Author: Uncle Nanshan.
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As the saying goes:Money talks. This phrase is used to describe the omnipotence of money. It comes from Ming Feng Menglong's "Yu Shi Mingyan": "It is 'official three days tight', and it is also said that money can make ghosts grind." Intuitively understood as "as long as you are willing to spend money, someone will do everything for you". So, when we have money, can we really let the "ghost push the grind"?In fact, really smart people, when they have money, often do not do such "stupid things". Especially when a person enters the age of fifty, he understands such a truth. Why?
First of all, people who are in their fifties and post-70s understand the truth that "the sky is crazy and the rain is crazy, and the people are crazy and the people are in trouble".
Ordinary people often warn us, "There is rain in the sky, and there is woe in the madness, and there is nothing wrong with being low-key." Yes, on this point, Lao Tzu, the ancestor of the Tao Te Ching, also said, "Those who are strong will not die, and those who are good will meet their enemies." What does this mean?The meaning of this sentence is to warn us not to be too arrogant, otherwise, the final outcome is often "not to die". In the same way, people who like to be competitive and ruthless can only suffer the sad end of "the rigid is easy to break".
When a person reaches the age of fifty, he has already entered the calm period of life. At such an age, it is typical to be mature, sophisticated, and know how to think about the rest of your life. After reaching the 70s in their fifties, they know that a person is arrogant, likes to show off his wealth, and even likes to use money to drive others to take some risks for himself, or even fight with others for the sake of face, and in the end he must encounter both people and money, and even the danger of his life. Therefore, the rich post-70s generation knows how to "don't make ghosts grind when you are rich" to avoid being hurt by other "ghosts", and finally end up in a bleak end of trouble.
Secondly, after reaching the age of 50 and 70, people have reached the age of 50 and know the destiny of heaven.
The ancients said: "Thirty and stand, forty is not confused, and fifty is known the destiny of heaven." "When people reach fifty, our lives and our careers tend to be stable, at such an age, knowing how to live steadily according to the destiny of heaven is the choice of the smart. After reaching the age of 50 and 70, people have entered the year of destiny, and they already know that they no longer toss around for money, and they know that those things that cannot be controlled by manpower are difficult to change. Instead of tossing around, it is better to be content with the status quo and not to change the status quo is the king.
When we understand this truth, no matter how rich we are, we will no longer try to change the status quo. Especially after the 70s who have reached fifty, and those who have reached fifty have entered the year of knowing the destiny of heaven, such people prefer a stable and stable job, knowing that at such an age, no matter how much they toss, the result is difficult to achieve. Instead of spending a lot of money to start a business, or even spending money to hire "ghosts to grind", to meet the uncertainties that may bring disaster to you, it is better to keep your stable job and fixed wealth, and follow the destiny of heaven to live the rest of your life.
Third, the post-70s generation in their fifties prefers to live a quiet life.
Hong Yingming's "Caigen Tan" has a classic saying: Don't be shocked by the humiliation, watch the flowers bloom and fall in front of the court;Go and stay unintentionally, looking at the clouds in the sky. This sentence is actually written about a kind of realm, a kind of traditional thought originating from China. The meaning of this sentence is to say: to be able to do things for others as ordinary as a flower blooming and falling, in order to be at peace;Seeing and staying like clouds and clouds can be indifferent and natural. And people who can have such a realm are often extraordinary people. When we enter the threshold of 50, we are destined to no longer be "mortals", but a "transcendent person" who knows how to "give up" and know how to be happy.
At such an age, we prefer Tao Yuanming's happiness brought to us by nature of "planting beans in the south of the mountain, and the grass is full of beans and seedlings", and we yearn for this kind of quiet life like a paradise. Therefore, after reaching 50 and 70, no matter how rich they are, they also yearn for the life in the countryside, and yearn for the kind of life where "flowers and grass are planted in front of the house, and vegetables are planted behind the house". Such a smart person will never spend money to hire a "ghost to push the grind" and do something that causes trouble, so as to make his evening bleak.
Friends, the really rich post-70s generation knows that being rich does not make "ghosts grind". Do you think it makes sense?Everyone is welcome to leave a message in the comment area to discuss. Thank you.