In "Wulin Gaiden", Tong Xiangyu once said a line: "I would rather be with someone I don't love than with someone who doesn't love me."
This quote reveals the deep feelings of many people - love and marriage are not only about their own happiness, but also about each other. Yan Ni's life experience has some resonance with this line.
Her married life with Zou Wei is a struggle between love and reality;Their decision to divorce involves a balance between career and family.
After 19 years, Zou Wei, who gave up his marriage back then, does he regret his past choice?This may be a complex issue.
Yan Ni's childhood was spent in the Military Region Repertory Troupe, and she did not enjoy the carefree childhood at that time.
At the age of 25, Yan Ni was already the main actor of the repertory troupe. But for a post-80s girl, this age has reached the stage where you need to consider marriage and love. Friends and relatives kept recommending suitable partners, which made her feel the pressure of marriage.
Finally, a man introduced by a sister, Zou Wei, gave Yan Ni the idea of entering marriage. Zou Wei was calm and personable, and after the two dated for several months, Yan Ni decided to accept his marriage proposal.
After marriage, Yan Ni began to realize the difference between her and Zou Wei's concepts in career and family. Zou Wei hopes that she can have a child as soon as possible, but she is in the rising stage of her career, which has led to the gradual estrangement of the relationship between the two.
In the past five years, Zou Wei and Yan Ni's marital relationship has often conflicted due to disagreements. Zou Wei tries to make Yan Ni his ideal wife, while Yan Ni is tired of the traditional concept of marriage.
Therefore, compromise became the main feature of their relationship.
In 2004, the conflict between the two gradually escalated, and Zou Wei threatened to divorce. Faced with this situation, Yan Ni chose to end the marriage in a peaceful way, even if it meant that she would have nothing.
Divorce and the ups and downs of her careerAfter the divorce, Yan Ni lost her financial ** and fell into a predicament, so she could only return to her parents' home and live a life without support.
In her moment of despair, the martial arts comedy script "Wulin Gaiden" brought her hope. She successfully created a unique role, which made Yan Ni popular overnight.
At the peak of her career, did Yan Ni no longer regret her decision to divorce Zou Wei?With the passage of time, after the divorce, Zou Yan went from embarrassment to relief, and finally became a friend who could speak freely.
They begin to truly understand that perhaps separation is the best option.
Zou Wei has already found a new partner and started a new life. Yan Ni, on the other hand, remains single, and she regards work and family as the focus of her life.
The two went from youth to maturity, from break to relief, and then to decline to success, this process was witnessed by the outside world. Their story has become a unique footnote in today's society.
Yan Ni is at the peak of her career, and she has become a top actress in the film and television industry. She began to try to play a variety of new roles and show a different face to life.
She is still beautiful and moving, but she is still single and has attracted much attention. Although there was a scandal, she laughed it off, and love seemed out of reach. However, the choice of life never stops, and perhaps one day, the pursuit of her career and the emptiness of her family will make her face a choice again.
In the past 19 years, Zou Wei and Yan Ni's lives have been full of regrets and gains, although their love has been shattered and their marriage has withered, they have reached the peak of their careers.
The independence, independent choice, and connection with fate that they pursue are all worthy of our deep thought. Perhaps, in the end, we all have to face ourselves authentically and make life choices that live up to our hearts.
Yan Ni's experience, her wisdom in life, is providing us with a kind of inspiration to help those who struggle between love and reality find a way out. That's the value of her story.
Zou Yan's marriage change makes us re-examine our expectations for women's marriage and career. We crave the perfect partner, but we often neglect understanding and acceptance. Is this too self-centered?
Perhaps we should inspire those who dare to explore their hearts and choose a unique way of life – because the most important thing is to understand the meaning of life and live their own lives.
Zou Wei's decision seemed wise at the time. Through her life practice, Yan Ni adds color to the world and inspires us in her unique way.