Zou Wei didn't want a penny from his divorce from Yan Ni at the beginning, but 19 years have passed, does he regret it?
Hey, I was really wrong, I shouldn't have married into this place in the first place. ”
This classic line said by Tong Xiangyu in "Wulin Gaiden" instantly reminded me of it, and it is also just a portrayal of Yan Ni's love.
Yan Ni played the role of Tong Xiangyu, and the words in the play became a prophecy, and in reality, she did seem to be a "non-human" existence.
She once experienced a very deep love, but in the end it could not stand the test of time, and her marriage ended after only seven years.
19 years have passed, and Yan Ni has become a first-line star. At that time, in order to divorce Yan Ni, Zou Wei, who did not hesitate to choose to leave the house, does he regret it now?
The first half of Yan Ni's life can be described by Zheng Jun's lyrics in "Elopement": "What I dream of is true love and freedom." ”
19-year-old Yan Ni was admitted to the Military Region Repertory Troupe in 1990 with her own efforts and became a literary and artistic soldier in the army.
The first half of her life may have been a step-by-step process, studying Xi, going to school, and working, so she also has a little "little rebellion" in her heart.
She is like a bird that flies freely, but longs to find her true love.
Despite the fact that in the army, every day was not easy, she always maintained an optimistic attitude. The people around her will be infected by her emotions and feel that the life of the army is actually not so bitter.
Her professionalism is very high, coupled with her good personality, naturally there are many boys who pursue her.
In such an army with an extremely unbalanced ratio of men and women, no one could have imagined that Yan Ni had not yet found her true love, and as a result, she was delayed to 25 years old.
At that time, 25 years old was definitely an "older leftover girl", even if Yan Ni was not in a hurry, her parents couldn't accept it.
In order to let Yan Ni get married as soon as possible, her parents began to desperately introduce her to a blind date. At first, they were relatively picky, but later, as long as they were boys of the right age, they introduced them to Yan Ni one by one.
Yan Ni often encounters some strange blind dates, some show off their wealth, some are always late, and some even dislike her for not being good-looking. This made her completely lose confidence in the blind date.
In the past, Yan Nike had never suffered such grievances, and she was always known for being critical of others. But now, she has become a commodity to be chosen by others, which is really ironic.
She said directly to her parents: "Don't arrange a blind date for me anymore, I don't want to see any of them." ”
The father is a very open-minded person, he thinks that even if Yan Ni can't get married, it doesn't matter, he can support her for a lifetime, anyway, he doesn't have to let his daughter wronged him.
After hearing this, her mother couldn't accept it at all, she sighed all day long, and shook her head when she saw Yan Ni.
The wonderful thing is fate, which cannot be forced. When Yan Ni was 25 years old, she met her true love.
Zou Wei, a man who used to be a soldier and is now a police officer, looks heroic.
Yan Ni is actually used to seeing men like Zou Wei in the army, but love is unreasonable, but she was attracted to Zou Wei at first sight. It stands to reason that she should be Xi to such a man, but love is so wonderful that it is incomprehensible.
Zou Wei is a gentle and considerate person, not like a "machismo" at all, and will ask Yan Ni's opinion first when doing anything, which makes Yan Ni more determined in her choice. That's his charm.
It didn't take long for the two to get married, and their married life was plain and happy, similar to what Yan Ni thought.
Yan Ni gave birth to a lovely little girl for Zou Wei in the second year, named Zou Yuanqing.
She is married, but she feels that she is still free, she can do whatever she wants without asking for other people's opinions, and she can pursue her dreams.
She quarreled with Zou Wei several times over this matter, but each time she failed to come up with a result.
In Zou Wei's opinion, it is best for a woman to be mainly responsible for housework, and he doesn't want Yan Ni to work too hard. As long as Yan Ni can take care of the house, he feels very satisfied.
He decided to take on the rest of the work and work hard to provide for their mother and daughter. It's not that Yan Ni must not be allowed to find a job, he thinks Yan Ni can find a relatively stable job.
Yan Ni's dream is to become an actor, which is difficult for Zou Wei to accept.
