Luo Yuzhu's fate in the first half of her life was extremely tragic.
Since he was a child, he was sold by his father to human traffickers, and after meeting Chen Jianghe, he looked for him for another 3 years. finally waited for Chen Jianghe to come back, but their marriage was strongly opposed by Chen Jinshui.
After she married Wang Dashan, Wang Dashan had another accident.
Her life can be described as extremely miserable. Fate gave her all bad cards. But she was able to win the daughter of the Yang family as a woman with children in a second marriage and successfully married Chen Jianghe.
is obviously a person with a bad hand in his hand, but she was beaten alive. Luo Yuzhu should not be underestimated. To understand how she rose from the trough of fate, you can understand how she won against Yang Xue. And her practice is also worth learning from.
1.Fate gave her all the pain, and she accepted her fate but refused to admit defeat.
Luo Yuzhu's life, the word miserable is far from enough to describe. But if we look at the way she copes with each tragedy, we will see that she is an amazingly ruthless guy.
His mother died at an early age, and his father married his stepwife soon after.
As the saying goes: only when there is a stepmother can there be a stepfather, and naturally a good stepmother is indispensable. But Luo Yuzhu is unlucky, her father doesn't treat her well, let alone her stepmother. Her father gambled and didn't care about her at all, and her stepmother didn't like her even more.
Due to the excessive gambling debts owed by the father, several gamblers said that they sold Luo Yuzhu to pay off the debts, and the father was so frightened that he didn't dare to go any further, and wanted his daughter to go to her mother-in-law's house to have a good look, but they didn't know that these men were human traffickers.
After Luo Yuzhu learned that these people were human traffickers, she was shocked and afraid, but she did not accept her fate, but used a plan to betray the traffickers.
This is the first time she has shown her intelligence on the road of life. There's no way she's going to let these people sell her out of nowhere. She knew that in such a situation, there was only a way out of self-help. So she saved herself.
Escaping from the hands of human traffickers, Luo Yuzhu lived a lonely and adrift life. She will not give up on herself because of the ordeal of fate, nor will she be depressed. She used the candy cooking skills her mother taught her to make ends meet.
She and Chen Jianghe met on the train because of a steamed bun, two homeless children.
At that time, Luo Yuzhu wanted to make a bottomless move for life. Chen Jianghe said to her: To do business, you have to enter 4 doors and open 4 doors. Divide the money you earn among others so that they can continue to earn money.
After that, two people, one of them cooked candy at home, and the other carried a heavy burden to go out to exchange chicken feathers for sugar. Luo Yuzhu wanted to go to the entrance of the village to pick up Chen Jianghe, and in their youth and ignorance, the two lived out to each other the nobles in their hearts.
For Luo Yuzhu, Chen Jianghe is a companion who accompanied him in his youth, and he is also a guiding light on the road of life. She believed in the child and was open to him and confided in the past.
At that time, she didn't know that she was going to be entangled with this person for the rest of her life.
The girl's heart is always much more mature than that of the young man, and when she looked forward to the future with Chen Jianghe, Chen Jianghe said goodbye without saying goodbye.
Chen Jianghe has big ambitions, unwilling to exchange chicken feathers for candy all his life, and wants to go out, but he is afraid that she will have no sense of security when she lives under the bridge. So he rented a house for him. On the day the two moved in, Luo Yuzhu cried happily, it was also the first time that Luo Yuzhu had a family of her own after losing her mother.
However, her joy soon faded, because she did not find Chen Jianghe, and he left her the rattle he liked without saying goodbye.
Since then, Luo Yuzhu has embarked on a long road to find her husband.
If it were another woman, Chen Jianghe's farewell would actually show everything. She was in the prime of her youth again, and it was entirely possible that she would find one again. But Luo Yuzhu is the one who recognizes Chen Jianghe. Instead of giving up, she went to him in a small business.
I searched for three years this time.
Three years later, Chen Jianghe, who had been outside the world, returned to Chenjia Village, and Luo Yuzhu was already the king of socks. Outstanding in being a small business person.
After three years of not seeing each other, they confided in each other and expressed their hearts to each other.
Watching the two of them spend a good moon, the full moon is about to happen. I didn't expect to kill a Cheng bite gold halfway. Chen Jinshui did not agree to Chen Jianghe and Luo Yuzhu's request. He is optimistic about Chen Jianghe's future and will definitely make great achievements. People, very selfish, hope that Chen Jianghe will marry his daughter. So do everything you can to ruin the relationship between the two.
Chen Jianghe was not convinced, and resolutely did not part with Yuzhu Baishou. Who knew that Luo Yuzhu's father stole the money that Chen Jianghe put in her house, and Luo Yuzhu came to her father's house and missed Chen Jianghe.
