The cerebral insane phase of middle-aged men is a common phenomenon, and men at this stage will go through some crazy or unstable phases psychologically and physically.
happened to meet the mistress of an extramarital affair at this stage, and the emotional ups and downs of the cheating man will also be great.
Many times they can't control their feelings.
A cheating man in the crazy period will do a lot of unbelievable things for the sake of the mistress.
If wives want to solve the extramarital affair, they need to understand the situation of the cheating man, and also understand the situation of the mistress, and know how to dominate the situation and occupy the advantage in the crazy period of the cheating man, so as to successfully achieve the goal.
Su Yue was in contact with an extramarital affair case before, and the cheating man was in the stage of cerebral madness.
It has been more than half a year since the original partner found out about the extramarital affair, and the cheating man is no longer so crazy.
When it was first discovered, this original partner said that the cheating man insisted on divorce and marrying the mistress.
The original partner disagreed, and the cheating man was cold and violent, and moved to live with the mistress.
The parents of the cheating man feel that the cheating man is too much and persuade the cheating man to go home and live a good life.
This cheating man couldn't listen to anyone's words, and he was still making trouble breaking off relations with his parents.
The sister of the cheating man in the back said a way to compare this.
Let the cheating man not get divorced, and he has a good relationship with the original match, but he doesn't need to break off with Xiao San for the time being, which is to maintain the stage of marriage and extramarital affairs in parallel.
This original partner said that she has been a housewife for more than ten years and has two children with cheating men.
Although the in-laws help take care of it, there is more than just a cheating man.
He is not partial to each child, and will not help in a particular family.
So the original partner had no way to ignore the children and go to work to catch money by herself, she relied on cheating men to make money.
At first, she wanted to separate the mistress quickly, but later found out that the cheating man had this attitude.
She thought that she would not divorce for the time being, and the cheating man would just give her the money.
She focuses on the children together, and when the children go to college, she doesn't need to take care of them, and the cheating man can follow whoever he likes, and she can go out to work and raise the children by herself.
So what the cheating man's sister said, let marriage and extramarital affairs go hand in hand, and the original partner agreed at the time.
As a result, the cheating man was unwilling, he just wanted a divorce, and the original partner didn't understand why the cheating man was.
In fact, it is obvious that this cheating man is a typical manifestation of the cerebral insane period.
One manifestation is that when a cheating man is crazy, there is no one else in his eyes except for the third child.
If a cheating man only targets his original wife, he will not have a bad attitude towards others.
The cheating man is not crazy, he just forced his wife to divorce and didn't want to live anymore.
If the cheating man is like in this case, everyone except the junior is an enemy, and he has to be with the junior if he breaks off family ties, and whoever stops him from finding the junior will be in a hurry, and it is useless for his parents and sisters.
There is only a cheating man in the mistress, which can be regarded as a manifestation of the cerebral insane period.
Another manifestation is that when a cheating man is insane, he will do some radical behavior.
During the insane period, men will not only divorce their wives, but also do some radical behaviors for the sake of divorce.
For example, some behaviors that are not in the interests of a cheating man, if he is sensible, he will never make a promise.
Like this cheating man, he would rather leave the house and divorce his wife if he didn't want anything.
He ran to live with Xiao San at that time, and the house, car and savings were not taken away, so he left.
The parents of the cheating man argued with the cheating man, threatening the cheating man to give all his property to the original partner, and the cheating man was indifferent.
This is the manifestation of the real cerebral insane period.
So wives judge whether the cheating man is really insane, or pretend.
You see if the cheating man is only cruel to you, or has the same bad attitude towards everyone who stands in his way except for the mistress.
You can also use interests to test the cheating man and see if the cheating man is willing to give up his interests for the sake of the mistress.
If the cheating man is neither, then the cheating man is most likely pretending.
He did this against his wife, that is, he wanted a divorce, but he was unwilling to take the initiative to take the responsibility for the divorce.
will not give up any interests, but force the wife to divorce first, so that the wife will give up the interests.
This is the calculation of cheating men, and wives must be able to see clearly, not be calculated, and be able to fight back against cheating men.
Many juniors mistakenly believe that the root of the cheating man's cerebral madness is his love for the junior.
In fact, cheating men will have a period of cerebral madness, extramarital affairs can only be regarded as a medium, and the mistress is just the fuse.
It was he who had some problems himself, plus the mood swings that came with an extramarital affair.
and when wives settle their extramarital affairs, they stand on the opposite side of cheating men.
As a result, the cheating man treats his wife as an enemy and the mistress as his only confidant.
But the insane period will end, and the cheating man will wake up sooner or later.
At that time, wives were twice as effective in resolving extramarital affairs.
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