Shi Yue once said:
"People who are more talented than me, without my efforts. People who work harder than me are not as talented as me. People who are both more talented and harder than me, no one can survive without me. ”
In this life, if you can survive it, you can be outstanding, and if you can't get through it, you can only get out, and the reality has always been like this.
Maybe when learning a skill, smart people, talented people, will grow faster.
However, only those who have perseverance and can survive to the end can win in the end.
Life is not boiled, life is in vain.
Because you will eventually understand that the more a person is willing to boil, dare to boil, and Xi get used to it, life will become more and more exciting.
If you are willing to endure the life and like to toss the attitude, your life will become more and more energetic and hopeful.
A kind of ability to boil
In fact, everyone's skills are based on boiling at the beginning.
Because all people don't like to take the initiative to learn, and in the process of learning, they will definitely feel very painful.
After all, learning knowledge, learning skills, and learning to change are all a pain and a kind of suffering.
Only by constantly letting yourself persist and let yourself survive can you slowly make a little achievement and produce a little effect.
Of course, when you really pay and really go through, once you see the results, your mood is different.
Even if there is some frustration, it will be difficult to persevere, or even if you are not sure if you can persevere.
But obviously, when you grow little by little, you have a harvest, and you have the so-called reward, your psychological state is different.
At this time, you will slowly realize that in the process of boiling, it seems that it is not as tormented as before.
Writer Lian Yue once said:
"Everyone who has a little expectation of their life is like this, they need to boil, this hard work is destined to endure, happy children are like this, and the same is true for unfortunate children, but everyone has a different path to boil. ”
Whether it is the growth of a person, or the desire to practice a skill, it needs to be boiled, and it will not be effective if it is not boiled.
Just like every strong tree, if it doesn't survive the ups and downs, it can't spread its branches at all.
People are also like this, in the process of being young and ignorant, like a blank piece of paper, dare to boil, not afraid of ups and downs, and not afraid of dark failure, so that they can survive through long-term accumulation and persistence.
Stay up and boil, and it's done
In fact, the reason why most people feel that they are particularly painful in the process of doing something is that this pain is not caused by the thing itself, but by their own imagination.
Only by getting through it will you find out the reason and find the truth.
Because when a person stays up, it seems that he is Xi to it, and he seems to have overcome, which means that he has survived out of the realm.
Of course, some people have survived, but instead of making progress and gaining no gains, they have become more numb and more painful.
But in fact, this is because I boiled in the wrong direction, the wrong law, and even I didn't want to boil it from the beginning, but I had to boil it for various reasons.
The result will not deceive people, even if you deceive yourself and others, but cause and effect, the law of cause and effect, will make you understand what is the right answer.
Peter Drucker, the father of modern management, said
"A person with a purpose will radiate great energy. The more purposeful the paranoia, the more likely it is to achieve great things. ”
A person with a goal can take out a spirit of boiling to deal with the current goal.
The more clear the goal, the more dare to boil, learn wholeheartedly, and do without distractions, the efficiency will become more and more, and the results will become more and more obvious.
Don't do something for the sake of profit, for the purpose of doing it once and for all, with a particularly strong sense of ambition.
Because when a person's goal is not pure, no matter how good the job prospect is, you will only become more and more tormented in it.
This kind of torment will only ruin you.
A good life is not afraid of boiling
Some people say: "What comes out of suffering is life, what comes out of boiling is life, and what comes out of forcing out is life."
Good food is not afraid of late, sincerity is not afraid of late, at all times we must believe, as long as the heart is pure enough, the goal is clear enough, and the desire is sincere enough.
Then, patience will breed in the heart, be willing to take the initiative to give, and be willing to let yourself boil in order to see the final effect.
This kind of good process has a clear goal, a tenacious concept, and the determination to get through to the end.
Therefore, a good life depends on this kind of boiling, slowly boiling out, and slowly spelling out.
No one's life is smooth sailing, and no one's life can be smooth, only by constantly boiling out the ability and wisdom, your life can come out sooner or later.