When Luo Yuzhu returned, Chen Jinshui locked Chen Jianghe in his room and did not allow the two to see each other, and lied that he deceived Luo Yuzhu that Qiaogu and Chen Jianghe were going to get married recently.
Luo Yuzhu didn't know the strategy, was grief-stricken, and went to Ganzhou, Jiangxi Province to get acquainted with Wang Dashan, a wrench worker.
In Luo Yuzhu's opinion, if you can't marry your lover, then it's better to marry.
She recognized Chen Jianghe in her life, and now she heard that Chen Jianghe was about to get married, in order to make herself completely dead, and at the same time in order to have a place to stay, she chose to marry Wang Dashan. Despite her unwillingness, Wang Dashan treated her kindly, and she wished to be like this for the rest of her life.
If it weren't for the incident of Daguang and Qiaogu in the hospital, she didn't expect to make a fuss. When she was sad and happy, the doctor informed her that she was pregnant.
Luo Yuzhu eliminated the idea of saying goodbye to Chen Jianghe, and since then she has become Wang Dashan's wife with confidence, waiting for the baby who is about to be born.
There will be many unexpected and uncontrollable things in life, and Luo Yuzhu and Chen Jianghe broke off their relationship because of Chen Jinshui's central stalk. Luo Yuzhu was not addicted to the past and couldn't extricate herself, and soon got married, allowing herself to withdraw from that relationship. I want to live with Wang Dashan.
In this way, Luo Yuzhu is brave and strategic, knowing that a relationship can no longer be maintained, but she has the courage to swing a sword and cut her love, without the suspicion of dragging mud and water, neither hurting herself nor hurting herself.
Although Luo Yuzhu is eager to live her own life, her fate seems to be extremely harsh. Wang Dashan died in an accident.
Luo Yuzhu sorted out her sad emotions and made up her mind to raise her children well. She took the children to the place where the stalls were set up to buy goods, and the two lived together with difficulty.
When Luo Yuzhu was in dire straits, Chen Jianghe, in order to find himself, first went to work in a hosiery factory that had been shipped from the past, and then contracted a hosiery factory and used the Yuzhu brand as a trademark.
Chen Jianghe has never given up his pursuit of Luo Yuzhu while struggling.
Luo Yuzhu understood that Chen Jianghe was here to find her, and she also understood that she no longer deserved his favor, so she chose to flee. But what she didn't expect was that Chen Jianghe never gave up on herself. When Chen Jianghe took the brick from the train, Luo Yuzhu came to his senses in an instant. She can't hide from Chen Jianghe like that anymore, she has been hiding from him for eight years, how many eight years should her life have?
Since he has always had her in his heart, she will give him a warm home in the second half of his life to repay his affection.
On the other hand, Luo Yuzhu, almost all the things she encountered in the first half of her life were injuries and unfairness. Abandoned by his father, Chen Jinshui did not admit and destroy, and Wang Dashan was in a dilemma after his death. She is a weak woman with children, and she has a hard time. However, she never gave up her vision of a better life. In the most difficult and difficult days, she quietly swallowed all her sorrows alone. Gather strength. Despite all the pain that fate gave her, she never accepted her fate. It is her personality that does not admit defeat that makes her have the sentence "Chen Jianghe spends money for me, and I will earn it back for him" in the future. It's not that she's too arrogant, it's her self-confidence and ability.
I like the phrase: hurt for growth, don't complain and complain. Accept the ruthlessness of the world and always maintain the strength to move forward. Treat fate as it is, and good and bad have become a ladder. It is said that everyone has to learn the skill, which has nothing to do with luck, only tenacity.
Luo Yuzhu is the same, in the face of the cruel reality she often encounters, she does not complain about the heavens and others, but just treats fate as ordered, and transforms all the good and bad things into the strength and steps that enable her to develop. That's her tenacity and talent. A woman with such ability, why doesn't Chen Jianghe stay away?How can you not like it from the bottom of your heart?Even if this Luo Yuzhu didn't meet Chen Jianghe, his life couldn't be too bad.
2 In front of the rival in love, he is not humble and does not speak, but talks and laughs and seals his throat with a sword.
Yang Xue originally spoke very well to Chen Jianghe and asked him to help him manage the Yang family, and Yang Xue's father wanted to hand over his daughter to Chen Jianghe to raise. Who knows, Chen Jianghe took Luo Yuzhu's mother and son back. Yang Xue was very angry and was ready to fight Luo Yuzhu to the death.
On this day, Luo Yuzhu was dressed plainly and walked into Yang Xue's house with a steamed bun in her hand.
Yang Xue dresses very fashionably, and her makeup is also exquisite. She said straight to the point: Honestly, you don't deserve him. I think how good the woman he has been thinking about for eight years is
Luo Yuzhu smiled and said, you are still very good at choking.
