When people reach fifty, it is a very embarrassing age. At such an age, "it's too old to talk about love, it's too early to talk about death". However, at such an age, more people are more willing to recuperate and live the rest of their lives.
Although it is said that "people will rest until 500,000 things". The "rest" here does not mean the end, but a new starting point of life. Because, at such an age, many things should be put down, and all aspects of oneself must know how to "recuperate".
Therefore, when people reach 50 and learn to preserve the rest of their lives at such an age, they must learn to "cunning rabbit three holes", only in this way can we better "save our lives" for the rest of our lives.
The first "hole": low-key.
It is said that "the low water is the sea, and the low man is the king". To be a man, we must understand the truth of "the water is deep and silent, and the person is stable and silent". When a person reaches fifty, it is inevitable that he will have a successful career or be worth millions. The ancients had the show-off psychology of "wealth does not return to their hometown, such as brocade clothes walking at night", and such a show-off or show-off psychology of wealth is still popular today.
The sky is mad and rainy, and people are crazy and woe", we can find that there are many people who like to show off their wealth, and the final outcome is often unsatisfactory. Some people arouse the jealousy of others because of showing off, and even secretly attack behind the back, and even lose their lives because they show off their wealth too much, not to mention that because they show off their wealth, people often come to borrow money, and in the end they end up being not human inside.
When people reach fifty, we must learn to be "cunning", dig a hole for ourselves, hide in a low-key manner, pretend to be a little humble, pretend to be a little pitiful, but it is the best armor to protect ourselves. Such people are very smart, and they can avoid many unnecessary attacks and even dangers for the rest of their lives, so they can save their lives.
The second "hole": walking alone.
Perhaps, when we are young, in order to live and start a business, we will inevitably come into contact with all kinds of people. But these people are mixed, and there are all kinds of people of all religions. Perhaps, when we are in the limelight, these so-called friends will always gather around us, eating, drinking and having fun with us. When we drink too much, I always like to hook up with us, pat my chest and say that I want to stick a knife in our ribs.
But such people are often duplicitous, and they are often people who like to take risks. Those who seem to be bold often have their own "musty". They don't like to be pragmatic, but like to talk rhetorically, and like to do things that are reckless, or even illegal and criminal. With such a seemingly bold but reckless person, we will inevitably be implicated.
When we reach fifty, we must know how to protect ourselves, dig a hole for ourselves, and then walk alone in this cave of our own. Learning to stay away from right and wrong, learning to stay away from right and wrong, is also the best way for us to learn to save our lives.
The third "hole": Tibetan feelings.
Some people say, "People are not plants and trees, how can they be ruthless?"."Yes, people live, and seven emotions and six desires will always make us take care of one thing and lose the other. On the road of emotion, we will inevitably encounter such and such **. When a person reaches fifty, his career has been more or less successful, and the wealth of life and the richness of his experience will make us more mature, but when a person meets the opposite sex he likes, even if he has a family, if he does not have concentration, he will often be confused.
A knife on the head of the color word, the pomegranate skirt is inescapable", the ancients warned us that if one wants to succeed, we must learn to stay away from **. Yes, in front of beauty, many people can't become Megumi Yanashita. If a person wants to stay away from the ** of beauty, the best way is to stay away**. When we reach fifty, we have gone through countless ups and downs in life with our lovers, and our children have grown up.
At such an age, the stability of the family is the most important thing, and our emotions can no longer withstand the toss. Therefore, when people reach fifty, we must learn to dig a cave for ourselves that only belongs to ourselves and our lovers, hide our emotions well, and put our emotions on the body we fall in love, only in this way will we not fall into the trap of emotions and "miss Qingqing's life".
Friends, when you reach fifty, learn to dig yourself well: the three "holes" of low-key, solitary, and hidden feelings, and you can save your life for the rest of your life. Do you think Uncle has a point?Everyone is welcome to leave a message in the comment area to discuss. Thank you!