Two people think about things from different angles, and it is not necessarily "machismo", and it is difficult to evaluate it with simple right or wrong.
Yan Ni suddenly realized that the essence of marriage may not be as beautiful as she imagined, more trivial troubles and endless quarrels. This incident gave her a new understanding.
She still sticks to her ideas, wants to be a good actress, and is not afraid of failure.
Little did she realize at the time that her decision would eventually lead to the complete collapse of the family.
Although Zou Wei compromised at first, he was dissatisfied in his heart, and this dissatisfaction would accumulate over time, and eventually he could not bear it.
Yan Ni came home and gave her husband a big hug as soon as she turned around. As soon as she finished work, she was so tired that she decided to rest for a while. When she was lying on the bed, her whole body was like a loose skin, and she had no strength at all.
Before she could **, she was pulled to the living room by Zou Wei. Zou Wei said coldly: "If you still want to continue to be an actor, then we will divorce." ”
Zou Wei suddenly said such a thing, Yan Ni was stunned for a long time after hearing it, and she really couldn't understand it. But before she could react.
Zou Wei said: "I know you won't give up your dream, so it's better to get a divorce as soon as possible." As long as you can get a divorce, whatever conditions are up to you, I will try my best to meet them. ”
Zou Weiqiang said that it was useless to say anything more, so under his strong request for divorce, Yan Ni and him ended their 7-year marriage.
During that time, Yan Ni had a very bad time, and she felt dizzy every day. She often wonders if she has done something wrong, and often tosses and turns in the middle of the night.
Although Yan Ni's marriage failed, her career took a turn for the better in the second year and achieved great success.
Although Yan Ni was very painful after the divorce, she had to face a very real problem: even if her husband took all the property, she could not do nothing.
After all, she has to support her daughter, so she can only work hard. Then she joined the crew of "Wulin Gaiden" by chance.
"Wulin Gaiden" can be said to be a turning point in Yan Ni's career, but she was reluctant to participate at first.
As soon as she thought that she had a little daughter, she wanted to give her the best life, so she resolutely took over the show.
The show quickly took over the TV drama market with its humorous and witty style, which no one expected.
Yan Ni became popular that year and became a first-line female star, and there were constantly people around her who blessed her, but she was never happy.
She thought to herself that if she could succeed a year earlier, maybe the family would not be broken.
It took Yan Ni a while to understand that there was no need to force anything, maybe it would be better to be at peace with what happened.
Yan Ni is no longer entangled in the past, and the relationship between her and her ex-husband is better than before, but this time their roles have changed.
Surprisingly, they actually got along very comfortably as friends without any quarrels. Whenever Yan Ni needed help, Zou Wei would always be the first to appear.
The two of them speak unscrupulously, but they no longer hide it, they will share the little things in life with each other, and Yan Ni's success also makes Zou Wei really happy for her.
Their separation is not just a matter of the two of them, but also of two families. When Zou Wei's parents heard about it, they told him directly: "You will regret it in the future, you lost a baby!."”
Zou Wei and her have been divorced for 19 years, and now he has already found his other half, has children, and lives a very stable life.
Although Yan Ni is still single, she has been in love several times, and although she did not go to the end, she still left a lot of good memories.
Yan Ni's career is booming, and she can be seen in major film and television dramas, especially in the recently released movie "The Final Truth", her acting skills are even more explosive.
The complexity of her interpretation of the characters is very in place, and she is definitely an actor at the level of an old actor, so countless directors want to cooperate with her.
Yan Ni's new movie "Goodbye Li Kele" will be released in major theaters on December 1, 2023, and interested friends can go and see it.
Yan Ni's acting skills are always stable and will never disappoint the audience, and her performance will make the audience trust and support her more.
Yan Ni is actually a very emotional person, she pursues freedom, but also longs for a true love that she can rely on.
She is still the one who insists on her own ideas, I don't know if she is persistent or naïve?
As long as Yan Ni is happy and has a free and easy life. After all, everyone has a different opinion in their eyes, just as there are a thousand Hamlets in the eyes of a thousand people.
The path you choose must go on firmly, always thinking that it is unrealistic to leave no regrets, regrets are everywhere, and no one can escape.