Retirement is a stage that many people look forward to, meaning that they are no longer bound by work and can enjoy it to the fullestlife。However, we often overlook post-retirementlifeplanning, plunged into new anxiety and confusion. This article will present a new point of view: This is not a call for laziness or aimlessness, but rather an emphasis on the importance of pursuing inner truth and freedom. By redefining "useless", we can enjoy retirement even morelifeto regain oneself and pursue inner peace and pleasure.
Social is who we arelife, however, after retirement we can choose to be bearish on socializing. At a young age, we may find that people tend to focus on profit rather than true friendship in social interactions. When people stop pursuing profits, relationships also become diluted. However, this is not a bad thing. After retirement, we can find those pure,Emotionon the exchange, and be with it. In this way, we can truly cherish these friends and see them as confidants.
Social islifepart, but not the only pursuit. After retirement, slow down your social pace and not pursue those "superficial friends", but with those who are truly sharedEmotionKeep in touch with people who are interested. In this way, we can better cherish these special interactions as a precious gift. After retirement, we can also walk more alone and enjoy the silence and solitude of solitudeTranquility。Instead of chasing the eyes and admiration of others, find true inner peace and happiness.
The workplace is a place where people pursue profit and achievement, but after retirement, we can return to ourselves and rediscover our inner balance and contentment. In the workplace, we are constantly busy, pursuing growth in our work and salary. However, at the same time, it can bring a series of worries and stress. When we retire, there is a sudden feeling of "liberation". Retirement islifeAn inflection point where we are no longer bound by the workplace and have the freedom to spend our time and energy. We can choose to do what we love and not have to be tied up by the troubles of profit.
After retirement, we redefinelifeopportunities for us to devote more time and energy to things that we are really interested in. No longer bothered by the stress and busyness of the workplace, we can pursue our heartsTranquilityand joy. Tao Yuanmingof retirementlifeis a good example, he abandoned the kind of busyness and utilitarianism after the workplace, and chose to study, farm, write articles, drink, and live a free lifelife。His actions may have been considered "waste wood" at the time, but he found true fearlessness in the uselessness. After retirement, we can also pursue inner peace and freedom, do something we love, and no longer have to be bothered by interests and worries.
ParentingIt is an important responsibility of every parent, but after retirement, we can let our children grow up on their own. After retirement, we no longer play the role of main facilitator and supporter, but let the children face it themselveslifechallenges and opportunities to grow. We should respect the child's personality development and ability to think independently, and should not be overly interfering or expecting the child to be what he wants to be. We need to understand that children have their own nature and development path, and our role is to accompany and guide, not to control and restrict.
ParentingIt is an art, not a utilitarian act. When we retire, we can better play our role as parents, giving our children more freedom and support so that they can grow independently. We need to understand that children have their own unique personalities and potentials, and we should respect and encourage their development. No longer overly focus on children's utilitarianism and success, but more on their inner world and happiness. It doesn't matter if the child can be or notSocialWe need to believe that "useful people" will find their own path in life and pursue their own happiness and meaning.
Doing something useless is not a call to laziness or aimlessness, but rather an emphasis on the importance of finding inner peace and freedom. After retirement, we can choose to do things that seem useless, such as reading useless books, doing useless things, and pursuing useless pleasures. These seemingly useless things are actually expressions of the pursuit of inner truth and freedom. By doing these useless things, we can find the heartTranquilityand pleasure, to break free from the shackles of utilitarianism and to reconnect with one's own heart.
After retirement, we can pursue some non-utilitarian interests and hobbies, such as reading, writing, painting, etcTravelWait. These activities may seem useless, but they can bring us to the heartTranquilityand satisfied. By pursuing these useless pleasures, we can relax and develop our hobbies that will improve uslifequality and a sense of pleasure. Retirement does not mean the pursuit of utilitarianism and achievement, but the pursuit of inner peace and freedom.
After retirement, we advise you to be a "useless" person. "Useless" here does not refer to the pursuit of laziness or lack of goals, but the pursuit of inner truth and freedom. Retirement islifeAn inflection point where we should redefine ourselveslifeand pursuit. The pursuit of solitude and authentic socialization, the return to self and the pursuit of inner peace, letting goParentingAnd letting children grow up on their own, doing something useless, and pursuing the joy of freedom are all things we can do in retirement. By redefining "useless", we can enjoy retirement even morelifeto regain oneself and pursue inner peace and pleasure. lifeThere is no right or wrong, the important thing is that we can find what we really wantlifeway to live a wonderful and meaningful retirementlife