughter-in-law suddenly said: Mom, I will wholesale some small things for you when the time comes, you go to the small square to set up a stall, don't look at that inconspicuous, it's no problem to earn 50 yuan a day.
Seeing that she was unwilling, her daughter-in-law said again: Mom, I can scrape together money to buy you a house, I have tried my best, but I can't do it, then you rent a house, and we will give you 1,000 yuan a month for living expenses.
Lao Qin: Lao Zhao, be content, Zhen Zhen has 3 children, and their salaries are not high, so you have to think more about them.
A week later, Lao Qin finally divorced Lao Zhao, he was really relaxed suddenly, lying on a recliner alone, the book being broadcast on his mobile phone, he felt that his life alone was really good.
He is also worried that he will be in poor health one day and need to be taken care of, so he can only save as much money as possible every month, and when he can't do it, he will go to a nursing home, anyway, his son is here, he often comes to see him, and he will not be bullied.
Lao Qin is very satisfied with his current life, no one quarrels with him, so that he is very comfortable at home, but he wants to save as much money as possible to prepare more for himself in the future.
Tomorrow the old friends are discussing going on an outing, barbecue, everything has been bought, there is a big tree in that place, and a small river, when the time comes, make a barbecue, cook mutton ......
Write at the end:Lao Qin is decisive, when he was 60 years old, he was firmly divorced, and he wanted to live a few years according to his own heart, which was his responsibility for himself.
He endured it all his life, but when he was old, he felt that a person's life was more comfortable and happier, and divorce was salvation for him and the guarantee of his happiness in old age.
No matter when, we must be clearly aware of what kind of life we want, as long as we make a good decision, we should be brave enough to do it, after all, everyone's days will only get fewer and fewer.
For the rest of your life, you should learn to make yourself happy, plant your own flowers, and go your own way.
Lao Qin's final divorce and living his own life is the best fulfillment for himself, and Lao Zhao also hopes to start a new life, do you have different opinions?Comments are welcome.