Yang Xue said contemptuously that she was telling the truth.
Luo Yuzhu said: When I ate this steamed bun, I remembered that more than 10 years ago, I lived under the bridge cave with Chen Jianghe, and he went out to exchange candy, and sometimes he could only exchange half of the nest. Steamed buns can't be eaten. Later, the two of us divided the half-nest head, and we were very happy. His roasted sweet potatoes are exceptionally delicious. Have you eaten it?
Luo Yuzhu didn't say it casually, she said it in a targeted manner, she said it to Yang Xue with this sentence, she and Chen Jianghe just have a lot of pasts and many good memories.
Luo Yuzhu was not stupid, and she only figured out why when Yang Xue invited her to sit hostilely. She tried to put on a nice dress, but gave up. She understands very well that no matter how well she dresses, she can't compare to the eldest lady Yang Xue, why should she use her shortcomings to hit the other party's advantages?
Luo Yuzhu knew very well what advantages he had over Yang Xue. So she simply put on the simplest clothes and served a steamed bun, looking like a hanger, but in fact, she beat the war drum in her heart early.
How could Yang Xue let Luo Yuzhu remember it forever, so that she would stimulate herself, so she said it very quickly:
Do you think you're selfish?You are all married and have children. But Chen Jianghe has been a loner so far, do you think you are selfish?
Yang Xue knew that Luo Yuzhu was in pain, so she opened her mouth and hit Luo Yuzhu's weakness. But how could Luo Yuzhu let herself ask?She drank water and said
Eight years ago, someone said exactly the same thing to you, Luo Yuzhu, don't be too selfish, you delay Chen Jianghe. I've been hiding him for eight years, how many eight years are there in a person's life?Just a word for others.
Yang Xue originally wanted to criticize Luo Yuzhu's weakness, but was rejected by someone in a word. So, she played a killer trick.
Do you know what it all looks like to him?For men, career, identity, and future are the most important. I can leave it to him. You haven't come yet. He'll take it right away.
Yang Xue is most proud of these points, which are really important for men. Unfortunately, she knows Chen Jianghe, and she also unfortunately knows Luo Yuzhu. Luo Yuzhu is no longer the man who was afraid of dragging Chen Jianghe back. Eight years later, she understands what Chen Jianghe thinks of her. She will never leave him behind again, and she is confident in helping Chen Jianghe run his own business. But she didn't finish all this.
She just said: what is most important, only he knows. As I really think this steamed bun is sweet, you don't like it at all. Because you won't have the experience of going hungry, and you won't share steamed buns with one person.
Two women fought for a man, if Yang Xue's words were compared to the sword qi of attack, Luo Yuzhu was holding a bun, and the sword qi handed over by Yang Xue turned into something invisible.
If Chen Jianghe came, he would definitely be proud, and Xiaozhu defeated the famous Yang daughter with a steamed bun.
Yang Xue was about to question Luo Yuzhu, but at this moment, Luo Yuzhu counterattacked, causing confusion in the formation. She still has to make a last fight, and when Luo Yuzhu was about to go out, she said
I pushed that wall open, he has been guarding this wall for so many years, and it is not a ruin!
Yang Xue wants to use this matter to let Luo Yuzhu know that everything is in control of herself, and she is the one who can control Chen Jianghe's fate. She didn't know that this sentence caused her more insults.
Luo Yuzhu, who had been smiling since she entered the house, stopped after hearing this, and there was no trace of a smile on her face.
Did you push it off?Then thank you very much. If it weren't for him lifting the brick and finding me, I probably wouldn't have had the courage to come back. Always carry that brick on your back. Do you say he's stupid or not, what does a wall count as someone finds it?
If there is still a regret medicine in this world**, I think Yang Xue will sacrifice everything to buy it at this moment. At the beginning, she envied the wall, thinking that destroying it would ruin Chen Jianghe's faith, and he no longer thought about Luo Yuzhu. But she would never have thought that her approach would be a perfect Luo Yuzhu. She didn't expect that.
In the duel between Luo Yuzhu and Yang Xue, Luo Yuzhu had no choice but to seal his throat with a sword and defeat his opponent.
To say that Luo Yuzhu in the past was willful, conceited, and even a little inferior, after going through many hardships and setbacks, he became stronger and stronger. She understands that people live for themselves and don't have to look at outsiders' faces to act. As long as the two of them live well, they must have exhausted the pain.
As the writer Liu Na said: The essence of growth is betrayal again and again. We betrayed this cowardly, evasive, painful, defeated man. Only then can it be possible to encounter the brave, true, stretched, and peaceful self in the healing of time and practice.
