Yu Hua said: After all, people will be troubled by the things they are young and unobtainable for a lifetime
Yu Hua, an outstanding writer, with his unique perspective and deep insight, reveals to us the complexity of human nature and the true meaning of life. He once said, "Man will be troubled all his life by the things that he is young and cannot obtain." This sentence seems to tell us that what we did not get when we were young will become a problem for our whole life. So, where does this problem come from, and how does it affect our lives?
1. The meaning of what is unattainable at a young age.
In Yu Hua's view, what we failed to get when we were young is often the longing and pursuit in our hearts. They could be a dream, a goal, a loved one, or some special experience. These unattainable things have left a deep imprint on our hearts and become guiding beacons on our life path.
However, as time goes on, we come to realize how far away these unattainable things are. Maybe it's because of the pressures of life, the cruelty of reality, or because of our growth and change. But no matter what the reason, these unattainable things always haunt us and become a problem for our whole life.
Second, the troubled **.
It's not just the things that you didn't get when you were young. More importantly, our attachment and pursuit of these unattainable things. When we realize that these unattainable things are far away, we feel lost, regretful, and helpless. This emotion will gradually evolve into an obsession that we can't let go.
At the same time, these unattainable things will also become the object of comparison in our lives. We unconsciously compare ourselves with those who have these unattainable things, which leads to negative emotions such as low self-esteem and jealousy. This comparison not only makes us lose confidence and motivation, but also plunges us into endless pain and struggle.
3. How to get rid of trouble.
To get rid of this problem, we need to recognize the meaning and value of these unattainable things from the depths of our hearts. First, we need to learn to accept reality. Recognize that these unattainable things are not the whole of our lives, they are just a stage in our life path. We need to learn to let go of past regrets and obsessions, and bravely face the challenges and opportunities of the future.
Second, we need to learn to heal ourselves. Through positive psychological suggestion, self-motivation, etc., gradually get rid of the influence of negative emotions. At the same time, we can also seek the support and help of family and friends to get through this difficult time together.
Finally, we need to learn to find new goals and motivations. There is not only one path to follow in life, we can pursue new dreams and goals through hard work and struggle. This will not only allow us to get rid of the troubles of the past, but also allow us to find our own value and meaning on a new path.
The meaning and value of life.
Yu Hua's words make us deeply aware of the impact of those things that we could not get when we were young on our lives. However, instead of being held back by these troubles, we should face reality with courage and seek inner balance and strength. The meaning of life lies in the pursuit of happiness and value, in the process of continuous growth and progress, we should learn to let go of past regrets and obsessions, bravely face future challenges and opportunities, to pursue new dreams and goals, and realize the value of our own life.