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There are poems:"Life is like a pot of porridge, tormented and boiled.
It is advisable to look at the heat, and the ups and downs are self-sufficient. ”
Life is like a process of boiling porridge, whether the porridge out of the pot is paste, or fragrant, it all depends on whether you have your heart, focus, and effort in the process of boiling.
I saw this question on the Internet: "Why do some people say that the trough period is the best value-added period?".”
Among them, there is a netizen's answer that makes people feel empowered:
"Everyone has a low period and a peak period in their life, but some people have a shorter low period and some people have a longer low period.
A longer trough is not necessarily a bad thing, and the more you accumulate during the trough, the higher the height you can reach during the peak.
We see that some people become famous at a young age, but they lack stamina. And some people are accumulating thick and thin, late bloomers, and once successful, they will be famous all over the world. ”
Indeed, if you can endure it, your life can get better, and if you can't endure it, your life will collapse.
Because everyone's life has ups and downs, troughs, and peaks.
However, staying in the trough for a longer time, or standing at the peak for a longer time, depends on a person's ability to survive.
Only by boiling and constantly boiling can we accumulate thick and thin, make great progress, and show the edge.
Boiling is the ability
In fact, what kind of ability a person has, what kind of life he has.
And the acquisition of a person's ability is all by tempering and training in things.
How strong a person's ability to grow is, how big his future may be.
Because there is no success, it comes out of thin air, and behind all the results, it needs to be watered by sweat.
To put it bluntly, only by boiling, only practicing, only learning, and only forbearance can we grasp the essence of doing things step by step, and refine experience and lessons.
Those who can't stand it, in the face of some small difficulties and small problems in life, they are impatient when they encounter challenges at the beginning, and try to escape by all means, and hope that the people around them can help them.
However, when I slowly found that no one could be relied on and no one could help, I panicked, collapsed, and couldn't stand it, so I simply chose to lie down.
Writer Lune said:
"In everyone's life, there are a few bites of overnight cold food that you can't eat, and you have to swallow it. ”
It is impossible for people to grow if they run away from problems and give up when they encounter difficulties.
Too many people can hold on until tomorrow or the day after tomorrow, but they choose to give up today or even yesterday.
They are afraid of boiling, they are afraid that they can't afford to consume it, they feel that their lives can't afford to hurt, so they simply give up early and do something that is easy to do.
However, those hardships that you can't endure after a few bites, those hardships that you can't endure, sooner or later, it will continue to come back in another way to punish you and torture you.
There is a quote in The Seventh Day:
"No matter how good the experience is, it will be a thing of the past, and no matter how deep the sorrow will fall on yesterday.
Just as time passes mercilessly, life is like a healing process, we are hurt, we are healed, we are hurt again, we are healed again. ”
In fact, in this life, there is no so-called great suffering and great compassion, as long as one's heart is light, calm, clear, and open.
Well, everything is nothing more than that.
If you are injured, you can heal, if you are tired, you can rest, and if you suffer, you can survive.
As long as you are willing to boil, you will be able to boil out real skills and real skills.
Boiling is wisdom
Life is always difficult.
Just as there are ten unsatisfactory things in life, life will not be peaceful in everyone's life.
It is precisely because life is often not peaceful that everyone feels that a peaceful life is truly beautiful.
However, a person also needs a kind of wisdom to boil his heart, so that he can calm his heart, balance his heart, and calm his heart.
Only in the process of boiling can we experience loneliness, loneliness, and pain, and then slowly mature and grow independently in the ups and downs of life.
Everyone has dark times, and they need to walk alone through a long, lonely journey.
During this journey, if you can't survive and choose to escape, or give up halfway, it will be more difficult to walk next.
Márquez once wrote in his book:
"Life has never left solitude and existed on its own. Whether we are born, we grow, we love each other, or we succeed or fail
Until the end, loneliness exists like a shadow in a corner of life. ”
Human birth, growth, and so-called metamorphosis all have a painful process.
Of course, if you can't stand it, you should choose not to face it, not to solve it, not to think about it.
Then, if you don't survive, you can't carry it, you can't carry it, and in the end, it will be impossible to transform, or even grow.
This is also why most people can't bear the hardships of growing up, can't endure the hardships of life, and then live more and more narrowly, more and more stubbornly, and even more and more failures.
Such a person will undoubtedly make life more passive, difficult, and even eventually eaten up by the shallow worldly under the shallow cognition.
Boiling is a blessing
If a person understands cause and effect, and understands life, he will know that in fact, many times, everything has multiple aspects.
You see, although life is bitter and difficult at the beginning, if you carry it yourself, you will find that even if you encounter some challenges and problems, your mentality will be stable, and you will no longer be as anxious and painful as before.
Later, I continued to boil, and even was willing to take the initiative to boil, and found that life became more and more smooth, the mentality became more and more, and life became more and more blessed.
Sanmao once said in "Send You a Horse".
"What is the heart, there is like a thousand miles of maze, thousands of miles away, there is no boat to cross people, except for self-crossing, others can not help. ”
In this life, don't have too high expectations, don't belittle yourself, and don't make some things for no reason and worrying about the sky.
Let yourself calm down, go with the flow, calm down, even if you will encounter many challenges and difficulties in the future, be brave and go through it slowly.
After all, you will find that in the process of boiling, you have achieved self-transcendence, self-healing, self-reliance, and self-consistency.