In the midst of countless sufferings, Luo Yuzhu has experienced suffering and collapse, but at the same time, she has found the brave and true her in the suffering and collapse. From now on, she doesn't need to carry psychological baggage to live, she needs to be a truly peaceful person.
3. Be presentable and know how to be grateful.
When Chen Jinshui tried his best to break up Luo Yuzhu and Chen Jianghe, if it weren't for him, Luo Yuzhu and Chen Jianghe would not have been separated for eight years. Therefore, it is normal for Luo Yuzhu to dislike Chen Jinshui.
However, although Luo Yuzhu spoke wildly, she still cooked chicken soup for Chen Jinshui and sent him to the hospital. Luo Yuzhu's approach and attitude also made Chen Jinshui see his mistakes. Therefore, when Chen Jianghe and Luo Yuzhu had a conflict, they helped Luo Yuzhu.
It is well known how unfriendly Chen Jinshui was to Luo Yuzhu back then. It is also well known that Chen Jinshui and Luo Yuzhu have suffered a lot. But Luo Yuzhu doesn't hold grudges, nor does she hold grudges, that's her own model.
Luo Yuzhu is presentable, open-minded, careless, and does not hold grudges. No matter how much grudge she once had with Chen Jinshui, she just chose an attitude of treating everyone kindly to face it. Because of this, she and Chen Jianghe were able to go further.
Luo Yuzhu still knows how to be grateful. Qiaogu ** passed out in a coma, she guarded Qiaogu, and kept saying, do you remember that year you took a path for me. You'll definitely get through it.
Chen Jinshui was heartbroken for Aunt Qiao. Luo Yuzhu assured him that Aunt Qiao would never suffer this crime again in the rest of her life.
Luo Yuzhu always remembered the scene when Aunt Qiao picked up Chen Lu for herself, and she has taken care of Aunt Qiao over the years. At the moment when she promised Chen Jinshui, she was ready for Aunt Qiao's next life.
A man who knows how to be grateful, the whole world is giving way to her. What's more, she has also suffered these setbacks. So when the company was in crisis, Chen Jinshui withdrew from the shares, but wrote a very unfair agreement to himself, and handed over most of the money to Chen Jianghe and Luo Yuzhu. When he heard the news that Luo Yuzhu had been kidnapped, he should raise funds instead of selling a few of his own stores at a low price.
All this stems from Luo Yuzhu's friendliness to themselves on weekdays. So when I heard that they were in trouble, Chen Jinshui came forward as soon as possible.
After Chen Daguang was released from prison and used the company's funds to enrich his own pockets, it is understandable that Chen Jianghe chose to turn a blind eye, after all, he was raised by the people of Chenjia Village, and Chen Jinshui was also as gracious as a mountain. But Luo Yuzhu still chooses the same way as her husband, and this model is very big.
If she were a woman with a small heart and little energy, she would not be able to tolerate Chen Daguang putting the company's funds in her pocket. Luo Yuzhu not only acquiesced, but also always cooperated with Chen Jianghe.
But Wang Xu, who didn't know the inside story, grabbed Chen Daguang and dismissed him. Luo Yuzhu taught his son this very classic sentence:
Forced to leave by you. During this time, your father and I are gone, and you have used the power in your hands. Cut off their financial routes, insult them by all means, force them openly, and let them go free. As for who Chen Daguang is, after so many years, do you think I don't know your father?Why don't you let him go, because we think that people have shortcomings, and they all have strengths, it is better to play to their strengths, even if you can't, you still have to choose a good way, don't make enemies at every turn. But you have taken the last thing we want to see, not only to make him sell his business, and to cause many unnecessary troubles, but also to take all other negative emotions on your little sister. Will this have an effect?
The reason why Luo Yuzhu can do it is because she has a big heart. Yang Xue couldn't do it. Chen Jinshui once said, Yang Xue, do you know the difference between yourself and Luo Yuzhu?She has a short temperament but a straightforward personality. It's not like myself, it's all heart-eyed people.
In the eight years that Chen Jianghe and the other Luo Yuzhu have not talked about, no matter which man chooses between the upright Luo Yuzhu and the calculating Yang Xue, I believe that everyone will choose Luo Yuzhu.
Luo Yuzhu and Chen Jianghe can make the company so big is inseparable from their mind and pattern. If there is anyone who has helped Chen Jianghe, it is to eat 100 family meals in Chenjia Village since he was a child.
Luo Yuzhu was not affirmed by Chen Jinshui at the beginning, and then received his attention later, relying on her personal personality charm. Because she has a hard personality that does not admit defeat in the face of trouble, she has a smart and grateful heart, and has an otherworldly model. This is the fact that she blew up a bad hand of cards, and it is also the real reason why she changed her life against the sky.