When I was young, I always thought that I had more friends and that it was easier to walk.
As I grew older and experienced more things, I found that good friends were few and precious.
The Tang Dynasty was a poetic era, Li Bai, Du Fu, Gao Shi, Wang Wei, and Li Guinian. formed a large circle of friends.
went around in circles, only to find that their friends couldn't stand the test, and they came for profit, and they scattered with all their profits.
When people are down, the true colors of their friends come to the surface.
Du Fu, Li Bai and Gao Shi: When life is down, don't climb friends.
When Gao Shi was young, he mixed in with the poet crowd, lamenting that fate was unfair and opportunities were not good.
Although he was poor, he still valued his love and righteousness.
After he knew that the artist Dong Tinglan was in trouble, he immediately rushed over, drank a few glasses, and comforted"Don't worry about the road ahead, no one in the world knows you." ”
Li Bai and Du Fu went to Liang Song to play together, and when they saw the high suitability of farming, they were relieved and encouraged, there will always be a future, don't worry. Du Fu said:"The boy is famous, and he is also the boss. ”
After the outbreak of the Anshi Rebellion, Gao Shi quickly rose to become a talented military general. He also personally led a team to exterminate the Yongwang. At that time, Li Bai happened to be a staff member in King Yong's mansion.
After King Yong was destroyed, Li Bai also fell into a cage and wrote a letter to Gao Shi for help, but it was like a stone sinking into the sea.
If it weren't for the world's amnesty, Li Bai would have been exiled and would never see the light of day.
People at the same level can understand and help each other, but once someone quickly rises to the top and reaches a high-level circle, it will be difficult to be compatible.
Not all people, after rising, will turn back to take low-level friends. Too many friends, the richer and more powerful, the more they look down on their former friends in distress.
In the face of interests, friendship is often shattered, like water spilled out.
Du Fu and Li Bai: When life is down, you must also eat well.
Du Fu's family fell into the middle of the road, and then went to Chang'an to seek fame.
Although he is only eight buckets high, the imperial court does not want talents, and Du Fu naturally fell off the list.
There is no hope of seeking fame, and I don't know where to go in life. Li Bai, who was already famous, appeared and invited Du Fu to a mixed dinner.
They then met three times and played together. Although Li Bai is eleven years old, it does not hinder socialization at all.
They also seek the Tao together and discuss their ideals in life. Visit Gao Shi, calligrapher and painter Li Yong, etc.
Du Fu said:"Autumn is still fluttering, and I am not ashamed of Ge Hong. Drink and sing wildly, and fly for whom. ”
It doesn't matter what success or failure it is, it's still important to drink and eat together, and take care of your body.
Yes, when life is down, someone gives a meal, and that is the grace of a meal. More reliable than all kinds of comfort.
Eating is an important manifestation of friends helping each other. It's not that everyone drinks together to kill their sorrows and praise each other.
A glass of wine, a lifetime, a lifetime of love. If you go to such a meal, the affection will be kept.
Wang Wei and Li Guinian: When life is down, they are still worried in every way.
Wang Wei, who was ambitious as a young man, began to fall in middle age. During the Anshi Rebellion, he went to An Lushan's circle, so he was suspected of being disloyal to the imperial court.
I finally saved my life, but my life began to go downhill. Fortunately, he has talent, official position, and relatively good living conditions.
* Li Guinian, who was appreciated by Tang Xuanzong. After Tang Xuanzong became the emperor, he had no place and went to Jiangnan and became a wandering artist.
Wang Wei is also well-known in the industry, so he has a very deep feeling about what happened to Li Guinian.
With endless concern, Wang Wei wrote to Li Guinian"Red beans are born in the south of the country, and a few branches are sent in spring." May you pick more, this thing is the most lovely. ”
Li Guinian read the letter with tears, and then sang Wang Wei's letter. Since then, Wang Wei's talent has become more popular in Jiangnan.
No matter how hard it is, it can help people.
If you are a real friend, if he only has one bowl of rice, he will give you half a bowl. He can't give you anything, but he can give you his true feelings, so that he will not be so lonely on the road alone.
If you are a true friend, you will know how to be grateful after being helped. If you can't repay the gold and silver treasures, then praise the kindness of your friends and amplify the positive energy of society.
Du Fu and Li Guinian: When life is down, there are still good memories.
When Du Fu was in the capital, he was invited to the homes of some princes and nobles, so he could hear Li Guinian's singing.
When Du Fu was very old, he was ready to return to his roots and go to his hometown to rest.
The world is unpredictable, Du Fu has been in Jiangnan for a long time, and he has encountered wind and rain.
Suddenly, he heard Li Guinian's singing again. Looking closely, Li Guinian, who was in his prime, was already an old man.
Du Fu said:"It is common to see it in King Qi's house, and Cui Jiutang has heard it a few times before. It is a good scenery in the south of the Yangtze River, and it is a good time to fall in the flowers. ”
This year, their friends Li Bai, Wang Wei, and Gao Shi have all passed away.
It turns out that friends meet, separate, reunite, and finally have to separate. There is no emotion that can withstand the passage of time.
The only thing that can be left behind is the good memories of the past. Perhaps, living with memories is also full of happiness, and the rest of your life will not be too lonely.
As the writer Zhang Ailing said: "If the memory of this thing has a smell, it is the fragrance of camphor, sweet and safe, like remembering the happiness clearly, sweet and melancholy, like the sorrow of forgetting." ”When you are down, who can remember you, that is also the truth is endless;The ability to remember who you can remember is also a kind of strength to move forward.
The poem says: "The same is the end of the world, why should we have met each other." ”
People are alive, everyone has difficulties, and being able to help a little is a little. As a friend, you don't have to be rich, you don't have to be very capable, but you must be very sincere.
When you are in a high position, most of you meet someone is for your interests, and when you are at a low point, you will be more precious when you meet someone.
What is a friend?I can't say it clearly, but I can see it slowly in the passage of time.
From now on, cherish every encounter and take every goodbye seriously.
Give your best, no regrets.
Author: Cloth Clothes Coarse Food.
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